Tacos definitely. There's a Mexican restaurant right across the street from my work that I'll go to for lunch. I guarantee several lbs of my gain are from them alone

I think consent is one importand factor but as such, it has limits. For example in my decision to do write in here was informed by one other factor, in addittion to OP's request. I explained this above.

About my take on rape, i might be ignorant of things, but i haven’t actually seen my take criticised (and i mean that, merely starting that its a shitty take isn’t really productive criticism)


My brother in christ do you know what consent means? I've been trying to be lurk in this thread because I figured I had more to learn from this thread than I had to contribute but my god do I need to respond to this. OP was not "arguing" anything. They were posing a discussion amongst women, trans women, nonbinary folks, and any other vulnerable group in the feederism community because as they said in their original post demographically they are more likely to be feedees and as such they need to stay safe from men who commit acts that are sexual assault and in certain cases can be comparable to rape.
Consent to anything feederism related is absolutely mandatory. Force feedings are a form of roleplay and should be seen as such. You are not literally forcing your partner to eat against their will, there should be a safe word involved and if the feedee or hell even the feeder feels uncomfortable they have the right to immediately stop and revoke consent. And secret feedings should be entirely off the table as there is zero consent involved.
There is no "both sides-ing" either of those things. Consent is required and that is what OP wanted to discuss with others in their particular position. Now considering we're both men and are not in any of the groups OP was addressing in their original post let's withdraw from the conversation and allow this forum thread to continue as it was intended to be.

I'm a male feedee so my experience may be different but I thought I'd still share.
For me I've put this kink to the side for relationships. I've never met anyone in real life whos into feederism. I've been with several women who preferred dad bods or bigger men in general. But that was just a preference thing, they weren't into feeding at all. I have also been in relationships were my partner put on "relationship weight" and they enjoyed that. But that wasn't really feederism either.
I'd say if you're having luck scoring dates with chubby or plus size women, pursue that rather than waiting for a ssbbw. Besides you may have better luck than I have finding someone who shares this kink and maybe one of them would like to get to that weight.

I honestly didn't know T could make you gain that much weight but that's amazing. Don't worry about others, it's not healthy to compare people's bodies anyway because everyone is different and everyone puts on weight in different ways and at different speeds. Just enjoy your rapid gain and how affirming it feels to you

I know this is a bit of a doomer post but with the whole situation in Iran seemingly bringing us closer to a war it's been on my mind. If the US outright declares war on Iran would obesity be considered a medical condition that could get you exempt from service? And if so what would the cut off be? Like at what weight would they say "oh they'll lose it in basic training" vs "this guy isn't even worth our time". I know a draft isn't very likely even if we do go to war, but it seems like in the last year or so the worst possible outcome for a lot of major events has happened. So my hopes for this situation aren't very high

You can always play around with inflation or just make stuffings an occasional thing. That way you keep your slim physique but you can still play around with a bigger belly when you want to. I've only ever played with inflation with coke and mentos and a cake shake. But I know air and water inflations are pretty popular too

That's honestly half the reason I still exercise while trying to gain weight. My fat distribution definitely favors my belly but I want a more rounded figure all over so I use muscle mass to fill in holes in my physique. It's definitely paid off because I'm starting to get more stretch marks on my inner legs and butt. And I've had stretch marks on my arms since before I started gaining fat and only gained muscle mass

I've also heard that it slows down your metabolism too, because while your body is metabolizing the alcohol it's not as effective at breaking down the food in your stomach so it just stores a lot of that as fat to break down later. Though I could be mistaken, I'm not a medical professional nor a dietician

1) I'm so much more confident with my body. When I first started gaining weight I was so self conscious about how boney I looked. Like you could straight up count my ribs it was that bad.
2) just the weight of my own body is satisfying as hell. Sure it's annoying sometimes when I stand up, but when I'm laying down it'sike having a weighted blanket on at all times
3) reaching new weight goals is just satisfying. I get the same dopamine hit from gaining 5 lbs as I do adding another 5 lbs to a lift at the gym. I can't really explain it that well, but seeing big number go up whether in the gym or on the scale excites my ape brain

Ive had almost the exact opposite experience, I started off as a FA (I've been attracted to chubby people for as long as I've known what attraction is). I was just severely underweight as a teenager so as I started to get my weight under control I really I enjoyed the sensation of gaining weight and decided to continue. It started as lean mass because I was doing a bulk/cut cycle. But now I'm just doing an infinite bulk cycle and I love it. I just wish the weight would stick a little faster