Thx all ! So if I understand correctly, the best thing to do is to let myself go. Eating a lot and accepting my fantasy to be the fat person I’d like to be. And then if I find someone it’s gonna be a relationship based on acceptation
1 month
Ditzy:
Dating for me was better after gaining quite a bit of weight.
When I was really skinny guys never gave me a second look.
I think we all have doubts about things we do.
I did when I started attempting to gain weight.
Pretty normal really.
Good to hear that. So let’s gain weight ahah
1 month
XFat:
Ah the ever present struggle of wanting to fit in to our diet obsessed society vs. Wanting to just break free... it depends on your priorities - if being fat is more important/enjoyable to you than being physically fit, then work on your fitness, if being fit is more important than enjoying this kink and a bigger body, do that. You can also make an effort to be fit while gaining, just keep up exercising but ensure your intake is more calories than you're losing. It will be a slower gain, but you'll probably find it more sustainable long-term.
As for dating, perhaps you may have an easier time finding a partner while thin, but it's also more likely they'll be toxic towards your weight gain when/if you do gain. Personally if you want to gain, I'd just gain and date at the same time, and when you do find someone you want yo go ling term with, all the more likely bring fat will be just fine. Fat people date all the time (exhibit A, see dating ads on this website).
Thx for your answer. The choice is very difficult. But I’m just so excited and obsessed with the fact that I can get fat that I feel like I can’t go against it.
You re right for dating, maybe it’s easier to find someone who’s ok if I pack up some pounds while being already fat myself. But even on this website, finding someone is sooooo difficult
1 month
Hi everyone,
I wanted to have your feelings about the subject I’m writing rn.
I’m really obsessed with fatness. I really love the feeling of getting fatter. I used to be athletic and particularly good at running and cycling. But I gained 12kg and I have no cardio anymore.
I’m getting fatter because I deliberately like to eat a lot to make my body softer.
The thing is that during some periods I’m trying to gain the most I can, and during other periods I feel very bad about my gains and I just think about fixing me sport goals to move my body and be athletic and muscular again. And I sometimes have these mixed feelings in the same evening. For example after eating 15 cheese toasts.
I think that the problem is that I like a lot of sports but my brain keeps encouraging me to be softer and fat.
Also, I’m currently single and I have to say that I’m a bit scared that my gains can compromise some opportunities to be in a relationship.
That’s it, I wanted to know your feelings about that.
Have a nice day !
1 month
Zlukz:
I really want to be obese, I know I’ve always dreamed of it. But I also really like doing sports like cycling or tennis.
How do you manage to do both?
I already gained 25lbs. But I can already feel that doing sport is more difficult. Problem is that I want my body way softer, it’s only the beginning of my journey!
Do you have any tips or advices about that?
Wish you all a good day!
FatCam:
I was on a wrestling team when I was 315lbs so while some/most sports may become more challenging at a higher weight it's still possible you just have to want it. Also, to gain weight you only need to be in a calorie surplus, the body doesn't care where the calories come from they're just calories it stores them the same regardless. As Munchies said above you can gain weight perfectly fine by just eating a large amount of healthy food.
Zlukz:
Thanks for your answer 😊 Let’s say that ice cream is working very well to get fatter 😅 But I’m alongside eating diversified food.
Maybe I should get away from cycling and think about making judo again. So then my weight won’t count 😁
Fat Dreams:
What about sports that involve water, like rowing and/or swimming? It's a great way to get cardio in and weight doesn't affect your performance as much.
Yep that’s a good idea! 😉
3 months
Enas:
What about cycling? 🤔
(asking because i really love cycling!)
Zlukz:
That sport is also one of those that I used to practice and I still love this sport. But I’m starting to be a little plump in my cycling clothes and I have difficulties to do the same distances than the ones I used to ride. Any tips for fat cycling ?
Enas:
OH i dont have any clothes specific for cycling, i just care about the distances i can cover! (I would love to go into a trip in the mountains with my bicycle and potentially other people with theirs too! I just dont wanna polute while having a fun trip! >~
Zlukz:
Would love too but I’m starting to be too fat to do such a thing 😅
Enas:
Well, if you train hard enough, youll be able to do it!
As for me, it will be much more difficult! XD
Munchies:
This is pretty much the long and the short of it.
I will concede that you will have to adapt at a certain point. However, if you can maintain your fitness, you will be able to cycle just fine.
The only trick is that you will need to keep your caloric intake up. You'll build some muscle, but you can still be squishy. Just remember to keep junk food as a sometimes food. Your body will need a lot of nutrition that you can't get with a junk food-based diet.
Thanks for the advice, I’ll keep eating fruits and vegetables and everything aside to keep adding fat to my body. And I expect I’ll still be able to do some sports with all the exceeding fat
3 months
Zlukz:
I really want to be obese, I know I’ve always dreamed of it. But I also really like doing sports like cycling or tennis.
How do you manage to do both?
I already gained 25lbs. But I can already feel that doing sport is more difficult. Problem is that I want my body way softer, it’s only the beginning of my journey!
Do you have any tips or advices about that?
Wish you all a good day!
FatCam:
I was on a wrestling team when I was 315lbs so while some/most sports may become more challenging at a higher weight it's still possible you just have to want it. Also, to gain weight you only need to be in a calorie surplus, the body doesn't care where the calories come from they're just calories it stores them the same regardless. As Munchies said above you can gain weight perfectly fine by just eating a large amount of healthy food.
Thanks for your answer 😊 Let’s say that ice cream is working very well to get fatter 😅 But I’m alongside eating diversified food.
Maybe I should get away from cycling and think about making judo again. So then my weight won’t count 😁
3 months
Zlukz:But training hard will make me lose fat. But I want to be fatter ! 😅
Enas:Actually i think exercise is far less connected with fat than the diet, i think!
Idk how much this can be trusted but...
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Where i have a conflict with exercise, also is that immobility turns me on! Id love to be fattened up until i cant even roll over, but that is in contradiction with the fact i also want to be capable of doing stuff!
Thx for your answer. I’ll watch this video 😊 The thing is that I love competition. So I hope it won’t interfere with my weight gain and vice versa 😁
3 months
But training hard will make me lose fat. But I want to be fatter ! 😅
3 months
Enas:
What about cycling? 🤔
(asking because i really love cycling!)
Zlukz:
That sport is also one of those that I used to practice and I still love this sport. But I’m starting to be a little plump in my cycling clothes and I have difficulties to do the same distances than the ones I used to ride. Any tips for fat cycling ?
Enas:
OH i dont have any clothes specific for cycling, i just care about the distances i can cover! (I would love to go into a trip in the mountains with my bicycle and potentially other people with theirs too! I just dont wanna polute while having a fun trip! >~
Would love too but I’m starting to be too fat to do such a thing 😅
3 months
