I think you should be thinking about what Speedo you're going to get to show off that gain.

You're reminding me of John Pinette's old Chinese buffet routine: "You go now! You been here four hour!"

I love being called "Porky" or a "porker." I take it as a compliment since looking soft and porky has always been my ultimate goal.

I've had two strangers prod my belly in public. While it was a rude thing to do, I definitely took it as a sign that I had or was reaching my goal and it turned me on.

This sounds like my experience. I get a lot of guys interested in me but mostly whenever I contacted women, they either ignored me or accused me of being a "stalker" for contacting them one time. When I was successful in contacting women through chat or FF messaging, it would last a couple of messages and then they would ghost me.

I haven't had many problems with scammers relating to fat and none related to FF. When I was on Feabie, all I got were people begging for money, sometimes directly or sometimes indirectly ("Buy me some clothes and I'll model them for you".

FF and this fetish in general only works if you're a woman or a gay man. Maybe it's better to look for someone in real life rather than online, but it's not easy to find women open about either liking fat guys or liking their own fat bodies. I think a lot of the ones online wish they weren't into this and chicken out after a few interactions and maybe try to stick with finding a "normal" relationship.

I doubt I'm the first to notice this, but my fat parts are so sensitive. Having a woman rub my belly or cup my boobs makes me shudder involuntarily.

My size preference for myself definitely changed. I think a lot of gainers get to a goal weight and realize it's not as fat as they think. I also tend to gain a lot in my belly and I had to keep fattening up to get the boobs and double chin and fat arms I wanted.

One good thing about the popularity of streaming is that you can get DVDs super cheap ($1-3) at Goodwill or Salvation Army. I used to spend a hundred bucks a visit at Best Buy in the early 2000s and yesterday I spent $16 on four movies plus a TV show.

When you do, it's absolutely amazing. I go to the beach at least once a summer armed with two or three footlong subs wearing my stars-and-stripes bikini (chosen because it looks like something an Olympic athlete would wear, and there's me pale and flabby with all my fat spilling over) and eat them in front of everyone. SO HOT.

The old Fat Nat's had a good recipe/tip. When you make macaroni and cheese, add an extra stick of butter.

I've been using a tailor's tape measure for years to gauge my gain.