Blackjackandberries:
Its truly disheartening, and its why I've gone on a hiatus in the past. I'm a lesbian feeder, but also a feedee now at this point because I've been unable to find a feedee.
No shade to men, but it seems a vast majority of them don't read my profile or respect that I am a lesbian.
I don't mind chatting about weight gain and such with people, its just... come on. Dating wise, next to no lesbians exist in this scene and its beyond isolating.
We can't afford to be picky.
I do agree with you. Not only is it really hard to find a (lesbian) feedee but it is also a bit demoralizing when you realize that this person lives in another country and that seeing each other irl is less likely to happen.
But, well, if you take a look at the topics under this "feeder/feedee" thread, you'll see that you're not the only one in a similar situation. I mean, regardless of their sexual orientation, it seems that a lot of people in the thread have trouble finding a feeder/feedee too. I think it must be one of the major issues (if not THE major issue lol) within this community. Feeders/feedees are so close, yet so far and it's frustrating.
