Tree17:
Is anyone else on here actually looking for something real? I know a lot of people come here to sell content or get off, but does anyone want to find someone to enjoy food with and their growing bellies? It would be nice to find someone to share this lifestyle with.
LoraDayton:
just like the last profile that complained about this enough to start a thread: you show *no* indication that you are any type of person except those who lurk for content. -snip-
FatAdmirerLove82:
Though for some people here, one reason we don't post much is because we view Feederism as more of a fetish and not a requirement for a relationship and have profiles on other sites that aren't focused towards the lifestyle.
Sure would being in a feederism relationship be fun... Oh gods yes, but having it a part of a meaningful relationship that doesn't require it.. Is even HOTTER.
Meaning.. If you are unable to feed them past their limits, they won't abandon you because they love you for you, not for your wallet, and not for your body.
You are missing the forest for the trees.
The reason why community participation is so important is that it gives people a way to gauge who you are as a person. This is especially true if you are looking for women.
Women are inherently skittish online because there are lots of truly vile people out there looking to use and abuse us. So we look at profiles and community engagement to judge if you are safe to be around. This goes for feedees looking for relationships or something casual.
If you don't have anything - especially if you have been a member for a while - that feedee will play it safe and not want anything to do with you. You might be a decent guy, but it for most women, it isn't worth the risk.
