Personally, Im not a huge fan of very skinny against fat. I love the contrast of fitness and strength vs fat and lazy. There’s something about societies expectation that a fit guy would be into fit girls - feeding and enjoying a fat body along with how different they look next to each other. It probably “feeds” into the dom/sub dynamic for me too - relinquishing control to a strong dominant feeder who explores the body of his making. Love it!
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Fatgirlbelly:
I’ve been at different stages of fat over the years. Similarly to you it was bending over to tie laces which became bending by over to pick something up the bigger I got. The stretch marks for me were a hard one to ignore, and having to waddle, especially when full to accommodate the weight in my belly. Nothing says “you’re fat” like your belly slapping our thigh walking up the stairs too 🤭
Cookiecrazy:
The waddling is something that I've picked up on recently, like I subconsciously found myself walking wider and realised I was just compensating for my belly now.
You're so right about the stairs too. I've actually found going downstairs were when I couldn't stop noticing I'd started growing moobs with how my chest bounced 😅
Actually, now you come to mention it you’re right about the downstairs rather than the going up them!
Having to sort of rock yourself forward to get up is another one! And every pair of knickers rolling down to under the belly - girls you know what I’m talking about lol
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I’ve been at different stages of fat over the years. Similarly to you it was bending over to tie laces which became bending by over to pick something up the bigger I got. The stretch marks for me were a hard one to ignore, and having to waddle, especially when full to accommodate the weight in my belly. Nothing says “you’re fat” like your belly slapping our thigh walking up the stairs too 🤭
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LoLbreadplease:
Great website I wish I had found sooner!
But it is very feeder focused, like giving advice to feeders. But besides that, it's helpful.
Ah I’ve not explored the rest of the site, I have only come across this article. Will have to explore a bit more
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HeavyCreamQueen33:
I am transgender (mtf) and I'm on hrt that will redistribute my fat across my body with time.
I've been casually gaining for about a year and have gone from 170lbs to 200lbs, most of which has gone to my stomach and arms. I'm pretty happy those two areas more now, however my thighs and calves are still naturally toned/thinner than I'd like them to be. I know I've put a tiny amount of weight on my legs though, since most of my jeans are much tighter now.
I walk somewhat regularly (probably about an hour a week total) and at home I am on my feet probably an average amount. Is there anything I can do to put more weight on my legs without them looking 'toned'?
Unfortunately it’ll likely be genetics. I gain mostly in my belly but got big thighs when I got to 250+ and it’s also where I’ve lost from first
The bigger you get they will get bigger but sometimes it’s luck of the draw where and when
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Kaede45:
I had pretty similar experiences to others:
Violet Beauregard’s infamous scene.
Various other cartoon characters getting fat.
I think for me one of the tip offs was the old “before & after” pics in old magazines, especially when the weight lost was actually very substantial.
I think one of the reasons I’m so secretive about my preferences is my mom. Sometimes when she sees a fat person she will mention how sad she is to see it. She’s never really malicious about it, in fact she is very empathetic & I understand how unhealthy being fat is, but I guess it has left me feeling abnormal.
Let’s not get started on Mums and their Fatphobia ways, especially boomers we would need a new threat to trauma dump haha
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I’m not sure what qualifies as the fattest there’s so many things.
-Would stop at the shop everyday on the way home from school and get multiple chocolate and cream cakes to have on the way home before dinner. I’d have usually had a bakery treat for break time during school as well.
-(some people would have already seen this that came out in a chat leak yesterday 😂…) I was sat at the very back of the bus home from work where it’s very “bouncy” over the many road bumps here. My work top started to ride out and my belly poking out more and more. Was feeling a bit deviant that day so I let it. The window was visible from the seat up so anyone outside would have seen me in all my fat glory!
- Ripped too tight work tights sitting down on the bus. Ripped seams of trousers sitting down at the computer (luckily wfh) about to join a meeting. To name a few popped buttons and zips experiences.
- Went through a bit of a Baileys phase so would easily get through a bottle every few days, sometimes over that so 3000-4000 calories
There’s so many over the years I wish I’d kept note but at the time, I was trying to pretend they didn’t happen 😂
1 week
1. Been fed IRL
No 😞
2. Ate myself to sleep
Yes, a little too often.
3. Had sex while being fed at the same time
Not IRL
4. Stolen food because I’m just a piggy
Not stolen as such, sneaked it secretly many times
5. Been called a fat name in public
Many times
6. Had a stranger pat or poke my belly
Doctor patted my bare belly unexpectedly a couple of weeks back after finishing an examination does that count? 😂
7. Been fatter than my current weight
By around 50lbs, yes
8. Ripped clothes or popped a button
Yes, on purpose and accidentally
9. Broken furniture because of my weight
Yes
10. Seen an actual pig and got turned on
No
11. Fantasized about immobility
No
12. Ate until I threw up
I don’t think so
13. Got stuck somewhere because of my size
Not in the literal sense but I’ve had to find alternative ways through where others could squeeze through a gap and I couldn’t
14. Posted nudes of myself online
No
15. Been fed online
Yes
16. Been told I need to lose weight by a family member
Yes
17. Had a partner who worshiped my fat
No 😭
18. Started rubbing my belly in public
Yes, I think I do it unintentionally quite often too
19. Been called a pig
Only online I think
20. Been weighed and measured by my partner
Nope
21. Been in a gaining competition with another gainer
No - all my gaining has been accidental
1 week
Fatgirlbelly:
As others have said I think it varies greatly. I filled out the “kink jars” on my profile which I thinks really helpful in letting people know what you like and what isn’t really your thing. Personally teasing me about how big I’ve let myself get is the main one!
Jojo123abc:
This is actually really helpful to see on someone's profile. Takes a lot of the guess work out and helps with keeping it within boundaries
Yeh, it’s really handy for that. I’ve made a separate thread for completing and sharing the jars but here’s the link if anyone’s interested -
feedism.neocities.org/explore/jars
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