I’ve always been fascinated by big men with large, hairy bellies 🧸🐻. One day, while searching for "gay bear" videos on YouTube, I stumbled upon feederism content; I see it as a natural, logical progression of my fetish for big bellies, and over time, other related kinks have developed.

I love feeding a big guy until his belly is fully distended and stuffed, and hearing him let out loud, crude, and beastly belches 🥴. I enjoy it as long as it’s occasional and he maintains his original weight.

But that’s where I draw the line; I don’t like it when a man becomes morbidly obese to the point of physical impairment or health problems.

That's a really nice theory.

That might be partly why there are still cultures around the world that appreciate plus-sized women or individuals; it signifies that the person isn't living in poverty and has access to as much food as they want.

to be able to crush other little guys like me under their big bellies, and keep them nice and warm in their fat🐻🧸

I can relate to that too, being a skinny, stressed guy myself. It’s not surprising; people with a largeur, and chunky build🐻🧸 are reassuring and make you feel secure.

Besides, ending up crushed under a big belly is actually quite pleasant, too: you feel flattened yet relaxed it’s like a good massage.

Yes of course, it's awesome.

I think there are far more people than you'd think who like big bellies🧸

big bellies🐻 are life 🥴

Yes, when I'm stressed, I sometimes imagine a big, burly man holding me nice and warm against his big soft belly in a tight hug🐻. Big bellies can make perfect stress balls.

I’ve always loved men with big bellies; the sight of a man with a full, distended belly simply turns me on. I also love burps and stomach gurgling sounds (and I have plenty of other kinks and fetishes, too). Seeing them looking stuffed, sighing with satisfaction, and rubbing their big bellies is incredibly hot.

I love feederism too, because I think I enjoy taking care of a big guy like a big baby; I can rub their big bellies and give them big hugs🐻, and they’re happy and at ease. I can also ask them to crush me under their big bellies or burp in my face.

However, I’m not into extreme feederism where someone gains so much weight that they become disabled due to morbid obesity; that doesn't appeal to me at all. I enjoy feederism only when it’s occasional and doesn't ruin the feedee's health. Plus, even though I like heavier men, I don't like it when they get "too" big; to me, that isn't attractive.

I completely agree with you, especially regarding the "imagination" aspect; I really relate to that, given all the scenarios I dream up around my various inclinations and fetishes (especially vore).

I have read all your messages and enjoyed reading them; they are very interesting and informative.

I spend a lot of time on all sorts of fetish sites, so I’ve run into quite a few weirdos.

But the biggest nutcase I ever chatted with was on one of those sites. One morning, I logged into FantasyFeeder and saw a message; I opened it, and it was from a guy typing in all caps, calling me an asshole for not replying to his messages (even though I hadn't seen them simply because I hadn't logged in). He kept sending me angry messages for no reason, threatening to smash my face in if I didn't reply quickly (even though I live in France and he’s in England). I checked his profile, and in his bio, he had written in all caps that he was sick of no one wanting to reply to him or show him their belly; he had repeated that same phrase over and over, like a total psychopath—someone who is mentally unstable (which he definitely was). Once I realized he was unhinged, I didn't waste any time on him; I just replied "adios" and blocked him. The next day, I stumbled upon an article about him (since his full name was on his account and I recognized his face from the photos in the article; he was a young man in his twenties who really needed to take a "vacation" in a psychiatric hospital for the safety of those around him).

Here is the article about him—as well as the harassment, lies, and insults he inflicted on his friends. www.blubberbuster.com/my_story/1753837711/

I have absolutely no proof of the veracity of this article (or whether it is only partially true), but the messages he sent me clearly show that this guy is mentally unstable. And if reading this article can save people from Grommr from having trouble with him, then I figure that’s not such a bad thing.

Their account name is the same as the one in the article, and their face is recognizable in the photos.