Letsmakemegrow:
Why do I want to get fat so badly! Despite the risks… I used to ignore the risks (in my teenage years), but now that I'm an adult, I really want to get fat because it makes me happy!! Fat is happiness, fat is love, feederism is life! I know it can be unhealthy! And yet I still want to stuff myself!! Make myself fat!! And everything about feederism turns me on!

Forcefatter:
Hello friends, first post on here.
I have been dating my partner for a year and a half. They have been supportive despite this not being their kink/interest.

They finally told me that what I'm doing makes them nervous and that they worry about my health, which is a very valid concern. I have put on 60 pounds since we have been dating for reference.

The main sticking point is they said that it would be ok if I get to my goal weight but they wouldn't want me to stay there long term.

Not sure what to think of this and this is such a niche topic I'm not sure where else to bring it.
I guess I kinda wish she was into it and not just being ok with it. As we know there's no guarantee I stop at my goal weight as it's really fun to gain.
Anyway would love to hear the community's thoughts

Letsmakemegrow:
Feederism is the best thing ever! Fat is the only thing that turns me on! All my life!! Gaining weight is the best thing ever! It turns me on! But "afterward" it always makes me insecure! And I feel weird! And ashamed... What can I do about it? The last time I had it, I got into such a slump that I've now lost 28 kilos!

While I was finally getting fatter and happier! My belly started to sag... my fat was visible everywhere, and I was finally happy in my body.

Any tips?

I really want my fat back

Spoilsandriches:
It seems like I don't have a lot of variety, I think that may help

Munchies:
Do certain foods trigger it? Or is it the amount?

Spoilsandriches:
it's usually the amount

Munchies:
My advice is stuff yourself to the point before you get nauseous. Then, sip some mint or ginger tea and let things settle for a bit. When you feel ready, eat some more.

Drugsarefunny:
I've been reading Munchies' comments for years, and she's ALWAYS right. Her advice is excellent, and she knows what he's talking about. Listen to her and don't push yourself; rest and continue eating later. Over time, you may be able to eat more without feeling nauseous, but take it slowly.

Romy:
The best plan is to find someone to take care of you.
Not working is the least of the problems for someone with that level of obesity. Even the fact that you won't be leaving your house is the least of the problems.

Adiposemaxiumus:
He was a 18th century man who grew to over 700lbs and became a curiosity of the wealthy.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Lambert

Munchies:
700 lbs in the 18th century is truly an impressive feat.

Adiposemaxiumus:
Yeah. He died at 39, so there must have been some medical condition involved

Saint77:
“I wonder if wearing a prosthetic belly out in public helps people explore their feelings about wanting to gain. Anyone here tried it and want to share how it went?

Adiposemaxiumus:
He was a 18th century man who grew to over 700lbs and became a curiosity of the wealthy.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Lambert[/quote]

700 lbs in the 18th century is truly an impressive feat.