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Gainingdream   Netherlands
Joined 6 months
I am unfortunately impressionable.. insecure.. someone who always lets others determine a part of my future!.. a pleaser … I am a Feedee.. I am addicted to food.. I love fat.. I love getting fat and playing with my fat.. 6 months ago I was very active with gaining and was really getting fat.. unfortunately I stopped because of em for others! I even went to a psychologist and now I am back to square one, how should I deal with this,, how do you do that?
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Ky Belly Boy   United States
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In life. You only supposed to make one person happy. And that is you. So do whatever makes you happy. I have always known that bur was told it again after my wife died last year. They said, " find something that makes you happy and do it." Getting Fatter makes me happy. So I am doing it. So that's how I handle it. And I pass it on to you. If you like being fat? Then get as fat as you want.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Gainingdream:
I am unfortunately impressionable.. insecure.. someone who always lets others determine a part of my future!.. a pleaser … I am a Feedee.. I am addicted to food.. I love fat.. I love getting fat and playing with my fat.. 6 months ago I was very active with gaining and was really getting fat.. unfortunately I stopped because of em for others! I even went to a psychologist and now I am back to square one, how should I deal with this,, how do you do that?


Go back to the therapist. Stay away from the community until you are far enough into your journey that people won't used and abuse you.

Just making a post about you being impressionable as marked you as easy prey.
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Gainingdream   Netherlands
Joined 6 months
Ky Belly Boy:
In life. You only supposed to make one person happy. And that is you. So do whatever makes you happy. I have always known that bur was told it again after my wife died last year. They said, " find something that makes you happy and do it." Getting Fatter makes me happy. So I am doing it. So that's how I handle it. And I pass it on to you. If you like being fat? Then get as fat as you want.


my condolences! that is terrible! thanks for your message! thanks for your explanation! being fat makes me happy eating makes me complete,,being fat is happiness! but sometimes also lonely.. nobody in my environment understood it! and because of all that whining about health and what is supposedly beautiful I lost weight
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Gainingdream   Netherlands
Joined 6 months
Gainingdream:
I am unfortunately impressionable.. insecure.. someone who always lets others determine a part of my future!.. a pleaser … I am a Feedee.. I am addicted to food.. I love fat.. I love getting fat and playing with my fat.. 6 months ago I was very active with gaining and was really getting fat.. unfortunately I stopped because of em for others! I even went to a psychologist and now I am back to square one, how should I deal with this,, how do you do that?

Munchies:
Go back to the therapist. Stay away from the community until you are far enough into your journey that people won't used and abuse you.

Just making a post about you being impressionable as marked you as easy prey.


Thank you for your lovely explanation! I still go to the psychologist. She says I should do what makes me happy, and honestly that is of course my family! But also getting fat.. the feederism.. I have suppressed that all my life, now I finally got fatter (over 138 kilos) and due to insecurity and especially my environment and the nagging I gave in again to lose weight and. even went to a psychologist
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Gainingdream:
I am unfortunately impressionable.. insecure.. someone who always lets others determine a part of my future!.. a pleaser … I am a Feedee.. I am addicted to food.. I love fat.. I love getting fat and playing with my fat.. 6 months ago I was very active with gaining and was really getting fat.. unfortunately I stopped because of em for others! I even went to a psychologist and now I am back to square one, how should I deal with this,, how do you do that?

Munchies:
Go back to the therapist. Stay away from the community until you are far enough into your journey that people won't used and abuse you.

Just making a post about you being impressionable as marked you as easy prey.

Gainingdream:
Thank you for your lovely explanation! I still go to the psychologist. She says I should do what makes me happy, and honestly that is of course my family! But also getting fat.. the feederism.. I have suppressed that all my life, now I finally got fatter (over 138 kilos) and due to insecurity and especially my environment and the nagging I gave in again to lose weight and. even went to a psychologist


You are very sweet. But I am serious. There are a lot of unsavory people out there that will try to manipulate you into fulfilling fantasies that are not necessarily yours.

Ideally, you should be able to express your fetish in a way that makes you happy regardless of people pushing you to gain or lose weight.
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Bigwideland   Australia
Joined 2 years
Hi am I reading your question as how you have the size you want, regardless of pressure from external stuff like friends, family and peers. When you find it hard to negotiate those pressures. Is that correct.
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