Anjou:
Is that a thing? I got into bodybuilding for the last year and really loving watching my body put on weight and size (be it mostly muscle).

Enas:
Maybe, im curious about how you experience this. I would like to know in more detail. Is it the progression that makes you feel in a certain way? And if yes, why exactly is that it, etc.

Im trying to think of questions that would help direct your attention somewhere, but really anything towards questioning what it is that you like exactly about this, will be helpfull in answering the question of your post.

I can only provide a short example of myself. By getting fatter i also become weaker (or i at least percieve it like that) which is something exciting for me because im into dom/sub dynamics etc. Does that make sense of what im asking you?

Anjou:
Totally. I was 225 5 years ago. Went on wegovy, dropped over 100 lbs, but while I was elated that I was finally the size I wanted to be my whole life, I felt weak and sick all the time.
So I got off the wegovy and focused my once again large appetite on protein and started a training two time a day 6 days a week to battle the depression I had developed.
I feel transformed internally now. My confidence, sex drive, self image is 100 times better than when I was 103 lbs.
Like I legit feel like a different person lol

Anjou:
Is that a thing? I got into bodybuilding for the last year and really loving watching my body put on weight and size (be it mostly muscle).

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?

Enas:
Get into phylosophy!

Munchies:
This is not as helpful as you might think. If anything, it's a largely neutral aspect.

Enas:
It is a largely neutral aspect, but philosophy is interesting by itself which can be a nice distraction from one's libido! Maybe... 😅

*cough* certainly not for me *cough*

Munchies:
If it doesn't work for you, why recommend it at all?

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?

Enas:
Get into phylosophy!

Munchies:
This is not as helpful as you might think. If anything, it's a largely neutral aspect.

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?

Arame:
...
Fox News, spoke on obesity from an economic point of view, discussing how rising obesity rates lead to higher healthcare costs for taxpayers,
...

Enas:
AHAHAHAHAHAA 🤣

This is so stupid, its like saying "We must do something for covid because a lot of people will die" and instead of letting it as that, we add "... and that will be very bad for the economy!"

Arame:
Yeah bro, that was extremely stupid. That’s the bias I was talking about. They just had throw the taxpayer line in. That’s every bigot’s favorite talking point. Hiding behind conservatism to disguise their hatred.


Now, let’s discuss said economy shall we?
You mean the SAME economy that creates fat people in the first place??? 😂

Think about it, America literally promotes processed foods it’s in every commercial and on every street. Processed food is usually very high in calories, high in unhealthy fats (hence why it tastes so good), and is also high in simple carbohydrates which is easy to digest hence simple. Once the food has been digested, you feel hungry again, so you eat another meal that’s processed. A diet that’s high in calories that doesn’t keep you full for long is almost a guarantee for fat gain unless you have an high metabolism which why I brought up skinny(Ectomorphic people). In short, America creates the very fat people that they complain about. That literally makes no sense.

Now, this is all great for communities like this because obviously some people LOVE food and or love the feeling of being full or stuffed so much so that it sexually arouses them.

My thing is, who give a fuck? Thats nobody else’s business.

Arame:
...
Fox News, spoke on obesity from an economic point of view, discussing how rising obesity rates lead to higher healthcare costs for taxpayers,
...

Enas:
AHAHAHAHAHAA 🤣

This is so stupid, its like saying "We must do something for covid because a lot of people will die" and instead of letting it as that, we add "... and that will be very bad for the economy!"

Munchies:
You must not be familiar with Fox News.

Good. Keep it that way. Quality of life decision.

Arame:
...
Fox News, spoke on obesity from an economic point of view, discussing how rising obesity rates lead to higher healthcare costs for taxpayers,
...

Munchies:
Unsolicited advice is simply advice you did not ask for. Sometimes it's appreciate. Most of the time it's not.

And that's the gamble of it all. No matter how good your advice is, some people do not want to hear it. You can have the best intentions in the world, but sometimes, it will not be appreciated.

This does not mean the person rejecting your advice is wrong to do so. Maybe they already know what they are doing. Maybe they are going for something different that you are suggesting. Maybe they just don't care like that.

Whatever the reason, it's bet to respect their no. If you keep pushing, then no matter how good your advice is or how well meaning your intentions are, you are now the asshole.