Lifestyle tips

It might not help right now but as a male I can 100% assure you that there are large numbers of other males who (often secretly) admire large ladies as yourself. From your very nice photo, I know that you will be admired by many. Speaking for myself, I think that you will get even more appealing with increased size. Do keep us posted...

I would like to think that most people aren't jerks.

MrFATS53 You are so right i have been admiring large ladies for years. Hopefully my secret fantasy will come true one day as i cant help but find a woman of size to be very attractive. AmandaD29 please keep being you not all men find skinny ladies attractive as MrFATS53 said you are going to look so good with an increased size i cant wait to see.

There are those people who are judgemental and nasty out there but there are people who treat others well still no matter what they look like.
Especially now a days with more push for body equality. Even if someone is over 300lbs they should have the same respect as someone over 5 or 600lbs.
The attraction is definitely high for plus size. "I see all sorts of women who are different sizes and in love around where I am. You will have someone come into your life and fullfill your hearts needs and wants.

so you are wonderful _)

When I was young, I developed the habit of 'sucking in' my gut because of the social stigma of being a 'fat kid' and trying to reduce this.

Even now this 'instinct' to suck it in remains, partially because of said instinct as I was doing it for so long and partially because I was concerned about the reaction to my 'sudden' weight gain (as opposed to months/years of slower gain).

Well today I decided to screw this and whilst at work tried to actively work against said 'instinct', making sure it was as 'loose' as possible resulting in a slightly bigger bulge and more 'jiggle' as I walk.

Guess what, no comments. So far it seems like all that fear was for nothing. So unless something happens I'm just going to continue and try to force myself to stop sucking it in.

I'd say my biggest concern for OP is where they're also actively denying themselves activities because of their concern, when they could be worrying over nothing like I was.

Happy to have helped that confidence, along with others here :-) Sounds like you all weee the hottest babes on the beach!

Update to my previous post.

So for the last couple of days I've been continuing to no longer suck my gut in after decades of doing so.

As before I've still yet to hear any comments.

But today I faced what I think was the ultimate challenge.....family.

In the end neither my parents nor my brothers seemed to notice or they didn't care, including the one who I especially thought would be the one to say something, in fact he joked about how I would be able to eat an entire Large pizza by myself (which of course I did).

Tl;dr: Nobody seems to care and I'm just going to continue being myself.

You will find that most people do not care about what you look like. Doesn't even matter what you look like. Most people won't give you a second glance. It's liberating to think about.

It is very liberating because the assumption is that people will stare and laugh but most don't really see you in a way. It is very trippy. The fatter I got it was like the less people cared and just chilled with the fact that I am really fat now.