How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

In my opinion it's all about taking it slow.

Start with a small gain, see how you feel about it and the way it impacts your life (or doesn't) and go from there.

Much easier to be okay with getting huge when you do it one step at a time.
3 weeks

Has your belly button become deeper and wider as you gain weight?

For most of my gain it didn't really change in size but very recently the lower roll that connects to the bottom of my belly button has been getting puffier.

So who knows, maybe as I continue to gain it will deepen a bit.
3 weeks

Friends with fat families

MitchHedberg:
When I was younger I used to fantasize about being sent on exchange to a southern state like Texas, in a small town where everyone was fat.

Always loved the idea of that lifestyle rubbing off on me permanently as I happily return home with a BMI over 40 and a sense of acceptance that I'm gonna live out the rest of my life fat.

Piggo88:
I've definitely had that fantasy too! I went to a local college, but I often imagined what it would have been like to go to a college out of state where nobody knew me, get an unlimited dining hall pass, and just gorge myself all year. The idea of coming home having gained a Freshman 50 drove me wild.


I sort of lived this one out, only I was still young and too worried about judgement to go full out and only gained about 12lbs.

Still it was quite noticeable on my then-skinny body.
4 months

Friends with fat families

When I was younger I used to fantasize about being sent on exchange to a southern state like Texas, in a small town where everyone was fat.

Always loved the idea of that lifestyle rubbing off on me permanently as I happily return home with a BMI over 40 and a sense of acceptance that I'm gonna live out the rest of my life fat.
4 months

Healthy fats/calories?

chia seeds and hemp hearts go a long way in terms of adding healthy calories.

I like to add them to things like yogurt or hummus
4 months

Ff user who ruins people?

Once again gently tapping the "there's no such thing as thoughtcrime" sign...

Moving on!


GrowingLoveHandles:
Back to the original post.

Has anyone found these posts? I’d love to read them.

Greentrees8733:
There's one user I remember. I don't think she's exactly the one OP is addressing, but she told some stories that she claimed were true, but sounded pretty tall to me. Less explicit "ruining" that OP is describing, and more "choosing to give up everything to be immobile feedees".

But if OP and others are after real anecdotes, I don't think I know the user/posts being referenced.


Yeah the user I'm thinking of had stories about getting men to be submissive to her, so that she could convince them to gain enough weight that it would mess up their lives.

She spoke of men who lost their relationships and jobs to the intoxication of getting fat for her, and when they would reach that point and ask "what's next?" she would just say "nothing. go on and live your life, we're done here".

If true the stories are super fucked up, and hopefully weren't real. But sometimes I wish I could go back and read her detailed posts because as fantasies, they were pretty hot.
10 months

Fattest person you ever had sex with

Lovessbbws:
I dated a beautiful 525lb 5'2 lady whom fattened me up to 485ish and best sex I've ever had!


Wow would definitely love to hear the story about how she fattened you up!
10 months

Training yourself to permanently overeat/binge eat

If you're looking for "rapid weight gain" I'd recommend shooting for something like 40lbs per year, which is just shy of 1lb per week.

May not sound like much if you're used to reading stories about faster gains but trust me it's more than you'd think. 120lbs over 3 years is still quite rapid.

Personally though, I feel like the journey is much more enjoyable at around 25lbs per year. It may take 5 years instead of 3 to hit 120lbs but your body will thank you.
11 months

Anybody know if it's possible to be fit and mobile while fat?

Some inspiration for you!

The Fat Free Runner:

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This guy might not be huge but he's still visibly quite fat and he can do all sorts of crazy flips and acrobatic stuff. Very cool and inspiring, highly recommend checking him out.

But if you wanna see someone that people here would actually consider fat, I'm talking the 300lbs+ sizes, look no further than Heavy Weight Musik

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These guys are MASSIVE and check out the handstand flip they do near the beginning of this video.

Here's a bonus video where they do some handstand break dance moves

1 year

Number of fat cells

A number of things can stimulate adipogenesis in adults including medications (e.g. TZDs) and yes, Obesity.

Check out this PubMed article: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8879274/

Particulary this part right here

Excessive food/energy intake leads to the expansion of adipose tissues, including both increased numbers of fat cells, i.e., adipogenesis, and increased size of individual adipocytes (hypertrophy).


To my understanding, our bodies will generate new fat cells well beyond puberty if we keep gaining weight. When our fat cells are full, they will both enlarge in size and increase in number.

Here is another example from this pubmed study: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8879274/

In adults, fat cell number is constant over time in spite of a large turnover (about 10% of the fat cells per year) when body weight is stable. A decrease in body weight only changes fat cell size (becoming smaller), whereas an increase in body weight causes elevation of both fat cell size and number in adults.


The increase in size is bad for us, so ideally the more we can do to stimulate adipogensis, the more likely we are to be metabolically healthy while obese.

Also if you look at the wikipedia page for Lipotoxicity, you'll see that it's still undetermined whether or not Obesity is the cause.

The causative role of obesity in lipotoxicity is controversial. Some researchers claim that obesity has protective effects against lipotoxicity as it results in extra adipose tissue in which excess lipids can be stored.



My personal theory is that when you combine weight gain with "healthy" behaviors like exercise, our bodies are move in the direction of adipogenesis over fat cell hypertorphy. However, I'm willing to bet that it's mostly determined by genetics and that you're only able to influence things to a certain degree.
1 year
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