Anony776655:
lmao what is happening????? i just checked this how did this even start... i mean thank you everybody for standing up for me but how did this escalate so fast 😭 i should stop making ads here...

Supersizeher27:
I'm currently in a really amazing relationship. It taught me a lot about myself. However, one thing it taught me is that what I once thought was a slight feedism/fat kink actually seems to be a full-blown fetish that I can't shake. We've talked at length about it for a very long time and they tried gaining for a bit, but long story short, they really don't like it and do not want to gain more, which I completely understand and respect. This has left me in an interesting position. I love them so much and they are so perfect for me in every other way, but I've realized that I can barely engage with them sexually without having fantasies that result in me desperately wanting them to be fat (they are not) or gain weight. I am unsure what to do, this fetish not being satisfied is genuinely causing me a good amount of distress and I'm obviously not going push them to do something they don't want to do.

So, I'm left with a horrible choice. Do I stay with them? I can't imagine not being with them, but having to deal with this strange desperation for... fatness is very draining. I have talked about this so much with them (they have been amazingly patient and I am so grateful and feel so bad), and we are both at our wits end. I have never been with someone who is not skinny before, which makes it even harder because I don't really know what the alternative really is outside of fantasy. I want to know if anyone else here has had similar experiences, and for anyone (especially feeders) who have experience with actual feedism relationships, what would you do, and is being in such a relationship as good as my fantasies tell me? Thanks.

Also, one more thing, is it normal to feel the kind of distress I am feeling for not being able to engage with this fetish? I am worried that maybe it is not, and other people would not be this affected by it and so perhaps there is a deeper problem.

Munchies:
Common? Yes. But I wouldn't call it normal. Just as there are many feeders in your situation, there are many more for have found ways to handle their fetish in healthy ways without repressing.

I'm one such feeder. My feedee and partner of 3 years decided to stop gaining weight back in 2023. They have since lost about 100 lbs. I am not only supporting and helping them lose weight, but I'm also fine with it.

I am an extreme feeder. Whenever I enter into a feedist relationship, it is with the expectation that they will want to stop or even reverse course at some point. And if I want a relationship with this person outside of kink, I need to exist with this person outside of kink as well.

There's variations on what that looks like. For example, actively looking for things you find attractive about their changing body, engaging in role play and fantasy, erotic media, and more. Therapy is also a good thing as well to help you process shit.

But sometimes, no matter how good the other person is, people are incomparable. And that's okay.

ShadowMike:
more contradictions 😂

Anony776655:
bump!

ShadowMike:
you make no sense

Enas:
She said that because its a new distinct comment and brings the post to the top of the forum (it makes the post more visible).

Isn't that obvious?

Veronicasch:
There is nothing more that i enjoy than a play date with a gentleman who lives to to appreciate stuffing and the role of being submissive. I'm naturally domineering and extremely passionate about what i do funnel and tubing feeding you with thousands of calories that's why i joined the lifestyle to try new things.

Anony776655:
bump!

ShadowMike:
you make no sense

Munchies:
Someone is looking for attention again. Weird to look for it from a lesbian. Unless you transed your gender, seems like a waste of your time.

ShadowMike:
You need to leave me alone.

Slayright:
Damn this guy is everywhere. Also if she isn't even attracted to guys why you attention seeking lmao.

Munchies:
Chile, this man is an incel. In the three years I've been on here, I've seen him harass multiple queer women before.

HippoHips:
To all the fellow gamers on here!

I absolutely love music, and videogame OSTs have a special place in my heart. I'd like to share some of my favorite videogame soundtracks and hear some of yalls as well!

The total number of soundtracks i enjoy is too big to quantify, but off the top of my head, I can name a few favorites

Sonic Unleashed
Kingdom Hearts II & III
Tak 2: The Staff of Dreams
Banjo Tooie
Toontown Corporate Clash

Lmk yalls favorites and recommendations too!

BlxxdyKawaii:
OH MAN OH MAN I quite literally almost only listen to video game soundtracks so this thread got me all giddy.

My favs/go-tos are:

The Captain - Rain World
Kayava - Rain World
Shoreline Threat - Rain World
Mount Fay - Silksong
Cogwork Core - Silksong
Sisters of Battle - Hollow Knight
Daughter of Hallownest - Hollow Knight
Faith Up - Cult of the Lamb
Leshy Punished - Cult of the Lamb
Darkwood Purged - Cult of the Lamb
Anchordeep Purged - Cult of the Lamb
Flight - Sky COTL
An Upwards Dance - Sky COTL
Apotheosis - Journey
Atonement - Journey
I was Born For This - Journey

Yeah I only play like 5ish games and they’re all indie games.

MaxiBohn:
My favourite game soundtrack of all time is the RimWorld soundtrack - but some of my other beloved ones are Super Meat Boy, Risk of Rain and Noita.

I'm gonna be real though most of what I listen to is so obscure I don't think a single person here would know what the hell I'm talking about 😅