I love this idea!
So I’m currently trying to gain weight and become really big and huge. So here are my answers.

Are you intentionally gaining weight: Yes, slowly and deliberately. I’m not trying to get huge overnight, I just enjoy the process of filling out over time.

Do you gain weight every year: Pretty much. Usually somewhere around 5-10 lbs a year depending on how motivated I am.

Weight: 180 lbs

Size: average
Avg calories per day: I don’t really count them.

Avg # of meals per day: 3 meals plus snacks.

Typical meals eaten on average day:

* Big breakfast with pancakes, eggs, salads, yogurt, and coffee.
* Burger, fries, and a lot of junk food for lunch.
* Afternoon snacks like chips, cookies, nuts, ice cream, or leftovers.
* Large dinner (pizza, pasta, barbecue, or takeout).
* Dessert while watching Netflix before bed.

Exercise amount: Very little. I walk when I have to and occasionally do something active with friends, but I don’t have a workout routine anymore.

Laziness level: I’d say moderately lazy. As I got heavier I naturally became more comfortable spending evenings on the couch or at my desk. I don’t avoid moving completely, but convenience usually wins.

Relationship with food: Food has become one of my favorite parts of the day. Growing up I ate pretty normally, but in my twenties I started appreciating good food a lot more. I like trying restaurants, ordering extra sides, and having dessert even when I’m already full. Eating is relaxing, comforting, and something I genuinely look forward to. I don’t feel guilty about enjoying it, and watching myself slowly get bigger has become part of the fun. My wardrobe has changed a few sizes over the years, my belly is noticeably rounder than it used to be, and I actually like the softer, heavier build I’ve grown into. But of course I still have a long road ahead.
I should also mention that I’m currently dating a female feeder who absolutely loves my appetite and enjoys encouraging my weight gain. She’s an amazing cook, so it’s a pretty great combination!

With you it’s only a matter of time 🤓

oh! i love this question! so just eat more then usually. feel stuffed? don't mind it, push more into yourself. feeling stress? take that ice cream. feeling happy? finish those chocolate, so basically drown your feelings with sweets. in time, that will make you really huge.

first of all, welcome! i'm glad your bf is open and ready to gain weight for you, as a feedee myself with experiance with female feeders, as long as you are constant it will be okay, but what kind of mistakes you talking about?

In my opinion, the definition of SSBBW/SSBHM is less about a number on the scale and more about the physical sensation and the space you occupy.

I think the line is crossed when your stomach truly starts to 'interfere' with simple actions, or when the biggest clothes in your closet start feeling like a tight second skin. That’s the moment you realize you aren’t just 'big' anymore, but in a completely different category of mass.

For me, it’s always about pizza. The most extreme case was during a holiday dinner at my grandma’s - she’s the type who doesn't let a single crumb go to waste and always overfeeds everyone. I ate such astronomical amounts of food that I could physically feel myself bloating; I was so stuffed I could barely breathe.

Another time, I just ordered an excessive number of family-sized pizzas for myself. I actually managed to polish off three whole pies on my own! The feeling afterward was a mix of 'wow, I can't believe I just did that' and an extreme, inexplicable level of fullness.

Hell yeah

Correct

i understand why you like it, but all those ai videos... it's just feels not right, i dont know

i can only share my view, as I’ve been gaining weight, I’ve definitely noticed my legs getting much heavier and thicker, and that tired feeling is real. It’s a bit of a trade-off because I love the massive look and the solid feel of my thighs filling out, but the pressure on the lower legs can get intense.

from my experience, elevation is the most effective thing. I try to keep my legs up for at least 20 minutes a few times a day; it really helps move that fluid back and takes the 'stinging' pressure off the ankles.

but don't overlook hydration. It sounds backward, but drinking more water actually helps your body flush out the excess sodium that causes the buildup in the first place. I’ve started being more mindful of my salt intake while keeping my calories high, and it’s made the 'heavy leg' feeling much more manageable and less painful.

There's something incredibly satisfying about looking down and seeing how much more space my legs take up now, but you’ve got to take care of the circulation so you can keep growing comfortably