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Greetings fellow members of fantasy feeder. The thought of thinking has been on my mind latey and it makes me wonder "Why do I like BIG chicks so much?" which then causes me to go through the list of "Well, I had a lot of chubby babysitters when I was younger and violet beauregarde."

But this begs the question what has brought others into this community?

It would be appreciated if you would post your experience below and we can collaborate.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Other than subconscious, I first "got" something sexually while watching Fat Like Me on Lifetime. Seeing Kaley Cuoco go from thin to hefty in mere seconds got me going, and I got on the web after that.

What do you mean other than subconscious?

I would say its just a preference you have.
No reason to over think why its just what you like and part of who you are.
I was skinny in high school and I always preferred dating the fat guys because I liked their personalities.
Guys with big egos were a turn off for me.
My girlfriends thought I was crazy.

It’s a preference that started for me in elementary school when a girl who was already fat for being just eight years old took a liking to me. (We’re still friends to this day). It’s just that soft, pillowy, reassuring feel to a chubby lady’s body that’s always turned me on.

I dated two girls in my 20s and 30s that, in the case of the first one, gained a lot while we were together or, in the second one’s case, was big all her life. When I was 38, I met my current wife, at a concert. I was into her from the first moment her short, chubby little self came waking up for the first time. We fell in love for what we had to say and feel much more so than just our physiques. She’s gained about 70 more pounds and myself about 40 since that first night. We’d want no one else but each other now :-)

The first time I remember realizing I liked fat people and wanted to be fat was when I was 5 in the grocery store, I was standing with my mom and this obese family passed by, and I just felt totally jealous of their bodies and I told my mom I wanted to be fat like them, which is when I was told for the first time that I shouldn't want to be fat by my mom. But after that I was always madly jealous of the obese kids in school and the parents they had to allow them to become obese. When I started discovering my sexuality I knew I was turned on by fat, but it took me longer to accept that I wanted to become fat myself

I meant like, kids shows with weight gain elements.

Warning TMI.
I remember being a teenager and realizing I liked beautiful women skinny women. I knew they were pretty and I appreciated their beautiful but I didnt feel the same way other guys talked about them. I looked at mainstream porn and it just didn`t do it for me. To be honest I thought i might be gay. Watching gay porn disproved that for me. I remembered feeling a little tingly feeling when i saw a fat person and a belly. I explored that going on one of the well known sites at the time. Many of you know of Mercedes BBW and I remember that was my first climaxing. Thats when I began my endeavor into the plus sized world.

For me, it really kicked off in college, as that was when people around me started gaining weight. From then on, I only dated fat women. It’s rare for me to find an average sized woman, but not out of the question.

A big influence for me was Renaissance art. Titian's "Concert Champetre" was an eye opener at a young age.