Fantasy Feeder

So long, and thanks for all the fish!!!!

CuriousGeorge:
I wonder how many people here will get a Hitchhikers guide to the Galaxy reference??

I was fascinated by cartoons where people got insanely fat as a child. You'll hear that here. And stumbled upon FF long ago. But....

I never managed to make any of it real.

Now quite a few years have passed and life goes on in other ways. This alas was not to be.

So, this is good bye, and thank you all.

I'm not gonna delete my profile until I say a few goodbyes, both here and fet but....

Best wishes to you all!

Well hey, I hope that you had enjoyed your time here while it lasted. Hopefully you’ll be able to find peace and what you’re looking for elsewhere! Either that be finding your chubby queen or whatever.

1 week

JN_TumLover56

Fat appreciation: we should talk about it more

Edddde:
use dogpile as your search engine

Sounds like someone is doing whatever it takes to become top poster huh?

2 weeks

JN_TumLover56

The beginning of the end of an era?

The Augmentor:
Say there were such a thing as a heart-attack fetish. (I'm sure there is, but I don't want to know.)

If doctors were able to develop a way to prevent heart attacks completely, I think the overwhelming majority of people would agree, that's a net benefit.

I don't think anyone would be like, "But think of the heart-attack fetishists!"

So if the effective end of obesity happens in our lifetime, then that would be frustrating for us feedists (I guess we'd all have to find new fetishes), but 99.999999999998% of the rest of the global population would be rejoicing.

Look, none of us is the custodian of this fetish.

We don't have a duty to ensure that it lives on.

If I had kids, I'd hope for them to be happy and free of weird hang-ups, including feedism or a heart-attack fetish.

I’m not sure what you’re trying to go for writing this but I can probably get it from the context.

I think I can live a life without Feedism. But for just having a genuine preference for liking chubby women (and bellies) to one day become unacceptable or straight up outlawed? That’s not something that someone like me would want, especially if I just wanna go about it with peace of mind.

1 month

JN_TumLover56

Users

Edddde:
Deleted all the messages in my inbox. No longer feel the need to contact others as they only want money to buy food with. So many users out there.

Meh, I hardly speak to anyone via inbox anymore anyways. These days I just go with the flow and enjoy the amount of belly content available.

1 month

JN_TumLover56

The beginning of the end of an era?

Delta9:
At some point obesity will be seen as a curable disease, and if you choose not to accept the cure, you'll be penalized, probably by having insurance coverage dropped. And also people will think something else is wrong with you, like a person with poor vision who refuses to simply wear glasses.
As obesity becomes less common, those who reject the cure and embrace their size will be viewed as particularly disgusting. As well as those of us who desire them. Anyone who remains overweight, people will automatically assume they must have a fat fetish. So maybe it can become a more honest world in that regard, and we can finally admit to everyone that we're fat because we want to be that way.
But also, this is probably a decade or two away.

Coming back to read this again. This is the exact kind of dystopia that I fear what will happen at some point.

1 month

JN_TumLover56

What do you find in your navel when you search inside it?

Sometimes before I go and take a shower there are certain shirts that I wear that causes some lint or little bits of fabric that forms in my navel. It’s a little strange at first but I easily shrug it off and flick it off.

1 month

JN_TumLover56

The beginning of the end of an era?

BigBallBellyGirl:
You're absolutely right. I was prescribed after a health crisis a couple of years ago, and I stayed on it for 3 months. I did not do well with them at all. I was nauseous at all times, sometimes keeping me from sleeping, and not to be too graphic, but it caused a few bouts of painful constipation. I do take a few other medications, but the Wegovy had to go. I'm sure some people who use it to lose weight are willing to tolerate side effects if they experience them, but I found it really unpleasant.

Ah yes that’s right, I remember a few posts that you have mentioned about that. But yeah what you talked about here pretty much explains why it’s not going to be for everyone unless they are willing to put up with the potential side effects I’ve heard so much about.

1 month

JN_TumLover56

The beginning of the end of an era?

BigBallBellyGirl:
I definitely share your concerns about what GLPs mean in the long run. At the same time, they're a non-issue in my life and, I suspect, many others. I've always been the outlier. I was a chubby kid, an obese teenager, and I'm a super-sized adult. I suppose I've always had options -- diet, exercise, surgery -- but I'm not interested. The availability of options won't make all big people disappear.

Funny thing I did lowkey thought that you might come to post on here. Because if I’m not mistaken didn’t you mention that you were on some kind of GLP-1 as a way to manage your wellbeing while you were gaining? I could be mistaken but that’s what I remember.

Still I appreciate hearing your perspective and thoughts from this!

1 month

JN_TumLover56

The beginning of the end of an era?

Fatgirlbelly:
Thank you! I appreciate that. I want to be as open as possible and hope that helps others who may be struggling with conflict too because for a long time, I felt ashamed that I wasn’t being authentic in this space, and although it’s “fantasy” feeder, I think its important we can incorporate it as healthily for our minds and bodies as we can. That way we can enjoy it in a more fulfilling way.

As for the future, I can’t see there being a disappearing act of bigger people without big changes being made in our society. I suppose time will tell

I agree with you there because life is far too short to live in shame for having a particular preference that may or may not be deemed acceptable. And I also think that now more than we need to have conversations like this to not only help those people accept their particular preferences, but also seeing the grey area and balance between fantasy and reality.

Coming from my experience alone, the more you are willing to admit and accept that part of yourself then the more that you will be able to embrace that part of yourselves respectfully.

As for the last paragraph you mentioned, I have seen other people who have talked about society making big changes to city structures or something along those lines if governments really care about eradicating fat people in the name of health. Of course, I suppose we shall see what is going to happen. Here’s hoping that folks like us can still live in peace huh?

2 months

JN_TumLover56

The beginning of the end of an era?

Fatgirlbelly:
Ok so as someone who’s been on a GLP-1 for a year, it isn’t what the media makes it out to be.

And before anyone comes for me…

If you’ve seen my profile you’ll know I’ve lost 50lbs and I had to for health reasons. I’m still big, I’m 210lbs. And on the highest dose I’ve fluctuated between 210-215 for months.

So it doesn’t magically make you lose weight. But what it has done for me is help regulate my PCOS, fibromyalgia & pain. Even my skin is better. So a GLP 1 is only as good for weight loss as you’re willing to put into it. The health problems that come with it are people being idiots and losing weight too quickly.

So will fatness disappear as a result of GLP-1s? Almost certainly not. In the same vein that gyms exist - governments haven’t forced us all to go to get “fitter”. Also, gyms and glp1’s are not suitable for everyone.

I hope this adds a bit of balanced context

Hey you won’t get any judgements from me because I’ve always appreciate your well-thought posts and opinions. And honestly it’s nice to hear from the perspective of someone who’s looking after their wellbeing. I mean THIS is the nuance that I am looking for!

However as for governments, I have heard about the Metabo Law in Japan where there’s a mandatory waistline measurement to keep their obesity rates low. While I don’t think there’s a penalty, I’ve heard some people may or may not be giving a hard time to get them the consultation to lose weight. Here’s hoping that something “strict” like this doesn’t end up taking over western society.

2 months

JN_TumLover56