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Hey,

Been lurking on site for a while now but I'm not sure where to post this question so I'll put it in the general forum here. How many feedee's actually want immobillity.

When I was previosly on this site, I got a lot of messages from feedees with profiles that established that immobility was an end goal. I don't think I want that from a partner... Would you say that this accounts for the majority of members on this site?

I ask because despite what my profiles say, I do hope to participate in this kink when money is no longer as tight. Any and all feedback is helpful

-Somefeedeeguy

From my conversations with a number of feedees and gainers, I'd day maybe 65% don't want to be immobile for real. It's strictly fantasy. But, there's still a good chunk of people who actively want to become immobile but don't have the means or are actively working towards it.

This was helpful, thanks. While do want my future partner (very) large, I know for fact I would probably get frustrated in relationship in which I'm sole caretaker frustrating.

Having been a caretaker in a non-fetish way, I feel that most feeders into immobility are woefully unprepared - especially if they plan to be the sole caretaker.

No. That's not what I ever wanted when I became a part of the community 10+ years ago. I just want a guy who loves playing with my belly and occasionally stuffing me. Teasing, etc.

If a situation occurred in which a feedee could no longer complete everyday tasks and they were in a feedist relationship it would be on the feeder 100% to help the feedee.

from my experience as an encourager a lot of people fantasize about being immobile but the majority would not consider going there IRL .. it's just something they want for role play. I think many are turned on by the physical limitation of being that big (being stuck, being too big to fit in/through stuff, not being able to pick up something off the floor, etc..) but not the actual health risks associated with morbid obesity (there are exceptions of course).
As a feeder you do have the right to discuss limits with your feedee if you are in a committed relationship since you both will have to live the through the consequences of your decision. And I totally agree immobility could be a sexy fantasy for role play but in real life it would be a deal breaker for me.