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Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Eating Dude   Germany
Joined 2 years
Hi,

I always think about feederism the last few days and also chat with people about it. To be honest it makes me horny and I can't focus very good on tasks I have to do!

How do you manage this??
1 year

Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Fat Heidi   Germany
Joined 1 year
Hi,
is this the only time that something caught your interest so much, that you can't focus on anything else? Like a hobby or a topic or something? To me, it happens all the time. Something's new, I spend some days or weeks thinking about it all the time - then whether lose interest or it calms down to a normal level. Try not to be online or on the specific sites or chats all the time. Schedule a time that is only for your important things and get them done. You can be on this site or chat in the evenings or whenever you have the time. Don't stress yourself.
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Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Curveman   United Kingdom
Joined 6 years
Can only agree that it is hard to manage. I should be working now but.....
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Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Munchies   United States
Joined 2 years
Eating Dude:
Hi,

I always think about feederism the last few days and also chat with people about it. To be honest it makes me horny and I can't focus very good on tasks I have to do!

How do you manage this??


I find that any time an interest becomes disruptive to daily life, it's a sign that you are using it as an emotional crutch. There's some aspect or aspects about your life that you don't like, and you've found respite within your fetish.

Once you've dealt with that, you'll obsess less or even completely.
1 year

Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Eating Dude   Germany
Joined 2 years
Good idea to set up times when do be on chats and feederism sites etc.

But as I want to gain a bit more I also need to eat more. And my full belly on some days turns me on a lot on some days. Fortunately, today it was Okay. Maybe I just should gain rapidly and be okay with those fantasies one day
1 year

Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Eating Dude   Germany
Joined 2 years
Fat Heidi:
Hi,
is this the only time that something caught your interest so much, that you can't focus on anything else? Like a hobby or a topic or something? To me, it happens all the time. Something's new, I spend some days or weeks thinking about it all the time - then whether lose interest or it calms down to a normal level. Try not to be online or on the specific sites or chats all the time. Schedule a time that is only for your important things and get them done. You can be on this site or chat in the evenings or whenever you have the time. Don't stress yourself.


It's not the only thing that is sometimes disturbing me. I gues the fact that it's also sexual makes it look more disturbing compared to a new game or something
1 year

Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Jelly Rolls   United States
Joined 2 years
Eating Dude:
Hi,

I always think about feederism the last few days and also chat with people about it. To be honest it makes me horny and I can't focus very good on tasks I have to do!

How do you manage this??

Hey… it sounds like you have built up sexual tension. It sounds like you have repressed this part of yourself and now have feelings that need to be met. I’d recommend allowing yourself to masterbait to your fat fantasy/porn when the feelings start to manifest. When you finish you should be able to focus better. It’s more productive to just get it over with so that you can go on.
1 year

Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Jelly Rolls   United States
Joined 2 years
Eating Dude:
Hi,

I always think about feederism the last few days and also chat with people about it. To be honest it makes me horny and I can't focus very good on tasks I have to do!

How do you manage this??

Hey… it sounds like you have built up sexual tension. It sounds like you have repressed this part of yourself and now have feelings that need to be met. I’d recommend allowing yourself to masterbait to your fat fantasy/porn when the feelings start to manifest. When you finish you should be able to focus better. It’s more productive to just get it over with so that you can go on.
1 year

Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Bellyempire   United States
Joined 13 years
Eating Dude:
Hi,

I always think about feederism the last few days and also chat with people about it. To be honest it makes me horny and I can't focus very good on tasks I have to do!

How do you manage this??



I would suggest finding a partner who is into it. You can have it that interest fulfilled consistently.
1 year

Always thinking about feederism holds me back from being productive

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Eating Dude   Germany
Joined 2 years
Eating Dude:
Hi,

I always think about feederism the last few days and also chat with people about it. To be honest it makes me horny and I can't focus very good on tasks I have to do!

How do you manage this??

Jelly Rolls:
Hey… it sounds like you have built up sexual tension. It sounds like you have repressed this part of yourself and now have feelings that need to be met. I’d recommend allowing yourself to masterbait to your fat fantasy/porn when the feelings start to manifest. When you finish you should be able to focus better. It’s more productive to just get it over with so that you can go on.


Guess that's true just to take a pause and then start working
1 year