I think it boils down to proportions. I'll never forget my first visit to an american movie theater. I went to the concession stand and ordered a large coke and a large popcorn. And the person looked at me (i was alone) and they were like are you sure you want a LARGE popcorn? I flinched and said "yeah, large please." Bro handed me a BARREL of popcorn I swear. It was practically family sized and it was just for me lol I spent the next day or two snacking on popcorn.Of course the large coke was massive, felt like at least double the large size here in Canada.

Only piece of advice I can offer at this time, be patient and respect everyone you interact with. We're all people here and while many of us share similar interests, there are things that can give us the ick, like going straight to teasing/degrading namecalling, kindness goes a long way.

One I’ve been able to play out in person, gym gf fat bf.
The contrast is incredible and the taboo nature of a fit hard body with a lazy man like me? Oh my, so hot.

In my 40s here! Not hiding! Always open to chat with folks in the same age group!

I'll be paying close attention to threads like this. Think I'm going to have my first funnel experience next month!

I don't see it as a major stretch to say that maybe one day a FFA would approach me and say hi. i'm not encouraging people to go out and "hit on" ppl at your local Mcdonald's. Your responses were a little harsh. Thank you, Kitsune for acknowledging that.

My weight gain has made it so I'm required to work from home. I have a massive fupa (or fat pad) so clothes don't fit me properly. Walking adds a lot of stress to it as well. It also makes walking extremely difficult, so taking my dog outside for a potty break is like a whole workout for me. I'm slowly adding more movement so I can increase my mobility.

As I sat in the McDonald's parking lot the other day, I was like "Why isn't this like a pickup bar or something?" lol Lowkey a really easy place to find fat people. Would be a shame if a FFA rolled up on me while I was eating my double quarter pounder!

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. It's interesting, I'm more attracted to femme presenting ppl who are much smaller than me, I enjoy the contrast. As for men, I've always preferred bigger guys. Not bigger than me necessarily, but I love when they're a bit husky at least. More than anything though, a good connection with communication and trust exceeds all of the above

I recommend checking the website SeatGuru. They have fairly extensive reviews on seating complete with charts. So when you're selecting your seat for travel, you can go to the site, enter your flight's plane model and find something that works. i've heard some people buy their own seatbelt extender to carry when traveling, but I've always asked the flight attendant for one as I'm boarding, never had an issue with that. Hope you find safe and comfortable travel!