I'm glad you're enjoying it so much! I wouldn't worry about limits right now. You will learn much more about being bigger as you gain and will be better able to make decisions.

No guarantees, but I've always thought the best policy may be to gain as long as you're enjoying it.

Had a few meet-ups some years ago. It was fun. There was much eating and laughter, and some talk about feedism. This woman was there:

www.deviantart.com/drfeeder/art/SSBBWSabrina-does-the-DrFeederChallenge-Part-1-1248658632

She's a lot of fun. Said she hoped her chair would collapse in the middle of the meal. Unfortunately it didn't!

I've also had a few one-on-one meetings with feedees, though I don't recall if I met them here.

PlumpChick: If you want a limit for yourself that's fine; I don't think anyone would object to that.

Out of curiousity, what IS your limit? How did you arrive at it?

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

If it "starts to"? I think you'd notice some impact on mobility just gaining 25 pounds or so. Maybe you could still get around fine, but you might have to take the stairs slower. You might have more trouble sitting down on the floor and getting back up.

Health impacts are similarly hard to define. It could impact your health without you even noticing it until years later, if then.

That said, I think people should at least try to define these things for themselves.

Don't get mad. Just say "I know you're joking, but it's not working for me. You're going to have to stop."

If they pivot to expressing concern about your weight, say "I've tried dieting but I find I'm happier if I eat what I want. I'm fine with the weight."

Leave it at that. Don't apologize for your weight or eating habits, and don't promise to diet or work out.

If that doesn't work, just refuse to hang out with them until they agree to lighten up.

Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

> I have no idea if I'm actually meant to put this here or in another forum, but oh well

I'd say put in in the Gaining forum, but no one really cares either way.

> So I've been gaining for about a month and a half (since August 27th) and I've went from around 77lbs to 104lbs, (I honestly have no idea if that's like.... insanely fast or not?)

That's pretty fast, but I wouldn't call it insanely so. People often gain quickly in the beginning.

> but I've kind of just wanted to gain weight for years upon years, it's always been something thats made me insanely horny and now it's just getting even more intense for me now that I've actually gave into it. I'm not even fat by any means (I mean just look at my profile) but the feeling of getting wider and heavier is probably the best thing ever. I'm not at the point where i'm outgrowing clothes or anything yet but i'm sure its just another turn-on based on how I've seen people describe it. I'm just insanely excited to get a double chin, have my thighs not be twigs anymore, have bigger breasts and have a belly that doesn't literally show my ribcage. Another thing is burping - atleast for me, it's one of the hottest things ever, and since I've started gaining weight its been happening far more than before.

Is being able to eat all you want part of the fun or is it more just about gaining?

No apology needed.

Variety variety variety. And always have more food available than she can finish. Even if she eats a lot, it doesn't even make much of a dent.

This woman is at about my ideal size:

stufferdb.com/picture