Munchies:
I know you say you can't talk about these things because of your culture. Frankly, that's not true. And I know this becuase your boyfriend shows all the signs of being willing to talk.
You are just scared. Plain and simple. Every single time you mention a desire of yours and how you can't tell your boyfriend about it "because we don't do that here" he always turns out to be okay with it. Even excited to do it.
Angy523:
Well, probably you won't believe me, but we are actually a couple who has open and honest conversation about everything (almost). We agreed that communication is very important so we do that. But yes, I'm scared of this topic, maybe without an actual reason, but it's the way I grew up. That's why I always mention our culture and things like that. Anyway, thanks to you I still have said more than I would have without your encoragement. But I need time to mentally prepare every time I have to speak about this topic with him.
Now, I have a question: is there any way to make him eat much without feeling sick? Yesterday he ate a lot again, but felt sick after
I know you say you can't talk about these things because of your culture. Frankly, that's not true. And I know this becuase your boyfriend shows all the signs of being willing to talk.
You are just scared. Plain and simple. Every single time you mention a desire of yours and how you can't tell your boyfriend about it "because we don't do that here" he always turns out to be okay with it. Even excited to do it.
Angy523:
Well, probably you won't believe me, but we are actually a couple who has open and honest conversation about everything (almost). We agreed that communication is very important so we do that. But yes, I'm scared of this topic, maybe without an actual reason, but it's the way I grew up. That's why I always mention our culture and things like that. Anyway, thanks to you I still have said more than I would have without your encoragement. But I need time to mentally prepare every time I have to speak about this topic with him.
Now, I have a question: is there any way to make him eat much without feeling sick? Yesterday he ate a lot again, but felt sick after
Hey, no shame in that. Baby steps. Rome wasn't built in a day.
Coincidentally, this is the same advice about increasing your boyfriend's capacity. Gotta work up to it. In many ways, stuffing is like training for a sporting event.
You already know your boyfriend's capacity. My advice is stuff him to the point he's comfortable stuffed and go slightly beyond it. Over time, you'll notice it will take more food to get him to that point.
Feel free to increase the intensity later, but for now, this should suffice.
Afterwards, be sure to give him belly rubs. It helps with digestion as well as getting any trapped air out. You may even find he's willing to eat a bit more after a good belly rubbing session.
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