The Wicked Pear:
Are there certain vendors within Amazon that you shop with? I find search to be less then useful, as when typing in plus size

Faaaat:
For the bottom heavy women, when did you stop fitting into one seat when flying? I haven't been on an airplane in forever (like at least -25 kg ago). But I just realized when looking at flights that I have no idea if one seat will be enough considering the width of the seat. In the local subway I already spill at bit into the seat next to me.
How do I know if I need to book two seats? I haven't found much information on the websites of the German airlines that would be an option. I would most likely be traveling in Europe, so if anyone has any experience with these airlines, even better.

Arame:
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Fox News, spoke on obesity from an economic point of view, discussing how rising obesity rates lead to higher healthcare costs for taxpayers,
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Enas:
AHAHAHAHAHAA 🤣

This is so stupid, its like saying "We must do something for covid because a lot of people will die" and instead of letting it as that, we add "... and that will be very bad for the economy!"

Bigcock:
Want See how U Stuff Ur belly with Ur food and help U to cum and relax with me. Burps, Farts, Squirt U can let all out I like it.
I cant buy the food
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JN_TumLover56:
Interesting read so far! It seems like based on what you wrote there and your research, it seems like yes we all do know that obesity to an extent does have its risks. But also what exactly is health if you only look at someone based on looks alone? It’s kinda like you are using critical thinking in hand. I like that!

I also like the last paragraph that you had written there. It’s almost kinda similar to what you said on the forum post about why so many people are mad about the BP/FA movements. Heck you can base some of the stuff you have read there to help you out (especially with the few early comments I made on that)!

The only critique that I can say is that I don’t think that it’s just only women who are tired of being bullied. Though they are the majority, I think some men have had their fair share of it. Or really anyone else who doesn’t fit the “beauty standard” is all fair game.

Otherwise I hope this assignment of yours goes well for you!

Munchies:
This is a good point. Sure, women will always have it worse when it comes to fatphobia, but men aren't safe from it either.

For example, it's common for people to see fat men as ugly. How often do you hear people mocking men for being fat the moment they do something someone else doesn't like?

I also see people tell fat men that if they want to find love, they have to have other things that "make up" for their fatness. Hell, when my partner told his parents about me (before we even met or he showed them a picture of me) they were worried I was a scammer trying to get his money. It wasn't anything I did or said. They were convinced that no one would want a 500 lbs man unless they wanted to use him.

Scarlett315:
I am so sorry that happened to you. I feel this every day too dating a big guy. He told me once he needed to dress nice every day to " compensate" for being fat. I think that idea that fat men are just lazy and slobs is so mainstream. It hurt me so much that he has thought like that.

Wannajigglybelly:
Hi,
I would also suggest he gets his testosterone level checked. There is a disorder called low T which is when the male body does not produce enough testosterone to which can effect libido sometimes it just occurs normally, but also having excessive amounts of fat as a man can put a man at risk of developing this disorder. I cannot remember the name of the hormone, but there is a hormone that is secreted from fat that tends to convert testosterone or at least lower testosterone levels and allow for estrogen to rise and throw off the hormonal balance . As a side effect of this hormonal imbalance, it can lower a man’s libido as well as give them more feminine features and definitely can affect mood and also can contribute to depression. Usually the treatment for this is a testosterone injection over a period of time or maybe a pill to help try to rebalance the hormones out again. If that treatment is successful you may see an increase in his libido give him more energy and mood may stabilize. I am not an expert, but I have been doing a lot of studying on the flow of testosterone to estrogen recently, and I’ve learned a lot. I suggest you find yourself an endocrinologist that deals with Low T and see if they can get him straightened out. You may have to go see your PCP first and get a test to confirm that that’s the issue before seeing the endocrinologist . Good luck and I hope you all can find a solution to this difficult situation and return some balance to your relationship

Justpassingthrough88:
Hi everyone,

I’m hoping for some advice or shared experiences from others who’ve navigated intimacy struggles in long-term relationships. My husband and I met nearly eight years ago on Feabie—he’s both a feeder and a feedee, and at the time, I identified as a feeder who found both male and female weight gain erotic. We bonded over our shared kinks, but also quickly grew into best friends and eventually got married.

We have a strong, loving relationship—emotionally, we’re close and supportive of one another. But our sex life has completely dried up, and it’s been that way for several years now.

At around 350 lbs, my husband has lost most of his interest in sex. He also struggles with arousal and stamina. I’ll be honest: I don’t feel as sexually attracted to him anymore. Part of that is the physical change, like the roundness of his face, but more than that it’s the lack of intimacy, desire, and engagement that makes it hard to connect.

It’s also been difficult because he continued to gain weight even after I stopped encouraging it. I had emotionally stepped back from the feederism dynamic years ago, but he kept going. He eventually reached a size that no longer felt attractive to me—both in terms of physical appearance and the reality of what that size meant for our intimacy, his mobility, and his health. It became a source of distance rather than excitement.

He has now started losing weight for health reasons and has mentioned possibly looking into medication to help with libido. I fully support both of these steps and want him to feel good in his body.

Over the years, I’ve gained weight as well—going from around 130 to 180 lbs. While I still find aspects of weight gain erotic, it now feels more like a reminder of what’s missing than a source of pleasure. I’m not happy with my body or the state of our intimacy.

Before all this, I loved having a passionate sex life—something that was a big part of how our relationship began. But once we stopped focusing on his weight gain, our sexual relationship disappeared.

I feel guilty saying this, but right now my sex life mostly consists of reading posts on this forum and masturbating. It’s incredibly unsatisfying and leaves me feeling alone, like a part of myself is quietly fading away.

I want to be very clear: I do not want to leave him. This isn’t about looking elsewhere. I love my husband deeply, and I want to reconnect with him. But I’m at a loss for how to revive intimacy when:

* He’s not naturally dominant, which is something I respond to sexually.
* He’s not very interested in helping me achieve multiple orgasms, which I need to feel satisfied.
* And when the physical and emotional aspects of our sex life have been neglected for so long.

So I’m asking:

Has anyone here successfully reignited a long-dead sex life with a long-term partner?
Are there realistic ways to rebuild desire and intimacy when both of you—and your dynamic—have changed?

How do you start this conversation and process without making your partner feel judged or rejected?

Thank you so much for reading this and for any kind advice or stories you might share. I’m trying to be honest and constructive, and I appreciate having a place to talk about it.

Dough Queen:
Hey everyone 💬

I’ve been thinking a lot about the emotional side of feedism — beyond the food, fun, and fantasys. In any relationship, intimacy and connection are key, but in a feeder/feedee dynamic where care and vulnerability play such a big role, emotional closeness feels even more essential.

So I’m curious:
How do you nurture emotional intimacy in this dynamic?
Do you have specific, communication styles, or trust-building practices that help you stay connected on a deeper level?

Whether you're a long-time couple or just starting out, I'd love to hear from you guys how keep the emotional spark alive alongside the physical and sensual elements.