Zlukz:
I really want to be obese, I know I’ve always dreamed of it. But I also really like doing sports like cycling or tennis.
How do you manage to do both?
I already gained 25lbs. But I can already feel that doing sport is more difficult. Problem is that I want my body way softer, it’s only the beginning of my journey!
Do you have any tips or advices about that?
Wish you all a good day!
FatCam:
I was on a wrestling team when I was 315lbs so while some/most sports may become more challenging at a higher weight it's still possible you just have to want it. Also, to gain weight you only need to be in a calorie surplus, the body doesn't care where the calories come from they're just calories it stores them the same regardless. As Munchies said above you can gain weight perfectly fine by just eating a large amount of healthy food.
Zlukz:
Thanks for your answer 😊 Let’s say that ice cream is working very well to get fatter 😅 But I’m alongside eating diversified food.
Maybe I should get away from cycling and think about making judo again. So then my weight won’t count 😁
What about sports that involve water, like rowing and/or swimming? It's a great way to get cardio in and weight doesn't affect your performance as much.
1 week
Has anyone ever left a long term relationship to explore their feedist fantasies? And did you regret it?
1 week
Has anyone found a great deal of enjoyment and even meaning from their kink, only to have most of it taken away from them by a suddenly low libido? I started antidepressants a few months ago and my libido took a complete nose dive, but the meds helped so much with everything else in my life that I don't want to consider tempting fate by switching them out.
1 month
Munchies:
Just wanna point out that your second therapist is unbelievably stupid and needs to educate themselves. Lotta aces participate in kink.
I left out a lot of context. Sure ace people can participate in fetish, but can a person still be ace if their fetish (and only their fetish) makes them desire sex? Maybe gray ace? I think the definition can get complicated and subjective at that point.
1 month
I can totally relate to your frustration and used to feel guilty about this but honestly everyone needs to find their own unique balance between attraction and compatibility. It's totally okay to have "musts" as long as you respect potential partners as human beings and let them make decisions about their bodies for themselves.
As for whether or not you're asexual/greysexual, no one can answer that for you. I've talked to two different therapists about this over the years about a similar issue myself, and one of them suggested I was asexual but the other one said I can't be because of my fetish. Idk. Either way, it may not be something you can change, and life is too short to try to guilt yourself out of finding happiness. I'm sure there are partners out there that are complementary to you in both personality and attraction.
1 month
BBWcreator82:
Honestly, I'd say most of us have some kind of thing like this going on.
Let's face it. We're weird.
Stockylove:
I love being a weirdo 😆
lmao. The biggest compliment I ever received from a partner was that I'm a lot of things but normal isn't one of them.
1 month
Fat Dreams:
Munchies, can I ask about your decision to refer to kinks that aren't bdsm-related as vanilla?
Munchies:
I'm not. I'm refering to the kink in it's purest form as vanilla. It's like how people refer to unmodded games as vanilla.
Ok, got it. Thanks for clarifying.
1 month
Munchies, can I ask about your decision to refer to kinks that aren't bdsm-related as vanilla?
1 month
Magodamilion2:
Yes I relate strongly, I've been trying to put it into words. People sometimes say they get a lesbian vibe from me and I've always throught it was to do with my fat fetish.
But what it really is is that I'm a top. I'm a cis het woman but I'm a top. My fantasies are all centered around degrading men and making them as helpless as possible.
It's a certain kind of madness that lots of men have, that thirst for another person's humiliation and gradual destruction. Iykyk
I've had people in real life wonder about my sexuality before too but in those cases I chalked it up to other things. Maybe I do give a vibe though? It's really not about power for me at all but I'm a bit more like one of those stereotypical males who probably spends a little too much time daydreaming about the bods I like.
1 month
