Lifestyle tips

ForeverFFA:
I can't believe I waited until my late twenties to open up to a real-life partner about wanting to explore feeding someone, but I was freaking out even just telling him what I was into. He seemed way more calm than I was and is definitely game for trying stuff, but for some reason the thought of finally getting what I want makes me panic, which obviously isn't ideal for having a good time. How to get beyond this?

For clarification: I would be the feeder and my partner is brand new to this kink. Only gentle feeding and moderate weight gain are on the table, but I think part of my fear is related to guilt over what this might mean for him outside of our relationship.

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

Munchies:
Easiest thing to do is make a big meal and encourage him to be as greedy as he likes. Let him control the pace and intensity. Then help him to the conch for cuddles, a movie of his choice, and belly rubs. Maybe some dessert when/if he's feeling up to it.

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

Munchies:
Easiest thing to do is make a big meal and encourage him to be as greedy as he likes. Let him control the pace and intensity. Then help him to the conch for cuddles, a movie of his choice, and belly rubs. Maybe some dessert when/if he's feeling up to it.

Kacchan:
This sounds absolutely perfect, and a great way to break things in. I'm actually jealous!

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

Munchies:
Easiest thing to do is make a big meal and encourage him to be as greedy as he likes. Let him control the pace and intensity. Then help him to the conch for cuddles, a movie of his choice, and belly rubs. Maybe some dessert when/if he's feeling up to it.

Kacchan:
This sounds absolutely perfect, and a great way to break things in. I'm actually jealous!

Munchies:
Feedism doesn't have to be eating a billion calories a day to gain a million lbs in a week. It can also be cute and fluffy. I may be a sadistic domme feeder, but I enjoy the domestic side of things too.

ForeverFFA:
Definitely agree, and thanks for the tips! This is more our speed, as I'm into the sensual/sweet side of feedism and my partner doesn't want to endlessly gain. I'll dig around on the old forums too - I realize there's probably already other threads about "soft" feeding ideas.

ForeverFFA:
Definitely agree, and thanks for the tips! This is more our speed, as I'm into the sensual/sweet side of feedism and my partner doesn't want to endlessly gain. I'll dig around on the old forums too - I realize there's probably already other threads about "soft" feeding ideas.

Munchies:
A good idea. The forums have been filled with people wanting to min-max their gains and explore their darkest desires. It's not bad perse, but we need some more kink diversity.

ForeverFFA:
Wow, you're right...there's practically nothing out there, and the only ones I found ended after like 2-3 posts. I guess it's just not the kind of thing people need FF for.

Munchies:
Personally, I think we can use more fluffy kink. I think FF should feel as welcoming a place to gentle feedism as it is more extreme feedism. And if you are one of those people, all the better.

ForeverFFA:
Definitely agree, and thanks for the tips! This is more our speed, as I'm into the sensual/sweet side of feedism and my partner doesn't want to endlessly gain. I'll dig around on the old forums too - I realize there's probably already other threads about "soft" feeding ideas.

Munchies:
A good idea. The forums have been filled with people wanting to min-max their gains and explore their darkest desires. It's not bad perse, but we need some more kink diversity.

ForeverFFA:
Wow, you're right...there's practically nothing out there, and the only ones I found ended after like 2-3 posts. I guess it's just not the kind of thing people need FF for.

Munchies:
Personally, I think we can use more fluffy kink. I think FF should feel as welcoming a place to gentle feedism as it is more extreme feedism. And if you are one of those people, all the better.

ForeverFFA:
Thank you! Maybe I'll start yet another new thread with ideas next time I'm bored, but I've been hoping to cut back on that habit before I annoy people lol.

Munchies:
Personally, I think we can use more fluffy kink. I think FF should feel as welcoming a place to gentle feedism as it is more extreme feedism. And if you are one of those people, all the better.

Sweetfattie:
A-freakin-men. I'm not into the extreme stuff, I want a sweet, caring feeder who gets pleasure from making me happy.