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*Stares at you in heterosexual domme feeder with a male feedee*

Lol, what the heck are you talking about? We do exist on FF. There's a lot of us too. But I have noticed some things that may explain your situation.

There are a lot of guys on here that are ... to put in mildly ... insane, gross, and creepy. Not all of them are like that. But there's so many of them that even some of my bisexual female friends have sworn off all the men on this site.

And for the ones that are straight? It's hell, man. If you look through the forums, you can see horror story after horror story. I can even share some of my own with you if you want.

Still, of the male feedees I'm friends with on this site (bisexual, pansexual, and heterosexual) they don't have issues finding female feeders (romantic, sexual, and platonic). It helps that they are all kind, respectful, personable, and bring more to the table than an empty belly.

These are not rich men. They have average looks. But their character plays a huge roll in their success.

They're not going to come running to your side with a post like this. What responses are you hoping to get? If it's to hear from other guys in the same place, there are many.

Sure, there aren't as many women into big guys, and if you want to be specific about finding thin women into fat men, that's an even smaller group of ladies.

Remember... They have a LOT of fat guys to choose from, and personality and respect go a very long way, as they don't owe anybody anything.

Are you kidding? There are even tiktoks of men asking women if he were skinny would they like him; all said they prefer him now.

Women like thick men, men with dad bods, men with a big belly to keep them warm at night.

Sounds like you only want skinny women, you know by the fact you specified it. And atop that you need to have a wonderful personality as that matters more to most femmes than looks.

I am not even a FEEDER and my roommate gained 100lbs living with me as he discovered flavour, we naturally love to feed people as its our culture in most ethnicities and communities. We love to nurture and feed even if NOT in the lifestyle.

So please , no offense, open your eyes and realize it is not physicality's that prevent women from wanting you ;P

The problem is in the mirror. Work on that

Most women on this site are too darn picky !!!

I am very curious as to how you define "picky".

That's a huge generalisation. I'm a woman (though not a skinny one) and I'm here to appreciate both fat females and males. I love them.

You have *got* to be wiser about asking these questions. Too many people on here say these things, and if people don't step in early to shut it down, it turns into the "He-man woman hater" club. You can already see a few posts on this specific thread that are going in that direction.

^men writing their own warning labels.
“I’m not gross, YOU just need to lower your standards!” Smdh.
Just waiting for this whole thread to devolve into a self-impeded trash fire.

My partner and I got together on a regular dating site. She wasn't a feeder, I was fat from the off, and we hit it off and built a relationship based on mutual understanding and respect for each other. Women who are into fat men certainly exist, as are women who don't care if you're fat.

While I tend to dislike sweeping generalisations, in general men seem to think more with their dicks, women more with their heads and hearts. Seeing people with what you're looking for can hurt and be frustrating, sure. But breaking out of that entitlement cycle, and the frustrations that come from feeling rejected and alone, is important if you want something sustainable. It can be tough, but once done you'll be exponentially more attractive. The combo of desperation and horniess is as a general rule not the most appealing trait to be showing potential partners. Develop yourself, respect yourself, and respect others.