Hey just thought I would comment on this because this was very well said!

As someone who is open for having an attraction for someone who is extra curvy or straight up fat, I can definitely say that the more you are willing to admit and accept that part of yourself then the more that you will be able to embrace that part of yourselves respectfully. Of course it’s also important that we should also be attracted to the person for who they are as a human being besides the exterior level of attraction. I always say that “physical attraction may get you in a relationship, but emotional attraction will keep you in one”, it’s true because we’re not always going to look the same all the time as we go through life.

There is no doubt that we are in a really strange time period now with the rise of GLP-1s and the antagonism towards body positivity. And I fear that for some people like us might go into hiding because of avoiding being the centre of criticism. However I like how we’re also having open discussions like this to not only help those people accept their particular preferences again, but also seeing the grey area and balance between fantasy and reality.

Hey I have tried to look up on the link but it wouldn’t let me read it without singing up to Vox’s membership. But I did found something that is just as interesting.

glamour.com/story/the-body-positivity-movement-isnt-dead-even-if-it-feels-like-it-is

I have read about it myself and it definitely does resonate with me a lot, especially of the current events that are happening right now.

I wonder if this is how it all started with the vore fetish?

I wouldn’t necessarily say that I would get a “dopamine rush” per se, but I absolutely do LOVE it when someone has the time to write a message to me on a site like this! Either that they want to thank me for liking a picture or tell me something that they appreciate for sharing my insights, or just straight up saying “hello” to me.

Either way it’s great to be able to talk to people who make the time or just answer questions y’know?

As far as I know these are mostly towards more adult content and stuff that normally would get censored for 18+. Sure that might be a good thing right? Well the issue that a lot of people are having with this is because it’s requiring personal information like an ID to be shared, this means that it’s gonna be more vulnerable to people to hack into it and steal sensitive information.

Not too long ago this is exactly what happened with Discord for people who were verified (that required ID) and it resulted in a bunch of people’s information getting leaked.

While I understand the intent behind it, this is why people are so hesitant in sharing personal data online. No matter how much we sanitize the internet, the online world will always never be the safest place for a little kid who doesn’t know what they are doing.

Funny thing I don’t think it’s often talked about that even people like us who like bigger people get our fair share of hate as well. I’ve been called many things like: “Delusional/Disgusting” “Torta Pounder” “Liar” “Liberal” and things of why that I even find someone bigger than me attractive while saying such dehumanizing terms.

People who don’t understand something are going to hate it, it’s basically an easier response in a way. I know that it’s not very fun to be at the receiving end of the negativity from people. But for me personally I try my best to prioritize my own happiness over other people’s opinions. In fact, this should be about YOUR love life and should be about what YOU are attracted to. And if others tell you otherwise, then it’s on them and what they have been indoctrinated into believing.

Hey there my guy I totally get your frustration and struggle with being a part of a community like this… 101% dude.

I’ve had my fair share of getting stung by people who had scammed me. It’s really such a pity because you feel like you’ve finally are getting that special acceptance from someone who sees you and are into the same kinks, in a world where society wants to eradicate obesity, only to then come out completely empty-handed and feel bad for being ripped off. It’s worse when they try to beg you to help with their “emergencies” or something along those lines.

For this, this is precisely why I’ve let go of the whole feeder thing to begin with. However I didn’t exactly dropped everything though because regardless of what I’ve been through, that didn’t stop me from being attracted towards what I like in chubby people and enjoying the “eye candy” in some way. I’ve also had accepted reality I don’t need this kink to be satisfied in a relationship. I’ve had relationships in the past where while it had been brought up and talked about, it was never engaged. Honestly from my experience I’ve been completely okay with that!

Also what Harleen said beforehand is also a great point as well. Sometimes you can be part of the community without going into the deep end of it if you don’t know how to swim! If you know what I’m saying?

I have to say that this was beautifully written there. Bravo to you for standing up for yourself and your own happiness!

I even agree with the last statement a lot. People should consider being encouraged to be happy with however look that they want instead of what society wants to tell/indoctrinate you for. 💯

Ah yes good old PowerPoint. Good times! Sometimes I still use that to make content depending on what I want to present. I have actually been pretty okay with talking on to the camera beforehand and being doing so for quite some time.

Though this particular one that I am doing is going to be a bit different. But we’ll see what I can do when it comes down to the process.

I have noticed that myself as well! Or just people talking and going about their day without any sort of flashy editing. It’s almost like people want to push for the return of authenticity on the platform again or something like that?

I think this particular style is what I am planning on doing by speaking what I want to say, without a script, with some minor editing. It might be a little harder to do for me (joys of being autistic) but it’s probably worth it for the sake of sound more real and authentic. Y’know?