I noticed I have them in the mirror the other day! They are cute until your thighs are squished together for 7 hours in a small car 😆 fat girl problems! Congrats! 🥳
2 weeks
Honestly when I gained to my biggest I hadn’t realised as I wore comfy clothes working from home. I knew I’d gained a bit and avoided mirrors and cameras (I wasn’t active in this scene then and still repressing it)
I remember catching myself walking into the room with tighter undergarments on and couldn’t believe it. I did just stop for a moment and take everything in. I truly waddled like a fat person, I was leaning back slightly to accommodate my stomach. And my arms jutted out to the side. I was truly in shock.
Those moments are mad! It wasn’t long after I came back here and found my people again 😝
2 weeks
Such a great read, thank you for sharing with us! I’m really happy for you that you’ve accepted yourself, and found a place you can truly be yourself!
I repressed and shamed myself for way too long and I am so much happier now I accept who I am. I’m learning more about myself every day still and embracing it.
I hope those who are conflicted read your post and find some comfort ☺️
2 weeks
I do find the psychology of it fascinating, in kink in general. This is an interesting theory. I do wish there was more information out there about it. It would help us understand ourselves a bit more too
2 weeks
I think it’s a personal experience for everyone. Sometimes those things that annoy one person can be a turn on or a comfort to another. And for the person themselves it can change day to day
E.g. today I had a 7 hour journey in a relatively small car and my thighs being squished together that long with not much room to move got on my nerves after a while! But other times if driving over bumps and I feel it ripple on my thighs and over my body it’s enjoyable.
So it’s a nuanced answer and different for each I’d say.
3 weeks
As many probably are in this community as it’s widely considered an offshoot - BDSM.
I am submissive and love to be bratty too. BDSM test site said 98% and 97% of my kink profile accordingly 😂 so that says it all. I love the thought of testing the boundaries or seeing what I can get away with/how I’ll be reprimanded for being disobedient 😏
Mix in a bit of a praise kink and that’s me in a nutshell.
3 weeks
It’s all down to genetics. I have always had chubby cheeks regardless of size and the weight tends to go to my face and belly first. It really got fat when I hit around 250
3 weeks
Sorry to hear you’re going through this. I have a lot of health issues, Fibromyalgia, PMOS, knee injury, palpitations after Covid among other MH stuff like anxiety and AUDHD with a little trauma scattered in for good measure!
It’s tough when you’re wired the way we are so I think it’s important to find balance between health, acceptance and happiness. I had high blood pressure, mobility issues were much worse, palpitations were more common at 120kgish and now I’m 93kg I still indulge, still am pretty “fat” even if not as much as some of this community would like sometimes. But I’m at a place I can enjoy this and have a hold on my health.
Also when it comes to GLP1s, regardless of what people say they are fantastic at helping with health issues aside from the weight loss. You may already be on one for diabetes, but I can’t recommend them enough. I haven’t lost all my weight, but it’s helped with my Fibro and PMOS/PCOS
I hope your health improves and you still manage to find a way to enjoy this without it impacting you too much
3 weeks
ChubuffElly:
About a week ago I got an orthopaedic knee bandage to help a misaligned kneecap.
During the fitting the employee helped me get it on and said.
"Sorry ma'am but your thigh fat is spilling over, it also has to fit into the sleeve"
They very kind and did not try to offend me but I found it pretty amusing that my fat is a problem here and there.
Anyone else experienced funny 'spillovers'?
I get this on my arms with blood pressure sleeves. They never fit properly and the Velcro ends up popping open 🙄
Clothes wise I always spill over waistbands, I have to pull them up really high to attempt to make them “acceptable but it just makes it one big round ball then 😂
4 weeks
Gettingfatter25:
I love the fat shaming. They always show me a chart where my weight should be and where it is. This time they had me make an appointment with a nutritionist.
I mentioned this before I think but the other day they said the limit bmi for elective surgery was 35 - so I went on to say I won’t lose any more weight to stay above that and she looked me confused like “No we need you BELOW 35 bmi 🤷♀️” 😂 I’m so used to being in the fatsphere.
But yeh, I am always embarrassed when I’m weighed and that look of hmmm you should do something about that, though they aren’t as harsh now I’ve lost a bit of weight - which is conflictingly annoying 😂
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