Newenglander:
After giving this topic some thought, yes college attendees today are indeed heavier than their counterparts from prior generations. But has anyone noticed those in their early-20s becoming fatter in general?
Many cashiers and other workers in my local Dollar Tree, Stop&Shop, and Walmart for example are young but not likely to be college students. This much I deduced from seeing them at work when class would be in session. They seem much heavier than their predecessors from about 20 years ago.
This makes me wonder if college attendance is simply coincidental to weight gain. Could the real culprits be a combination of factors such as poor diet, antidepressant use, video games, and social media?
Also cigarette use is down significantly among this demographic. Nicotine being a stimulant often helped keep the weight off.
And most antidepressants which are prescribed more and more for anxiety symptoms can make you gain some (sometimes a lot of) weight.
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MrOverstuffed:
I’ve had man boobs since I hit puberty, and I’m 22 now. It’s weird, I used to be really self-conscious about them and felt very uncomfortable at the abnormally large size of them, but it’s time went on. I’ve started to feel very comfortable with them. They’re not like big flabby boys, but if I wore a sports bra or something, you’d think I was a girl with small boobs. Man boob love!
My bf is very thin and has small man boobs, partly because he used to be much fatter, partly because that's his body shape. He doesn't like them but I do! I'm pan-demi-sexual so I like all genders body shapes (I'm just not sexually attracted to most people).
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Cattastrophe:
Hi so I'm an only child, and adopted and so I don't share genetics with my parents. And their both fit people so it wouldn't help anyway. My weight rn is 108lbs or 48.5kg and I'm trying to gain to 180lbs or 81.5kg. I'm 5' 7" and was wondering if any other girls have started at a similar height and weight and have gained that much. I am trying to guess how I will look or see people who have done what I'm trying to do. Or just looking for advice or what to expect especially since I've never been above 110 until this year. I am moderatly active and used to competitively run, but i don't think that's important.
I'm 5'1" and used to weigh around 180 lbs which means my BMI was 34 (over 30 is considered obese).
I was very fat but most people didn't realize just how much because my fat accumulated on my limbs rather than belly and I had a thin-ish face with a small double chin.
At your height and 180 lbs, your BMI will be 28 (overweight). Depending on your fat distribution (which is hard to predict unless you've been fat before or have fat family members) and fat %, you could look anything from pudgy to pretty fat.
I wish you well on your journey. 💜
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Bigandbloated:
I'll admit I've been pretty half assed in the whole gaining thing, and most of the time I only get into it a few times per year on those days I'm by myself and feeling really horny. That being said those high calorie shakes I've had on those days were so potent they've given me belly fat that still hasn't gone away no matter how much I've worked out or how little I've eaten. It's true what they say in that taking maltodex/ dextrose with a ton of fat makes it all go to your belly.
Though obvs don't do it all the time because that's how you get diabetes.
Not sure about diabetes but I'd worry about hepatic steatosis (fatty liver), Stuff with Afro doll corn syrup is especially bad for that Because your body cannot use this 5 carbon sugar as fuel unless it turn it into a fatty acid, which are stored in the liver. At least, this is what I remember from a course I took a long time ago...
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Ayumi Orihime:
Maybe we are not hiding... but just hide our ages well? 😂
I'm 42, but most people estimate me to be somewhere between 25-35.
EIIe:
Same!
46, and most assume I’m in my 30s.
I also have a young playful demeanor and I tend to connect best with those in their 30s. I’m also a cougar and will hook up with those in their 20s, keeps me young!
I didn’t come to this fetish until a few years ago so I’m still a baby.
Same situation here, I'm 45 and dating a beautiful 33 years old guy. 😉
People give me 35 at most. I self identify as agender and ageless.
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5'1" and 140 lbs (maybe a bit more but I've been avoiding the scale since mid August because I suffer from EDs it was too triggering) so BMI wise I'm overweight.
A few years ago I was over 180 lbs and obese. I had a double chin and my face looked buried in fat. This is just 40 lbs more than I am now...
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123456kevin:
I’ve been dealing with an ED for a while due to beauty standards, I feel like I have to starve myself cause I’m ugly if I’m not skinny and no one will ever love me. I’m not into this but this forum is strangely comforting when I’m really deep in my ED, that some people wouldn’t find me ugly for my chubby appearance. So uh- Thanks for existing ig?
Monthofdays:
Well, strange comfort is still comfort. I wish you all the best with your ED and hope that you can find peace with yourself and happiness in your body.
What led you to find this site?
123456kevin:
I was having a really bad day and just searched up “feeder forum” cause I thought that was the only thing that could stop me from relapsing, knowing that even if it’s in a sexual sense SOMEONE ANYONE wouldn’t hate me at my weight
I feel these forums aren't strictly about the sexual kink of feedism but also about body acceptance and, as I've mentioned above, are one of the rare safe spaces for fat human beings to exist and be celebrated.
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This reply is helping me as well. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
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Timlinsley:
Anyone have any pictures of before and after when you’ve bought some clothes which are far too big (like a massive pair of jeans), stepped into them, held them up and then taken a picture of when you’re much fatter and have grown into them? (The reverse to the weight loss pictures you see of people whose clothes are now too big for them
There are not enough of these types of pictures!
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Thick thighs, moobs and a soft belly on a man. Rock hard beach ball bellies aren't my thing. I love fat that jiggles.
Hugging a very fat person and feeling my body sink slightly into their fat.
A small belly and love handles spilling over the waistline on an otherwise thin person wearing jeans 1-2 sizes too small.
When t-shirts are just tight enough that you can see the outline of the belly button.
Loose skin because it's soft and where adipose tissue once was there is the potential for the fat cells to swell back up.
Stretched out tattoos and a belly button piercing surrounded by soft flesh. Elastic marks from tight underwear.
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