I’ll actually add that I had a similar experience with zyprexa, gaining about 20lbs in a month
*BUT*
The stuff also caused highly dangerous amounts of hypertension. I nearly fainted multiple times while in the minimum dose. It would consistently put my resting blood pressure around 200/120. I had great psych benefits from taking the med but antipsychotics are a problematic medication class that I would not recommend unless you need. My health response was abnormal mind, my chemistry is far from what a (relatively) normal person experiences but even for a normal person these meds can be problematic.
I’ve also taken seroquel and geodon which have similar effects but seroquel caused greatly intensified sleep apnea and geodon spiked my heart rate to around 100bpm resting and I almost had a cardiac event when I had a panic attack in tandem with the medication. Once again my health is fucky but like this stuff isn’t unheard of, even causing permanent problems after ceasing the meds.
Now I’m not a licensed doctor, my experience just comes from working in the space and taking a lot of these (for their intended purposes) but they all carry risks. If someone was really intent, I might say to ask their doctor about mirtazapine as it’s typically better tolerated from my anecdotal experience seeing others on it. It’s often prescribed explicitly as an appetite stimulant and I hear less complaints but it’s still an antipsychotic.

I know concern trolling is something we’re all just really done with here and y’all can do what you want. Just above all else don’t start taking or asking for stuff on a whim. Know what your getting into in advance.

I would be wary of taking any of the gen 1 antihistamines on a regular basis. There are both a bevy of known undesirable sideffects and some worrying studies into links to neural degenerative diseases and long term use of those kinds of meds. I doubt op is planning on taking it for years but do be careful.

Well aside from the fact that people who go “feed?” Whilst displaying no personality are the most boring folks on the planet and mayhaps tied into that is that for most people who want to act out this stuff irl there are 2 complications.
One is logistics, gains tend to be slow and expensive. The time and money investments tend to discourage casual feederism unless the eating part is your jam.
The other is that it tends to be both a fairly sexual and in many cases romantic thing which lends to being something you would want to do with a partner or even a love as opposed to being a purely sexual focus. At least from my own perspective as a dumpster fire romantic.
The point being is that approaching this stuff feederism first is actually oftentimes counterintuitive.

Something you might find interesting is that at least from overlapping interactions with trans and feedist communities; some feedees/gainers seem to experience something akin to weight dysphoria where they feel uncomfortable being too small or afraid or slimming down at all. It’s not a 1to1 obviously but I’ve found the comparisons quite fascinating.

That’s quite helpful. Whilst it does scare some I’m trying to go relatively easy on my body so it fits in just fine. Thanks for the tip!

Is it possible to make it so that instead of deleted posts just vanishing to leave a small marker saying “post deleted” or something to that effect? It makes reading through some threads absolutely bewildering at times when its unclear if someone is hallucinating or something was removed.

I loosely remember reading out here that heavy cream tended to lead to visceral fat which I’m trying mostly to avoid. I just want to be really soft and pillowy ideally subcutaneous heavy. That and some studies showing visceral to be more health problematic but tbh a lot of obesity studies are so obsessed with weight loss above all else they fail to actually say anything coherent. 🤷‍♀️
Oh my question being largely which diets cause more subcutaneous? (Of note: lactose intolerant & trying to avoid processed sugar. Also going through feminizing hrt! So it may affect this in theory)

I’m not sure if I should laugh or worry for the safety of women in your area after reading this post.
The only men who claim to court lesbians are rapists and the delusional.

I would recommend against aiming for immobility unless you’re dead set on it and personally interested given how much it restricts your life.
It would basically leave you powerless and at the mercy of your husband, which to some of us would be dreamy especially with the right partner but as munchies mentioned, do you fully trust him in a situation where he has absolute control?

My personal stance on pleasing a partner would say absolutely not for this kind of thing. There are some things that could probably give him a similar level of satisfaction. I know almost nothing about your husband but for many stuff like playing up your movement difficulties or like role playing something along those lines could possibly sate their desires.

Ultimately just make sure that you are happy with whatever choice you make about your body.