Fantasy Feeder

What do you think is great about obesity?

Dolkite:
I doubt I'm the first to notice this, but my fat parts are so sensitive. Having a woman rub my belly or cup my boobs makes me shudder involuntarily.

this is big for me, too... being touched, held, squeezed, it is totally different than when i was thin.

the feeling of weight, of my body resting on itself, the feeling of how my flesh moves... all of it is such a wonderful thing. one of those things that, before getting fat, i had no concept of.

11 hours

Canuck

Big body's make me feel aggressive

FatChaser111:
You like being on the other side?

initially i resisted it, but quickly it turned into a bit of a humiliation turn-on... like, "you used to be so fit and strong, and now look how weak you are, look how easy it is to control you."

i find the contrast with a fit body against mine really hot now, just like how i loved the contrast of my fit body against a soft, fat one before.

1 day

Canuck

Big body's make me feel aggressive

FatChaser111:
I don't know what it is but when I see them I wanna pounce, tackle, dominate, wrestle and overpower. With my skinny agile bod. I wanna make them giggle and get excited as I'm dominating and wrestling and putting them into position and to love the hell out of it.
And its confusing I've always been a meek kind caring little angel its out of character for me to have this extremely powerful urge. My energy levels and drive are higher now than in my teens. Anyone else experience this?

when i was younger and fit, like you, i had some of the same feelings with fat partners. i enjoyed being able to dominate them by being quicker, having better balance, being more flexible and a better reach. it's amazing how much physical advantage there is in just being able to rise quickly!

now, as a fat guy, i am experiencing the opposite. my average-sized partner often takes advantage of how easy it is to put me off balance, and how limited my reach is when my belly is in the way.

2 days

Canuck

Stomach stretching

i think water and liquid in general is less effective at stretching your stomach than just eating more food. i don't know the science behind this, but i suspect it is both absorbed into what you've already eaten, and is also absorbed into the body much more quickly than solid food.

so my advice is not to play with trying to keep a jug of water down, just push yourself to shovel in a few more mouthfuls!

3 days

Canuck

Slippery slope

Igetthejoke:
Not traditionally into d/s dynamics except where it intersects with:

Force feeding
Humiliation
Psychological manipulation to associate food and pleasure to rewire me into a shame and lust fueled eating machine that only needs to be forced when I'm getting too full

The way dom/sub stuff turns me on is in the specific case of the aspect being relegated to the power dynamic of me losing mobility and being helpless. Specifically I have no say in how fat I get - I'm clearly a thing to be used and I don't even need my value degraded or to be objectified in a depersonalized sense.

If anything, I want personal tailored psychological manipulation. To be clearly prized and talked about like I'm a person not an object.. but that my desires still don't matter in the face of the overwhelming need and inevitability of them turning me into a human balloon of fat.

I want to be teased and praised, worshipped for my phyicality but also reduced to it but still with the sense that my individuality is present it's just not important compared to my role as their pet project blimp.

The acknowledgement that I am a person but it still doesn't matter because their desire for my impossibly fat future is just obviously more important.

i am not sure what your post is for... are you putting this out there in search of a dom? or are you just sharing what's been in your head for a long time, in a safe space?

a lot of what you wrote really resonates with me, and i am sure with a lot of others here.

i have been very in touch with dom/sub roles throughout my adult life, in a variety of relationships and as both dom and sub at different times. i think it's important to recognize that these roles (among many others) typically require some compromise in a relationship. we're all unlikely to find someone who sees the world (and each other) thru exactly the same lens, and that's ok. in fact, it's much better - otherwise there would be no surprise!

you've done a good job of stating what you like and your limits, and that's an important place to start. i hope you find someone to explore that with you.

1 week

Canuck

Umbilical hernia from gaining?

Flabinista:
Christ on a bike! As if there aren't enough issues... honestly you'd think our bodies weren't designed for being x2, 3x, 4x x5 their normal weight!

this is our future... we are evolving! look how far (fat) we've come in just 2 generations? we will adapt....

1 week

Canuck

Only fans is a scam

Edddde:
Basically ppl want you to pay them to interact with them. Why should I pay to have someone to interact with me?

if you want a specific someone to interact with you, yes, you may have to pay them for that!

if you want people to interact with you purely out of their own interest, well, you don't get to pick who those people are... they will be whoever finds you interesting.

there's a real undercurrent of male entitlement in these "everything is a scam" posts that i've seen lately, and it's always "the (fill-in-the-blank) is the problem, the problem is not me."

i've been on ff and feabie a long time (mostly ff), i've made great friends on both sites. i've been out to dinner and for drinks with a few members, too. i've never dated anyone from either site, though. i know a few friends that have - but it's very, very, very, very rare.

if you're pissed off that someone won't respond to your messages except through onlyfans, they're a pro, they're not there for casual chit chat. so either pay up, or move on. simple as that.

never expect to get more out of an online community than you're prepared to put into it.

2 weeks

Canuck

Getting muscle chub

Mrsilke:
Thanks for the tips. Is there any certain protein intake that I should get, I've heard of mass gainer protein powder. Any idea if it's worth it.

protein powders are more for people who want to increase muscle mass without gaining fat, so i would say you don't need to go there to be a muscle chub. plus, it is hard on your kidneys.

eat some eggs, lots of meat, cheese, whatever - a gram of protein is the same regardless of where it comes from. but if you eat it as part of a meal, it's probably healthier but it is also way more enjoyable if it is in tasty food!

3 weeks

Canuck

Only fans is a scam

Edddde:
Integrity – We Uphold Trust--- this is what only Fans says. It's just a platform to scam people out of money. Message people on here is you are truly interested in them and don't be saying "I need you to paypal me" pr send money by other means.

not sure what your point is - are you complaining that people on here are promoting their onlyfans and that they aren't interested in a relationship with you?

3 weeks

Canuck

Quoting and replying not working?

working again for me now, too - thanks to whoever made the fix!

3 weeks

Canuck