Tumblr really ought to be considered an adult site. Most social media sites should be considered adult only. Perhaps child friendly sites should carry an age rating tag then parents can restrict the children's Internet to those if they wish.
That way we don't have to make the whole Internet the Fisher Price toy version of what we want.
We recognise that the streets are not safe for un-supervised toddlers so we should recognise the Internet is the adult world too.
2 months
Make choices you can stick to and want to stick to. Accept the consequences of your decision. Make it your decision rather than feel like you have no control.
So either you decide to do what you need to do to stop your weight gain and slowly get fitter OR you decide that you love eating more than anything else and you've accepted that the price is compromised health and a shorter life.
People make life and death choices every day, like the man who chooses to become a soldier. That comes with some honour, at least until he gets shot and injured, then he's just a burden on the state and becomes homeless. Harsh but if you talk to a former soldier you'll know that's what happens to many of them.
Your dangerous choice is no where near as bad as the consequences of some people's choices.
So rather than fight what you clearly want, decide that it's what you want and you're adult about the consequences.
I hope that helps you figure this out.
5 months
Weetabix:
Sort of proves my point unfortunately. All talk but when it gets too real they run away.
FeedingTheStreets:
That's what I'm saying but to be honest Weetabix I'm looking for both a Soft feedist & Hard Feedist I wanna feed someone everyday or Ever other day if that makes sense but it's as if there more active on Feabie but they just keep asking for online stuffing or sponsor stuffing. Which is a Bummer because I don't do that anymore. It is really pointless at the end of the day because I wouldn't actually be feeding you without my hands or a utensil.
I would not like to say people who want online Feeding via PayPal are fake or scammers, some could be but in my experience On Line is not the road to a physical world relationship.
On Line is great for finding like minded people, how many Feedees would one meet via Match.com for example? However if you get too comfortable in the On Line world you never progress to an all you can eat breakfast at Denny's or Toby Carvary.
I'm up for taking a Feedee on a date but they're happier if I just send them money on most occasions.
I would say that with any On Line encounter if you really wanna meet then don't chat online too much, like hardly at all and don't leave it too long. If you leave it too long the spark burns out before it can become a fire.
5 months
Sort of proves my point unfortunately. All talk but when it gets too real they run away.
5 months
Deathfeedee:
Female death feedee right here
In Fantasy Feeder land maybe.
5 months
And women routinely enjoy love confessions unless it's from someone we do not want.
AskDrFeeder:
You'd think so, but I've definitely read statements by BBWs saying they don't want guys who have a thing for fat women (let alone gaining women!). I guess such women fear being fetishized.
Yes this is the point Munchies does not get.
Women want to look up to the man. The man must be better than the woman. If the woman is down on herself for being fat (not necessarily BBW in FF but normies) then a man who likes them is actually lower than they are.
If you think about it everyone wants the best partner that they can get. Having someone your equal would be fair but you actually want most the very best. If a BBW is to you the very best and they think they're the very worst they will be turned off by low status of you showing them they're better than you.
For me I find the conventionally attractive women the easiest to talk to because I don't really care, they're OK but not particularly exciting to me. This makes them attracted to me. By contrast approaching a BBW generally goes badly because of my hightened attraction to them. I care too much and it shows, putting me in a very low status. Very low because they already think poorly of themselves.
5 months
I think it's more than 4%. More like 20%. Getting men to admit they like fat girls is difficult. It's also difficult for men who like fat girls to get with fat girls. The fact you like a woman turns her off.
5 months
Fattoo:
Fair and well.
You come across repulsive about a topic I'd expect desirable for someone wanting to fatten up.
Also applying yourself as you mentioned, shows you are a non conforming member and wanna be righteous know it all. Your advices reveal your acting as a moderator / interceptor to topics you are against. Rather than indulge in fair rationality. To make someone's new post and a new member sound preposterous instead of fine tuning what is interesting about food and getting fat. Respecting those who take the time to share their experiences and thoughts. Instead of giving them a wise ass warning. I would not want a girl like you, that doesn't enjoy my pleasures.
This site is here to revel in the fetish of food and the people who eat it.
You made yourself sound like a person who just eats to live, instead of a person who lives to eat. Your 168lbs isn't even fat yet to enjoy it. Where is your loving the fattening that comes with trying new ways to fatten up?
Maybe you could send me some recipes you find either delicious or for just getting in those extra calories at the end of the day without needing much time to prepare.. That would be nice of you, and a better way to respond.
Well said. Your points are well reasoned and evidenced where as Muchies cannot link us to the posts they said existed here. Instead Muchies insinuates that anyone who does not blindly agree with their advice is an idiot.
7 months
FAMGM:
The fastest I’ve ever gained was 60 lbs over 3 month. But that was regain, and I was eating about 10-15,000 cal per day.
This is valuable information. Did the weight gain simply reduce at the same calorie intake or did you reduce your calories?
7 months
Morbidly A Beast:
I swear to god if a moderator censors us for berating a racist user who’s pro-rape I will delete my account
Only two accusations in this post?
I can see this is not being censored, you're safe to accuse me of being a racist rapist. Now what was that other thing? You forgot to wonder if I abused my wife, Munchies got that in.
7 months