In my opinion you were rude. You're also contradicting yourself. You say "just telling people to eat garbage is not good advice" then say that you eat what a lot of people would consider junk food.

My advice for someone wanting to get fat was actually quite specific which is to eat carbs. I regard eating carbs as both fattening and unhealthy. Pretty much eating food that makes you fat is unhealthy by definition. If you disagree and think you can eat healthy and get fat then perhaps that's what you've been doing.

If you're seeking help then you'd do better by being polite and thanking people for their input. If you think I need to know what you're eating then how about telling me?

You're eating too healthy. You need a lot of empty carbs. Bread, pasta, potatoes and pastry. Don't drink water, drink cheap diet soda, the sweetness will spike your insulin and make you fat.

I am generous with my likes but after a recent update a like counts as a picture view. I was looking at a picture and clicked LIKE. The picture reloaded but gave me the dreaded subscription page instead.

It was not like this for a long time but now is. Similar with videos. If you like a video part way through it reloads and puts you at the beginning again.

www.youtube.com/shorts/Q8GhsSvTFEY

Someone has made a whole series of these and they are very well done and quite sexy.

You've set a 400lbs short term goal which I expect you know you can achieve in 2026.

Clearly you alweighs keep yourself gaining weight. The secret to this is to never stay hungry for any length of time. the longest stretch will be at night when you sleep so eat just before bed. If you wake in the night have a very small snack. eat breakfast as soon as you can then again as soon as you feel any hunger.

Using logic I'd say that if my profile was good enough to get me a date in the first month I should have got a few more in the next few months.

I think attraction is a physical thing and that's hard to get across over the Internet. In person is the way.

I got a date within a couple of weeks of joining Match.com. It was a pleasant enough experience that went nowhere. It left me with the impression that Match.com was worth sticking with. However a year after that first date I've had no more dates.

If I was running a struggling dating agency and I had no scruples I would pay some of my trusted female members to date losers like myself to keep them hooked. They only have to drink some coffee and eat some cake and make £50.

I have just cancelled my Match.com so will save over £20 a month. Probably better spent on FF again.

Yes that's me. You probably visited my website back in the day. You may have know SQMS, my late wife.

I was on Match.com for a year thinking that the problem was FF. Same thing, people just want validation that they are attractive, not really interested in meeting.

It is vital to actually meet people but starting off a relationship online it will remain online. Back in 2000 I met SQMS in Kelli Girl's Bulge Chat but we never translated that to the physical world. Instead I chatted up a fat girl at work and it later transpired we had met online and that she was that Feedee.

Things have not improved in 25 years unfortunately. This goes pretty much for everything. Music, cars, relationships, all were best in the 1990's. It's like my favourite movie, The Matrix. Agent Smith says they based the Matrix on 1999.

I did make a couple of female friends here a couple of years ago. I introduced myself by sending them meal money via PayPal. They were quite friendly whilst it seemed I would send them money. However there was only mild interest when I suggested a date and that would never actually happen. As much as I would like to disagree with you in my experience they are wanting money.