Momismuffin:
I'm currently 285. I was actually quite happy when I hit 305 for my Momi, my Feeder and boss of me in our FLR. i dropped some as the surgeon I consulted for my hernia wanted a 50 lb weight loss to do the surgery. I got down to 275... then they tried the wegovy which really messed me up. I'm not really in gainer or loser right now. I love when my Momi feeds me, and when she stuffs me. We're going to an ALL YOU CAN EAT this thursday and SHE is stuffing me for HER birthday.

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

AskDrFeeder:
PlumpChick: If you want a limit for yourself that's fine; I don't think anyone would object to that.

Out of curiousity, what IS your limit? How did you arrive at it?

PlumpChick:
My profile has my limit, it is 200 pounds. I was 206 at one point and it was difficult to run. Once I dropped back to 199/200, I could run again. Believe it or not, those 6 pounds were the turning point. Soft bellies and back fat are cute, don't get me wrong, but I value my mobility.

XFat:
That's wonderful for you! I'm very glad that you have found a weight that works for you and that you are able to stay at that weight.

My personal weight/mobility restrictions dont align with yours. I cant run, in cant jump, and if a building was burning and the only exit was a window, I may die due to not being able to fit through it. Personally, I want to be even bigger than I am now, which I know will come with even more compromises on my health/mobility.

That being said, I dont feel that I deserve to be judged, told that I am getting too big, or that I shouldn't be growing larger. Especially within a community that celebrates bigger bodies. Especially within a community where we support immobility, immobility fantasies, death feedists, and other extreme forms of weight gain. Don't yuck someone else's yum, we all deserve a space to be hedonistic and happy 😊

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

AskDrFeeder:
PlumpChick: If you want a limit for yourself that's fine; I don't think anyone would object to that.

Out of curiousity, what IS your limit? How did you arrive at it?

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Well, my statements are objectively true, so I don't know what exactly you are disagreeing with. There are many feedists who enjoy the challenges and struggles, and obviously we are aware of them but choose to do it anyway.

Regarding limits, everyone has them and they are personal to each individual. People will also have their real life limits and their fantasy limits. This is a space where we can talk about both without judgement and being told what we should, and shouldn't, do with our own bodies.

AskDrFeeder:
PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

If it "starts to"? I think you'd notice some impact on mobility just gaining 25 pounds or so. Maybe you could still get around fine, but you might have to take the stairs slower. You might have more trouble sitting down on the floor and getting back up.

Health impacts are similarly hard to define. It could impact your health without you even noticing it until years later, if then.

That said, I think people should at least try to define these things for themselves.

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
I would never put something so personal on an app.

Soylentlilac:
Valid. Perhaps more appealing for those who already have a pile of pics on Grokio, via Feabie.

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

MCC2018:
Has anyone ever experienced being the fat friend? I used to be perfect and skinny like the rest of my friend group but then I started to gain weight… I can’t stop eating and I eat all night when no one can see. My friends were being nice and didn’t say anything at first but now they’re starting to treat me different. They make fun at me and actually poke at my belly, they call me the blueberry girl but then say “omg we’re joking you’re beautiful”. It hurts but I don’t want to have no friends. What do i do?