A more sedentary job would be better for you. If you're on your feet all day you'll burn calories like gasoline.

Sent you a message. I would love to learn more.

Hooray! Life isn't a dress rehearsal, so glad you will be living it to the fullest!

Welcome to the site! I agree it isn't easy, fewer folks here are looking for that sort of relationship than was the case years ago, but there are still some of us!

They may as well list the portion size on all chips as one bag. They seem to be kryptonite for willpower.

Watch out for that merman casino. It's just one big shell game.

Good idea picking Jax. So much good food here of so many varieties. Seafood, Indian, Vietnamese, Peruvian... plenty of good burger places too.

Why are you nervous? That's an excellent idea, either as a fantasy or a goal.

Maybe they are worried about eating up their daily allotment of views and messages? Might not even be true, but could be a factor if folks are worried.

This is a long-time fantasy for both of us... and not an easy one to pull off if you want it to be a committed relationship for all involved. At least in our experience. It seems like more folks into non-monogamy prefer open relationships rather than group commitments.

If you're very broad/open in your interests for who can join you, it may be easier to find a third to form your throuple, but if both starting partners are picky then it greatly complicates things. I'll admit I knew it would be complicated, but I expected the complexity to grow additively, or perhaps multiplicatively. In my experience, trying to add another person to an existing couple increases the complexity of balancing out compatibility exponentially.

So all-in-all, I agree with the nickname for potential throuple-joiners as being "unicorns", but your mileage may vary.