Totally get where you’re coming from as I’m in a similar situation. There is a food freedom in the house and snacks are always restocked/overstocked in the house. She’s looking fuller for sure and I’m starting to gain back weight I had inadvertently lost.
I bring it up when she mentions how “chubby” she’s gotten. She knows I appreciate her gaining weight, but am not forcing it upon her.
Just ask her how she feel that now is eating more and if she likes this too, comunication is the key for this, maybe she does not want to be huge but she can enjoy some weight gain and could be fun for both of you
