I can’t say that it’s super common. I think it’s diminishing returns that brings feeder men to being feedees, but there’s something that evolves in us. I started out being a feedee but overtime I developed an appreciation for plus size women, it wasn’t there before.

I don’t think you should wait for someone who might come and focus on who’s in front of you. It’s hard enough to find someone you vibe with.

I would like a way to “save” my spot in a story there’s times where I’m reading and have to do something else and I’ll completely lose where I was. There’s probably not much can be done about the exact spot on a page but the page would be nice especially on some of the longer stories.

It would also be nice to have a history of stories read or a little spot that says read if it, or a history of liked stories if that makes sense I know these aren’t probably easy but something I thought of recently

I want to say I’ve only had pleasant interactions with you and most people on the site. People have different opinions on entire hosts of issues and that’s fine, but bigotry of any kind shouldn’t be acceptable in a kink space, borderline like incest rape and like sexual harassment are also not okay. Don’t psycho analyze something you can’t even read because I give a different opinion. We’re all “lonely” to some extent being on the internet, and in this kink space.

It is what it is. 6-7

There’s no need to feel “escalated” or whatever, it’s called a disagreement. And I don’t appreciate being insulted and psychoanalyzed because I don’t like we’re using bigoted and inappropriate language towards people who didn’t do anything wrong.

Incel is not an okay word to swing around anytime some man has a dogshit opinion.

If someone is a racist call them a racist if someone is a Nazi call them a Nazi if someone hates women call them a misogynist.

Heaven forbid people who don’t have sex are against being slandered against.

And what’s the self-report? That I don’t like that people use derogatory bigoted language towards people who don’t have sex? Like look around you really think all the people on here are sexually active? Half the people on here struggle with relationships/meaningfull connections yet I’m the bad guy for saying “maybe don’t say that word as a slur”

You can honestly shove your condecention where the sun don’t shine, little anon cartoon drawing.

Incel is a not a derogatory slur for women to use on men that they don’t like, or misogynists. In a kink space that understands queer or alt however you want frame it, sexuality, on an intimate level I find inappropriate.

Don’t get me wrong there are incels who hate women, but just calling bigots generally incels otherizes and removes agency from the bigot, as they are less than human — to large portions of people who use the slur.

In reality it just means someone who is involuntary celibate, which if you really consider it, there are a lot of. People aren’t having as much sex if you look at the data.

I’m sorry you experience bigotry and it goes on checked and you get the consequences of there actions.

I don’t use feabie because everyone takes themselves very seriously on there and the amount of people who use it as a place to air their grievances bothers me. Tumblr is pretty good!

Those sound delicious

hook up culture has kinda ruined that prospect for a lot of people who long for it.

I don’t understand how there’s dudes who are heavy with wives and or girlfriends who cheat, it shrimply seems like rage bait to me. Like how bro.