Fattening others

Angy523:
I kinda need ideas to make him gain more. He doesn't have too much soda lately or so many snacks he used to 😒

Munchies:
Be patient. He hasn't been gaining long. He does need time to acclimate to his weight gain.

Also, does he still want to gain, or is he just content to exist?

Angy523:
Well, when we talked he told me that he's just to lazy to restrict himself from certain foods and he is aware this would make him gain. So basically, from this discussion I think he doesn't (and didn't) want to gain but at the same time he doesn't mind gaining.

On the other hand, whe he ckecked the scale and he saw the same weight he had last time, he went to eat. He has dessert cooked by his mom and he asked me to cook him another one. He is eating bigger portions or he has seconds. I'm sure he is aware that this behaviour will make him gain and I don't think this is just about "being too lazy". Idk, there are some mixed signals so I can't tell if he wants to gain or not

Munchies:
Like I said. Be patient. Did you forget that originally he didn't want to gain weight and mostly started because he knew you loved it? He's relaxed about his eating habits, but that doesn't mean he has fulled accepted the fat lifestyle.

And that's ok. Let him figure out what he wants and support/love him through it. Another user said to love him as he is. This is good advice. He is your boyfriend first and your feedee second. For now, don't worry too much about his weight.

Angy523:
I love him as he is...I love him a lot, I just get too excited thinking of how he would look in the future. But I love him as he is now and I'm enjoying his body really much

Angy523:
I kinda need ideas to make him gain more. He doesn't have too much soda lately or so many snacks he used to 😒

Munchies:
Be patient. He hasn't been gaining long. He does need time to acclimate to his weight gain.

Also, does he still want to gain, or is he just content to exist?

Angy523:
Well, when we talked he told me that he's just to lazy to restrict himself from certain foods and he is aware this would make him gain. So basically, from this discussion I think he doesn't (and didn't) want to gain but at the same time he doesn't mind gaining.

On the other hand, whe he ckecked the scale and he saw the same weight he had last time, he went to eat. He has dessert cooked by his mom and he asked me to cook him another one. He is eating bigger portions or he has seconds. I'm sure he is aware that this behaviour will make him gain and I don't think this is just about "being too lazy". Idk, there are some mixed signals so I can't tell if he wants to gain or not

Munchies:
Like I said. Be patient. Did you forget that originally he didn't want to gain weight and mostly started because he knew you loved it? He's relaxed about his eating habits, but that doesn't mean he has fulled accepted the fat lifestyle.

And that's ok. Let him figure out what he wants and support/love him through it. Another user said to love him as he is. This is good advice. He is your boyfriend first and your feedee second. For now, don't worry too much about his weight.

Angy523:
I love him as he is...I love him a lot, I just get too excited thinking of how he would look in the future. But I love him as he is now and I'm enjoying his body really much

Munchies:
I get it. I do. When I'm in feeder mode with my feedee, I want to fatten him up as much as I can as fast as I can. (I'm a sadist domme feeder who loves her men *big*.) But I give myself regular reality checks so I don't loose myself too much.

Enas:
Im jealous... o.0



Btw i still need q few tips from you Munchies! XD

Angy523:
He lost weight (he was sick) and he is eating less again....I'll give up soon, I don't think he will ever be as fat as I want him. I thought it will be easy since he was fat before and both of his parents are fat.

Angy523:
He lost weight (he was sick) and he is eating less again....I'll give up soon, I don't think he will ever be as fat as I want him. I thought it will be easy since he was fat before and both of his parents are fat.

Munchies:
Oof. Glad he's better.

Weight gain and weight loss are both rather complex things. There are many factors for both. It's true that if your parents are fat, and you where once fat, you are more likely to be fat. But these are not the only indicators.

You are impatient. You want a fat boyfriend now and are unwilling to wait. Weight goes up and down all the time for various reason.

If you want to give up, that's fine. Love your boyfriend as he is, and you will be happy.

CuppaJoe:
You have a BF who is accepting of your kink and preferences, who is using bedroom talk as a way to please you, and who has put on some weight as a way to please you. I think it would be helpful for you to adjust your focus away from lamenting what you don't have yet, and towards an appreciation for what you DO have. 😊

I think that many members here would confirm that they would be THRILLED to find someone who has taken the steps that your partner has already made with you. It's okay for you to prefer a larger size, but your latest post could be interpreted like situations in which a male partner wants his girlfriend to lose a few more pounds, or to have bigger breasts, or have long hair, etc. We tend to frown on a partner in a relationship asking their partner to change instead of loving them for who they are in the present.

I love that you two have a great relationship and I hope that you both enjoy this kink together. Give it time... there will be weight gained and lost. If you love each other, his increased size will be an added bonus to the relationship!

CuppaJoe:
You have a BF who is accepting of your kink and preferences, who is using bedroom talk as a way to please you, and who has put on some weight as a way to please you. I think it would be helpful for you to adjust your focus away from lamenting what you don't have yet, and towards an appreciation for what you DO have. 😊

I think that many members here would confirm that they would be THRILLED to find someone who has taken the steps that your partner has already made with you. It's okay for you to prefer a larger size, but your latest post could be interpreted like situations in which a male partner wants his girlfriend to lose a few more pounds, or to have bigger breasts, or have long hair, etc. We tend to frown on a partner in a relationship asking their partner to change instead of loving them for who they are in the present.

I love that you two have a great relationship and I hope that you both enjoy this kink together. Give it time... there will be weight gained and lost. If you love each other, his increased size will be an added bonus to the relationship!

LoraDayton:
I would encourage you to also look into how nutrition actually works.