Angelgluttony:
I don’t have a weight goal in mind. I just simply love to eat. Gaining weight is an added bonus that I really enjoy.
You've found two things you enjoy and put them together. Sounds wonderful to me. That's a nice gain by the way. I'm sure it was lots of fun.
10 months
ChubuffElly:
Hio, I'm very anxious to write about this but here we go.
For a very long time now I have had difficulty with my own body image. I love gaining, the lifestyle and I'm definitely happier but.
When browsing on here or whereever else I can't stop comparing, pinching and padding myself down. I know this might be a general problem but I was not sure if it fit there since it is very much fat related. Being trans might also add negatively to the issue. I'm worried that no matter how much or where I put on weight it's not going to be enough.
Has anyone else felt this way and has some advice on how to ameliorate this terrible mindset?
I don't know if you have body dysmorphia, but I do think you've let yourself get too obsessed over weight gain. My thought would be to stop or limit your time at sites like this for awhile. Maybe looking in a mirror as suggested might work, I don't know, but making peace with your body is a good thing. I don't think you need to worry about never being able to gain enough weight. Honestly from what i've seen and read feedee's generally reach a point where they are satisfied with their gain and just maintain from there. I'm sure that will probably be the case with you. Wishing you all the best, and hope you are able to resolve your problem
10 months
Fatluvinguy:
I've been using c.ai for a few days now and while I think it's a great idea it does have limitations. A lot of the time it's just repeating back what i said and it gets a little boring. Maybe i'm not using it properly, but I was hoping for the ai characters to be a little more intuitive I guess. Then again maybe i'm just expecting more than ai can give at this point. But I certainly see what might be possible in the future.
Snivvels:
C.AI *can* be pretty neat, but does suffer from that 'repeat back to you' thing sometimes. I think that some of the characters are "over designed" and this leaves the AI less room to respond freely.[/quote]I tried the other site you mentioned, venus.chub. Since you said it was depraved I figured I better give it a shot.lol I set up a couple of scenarios, but found the responses long winded sounding like i was talking to a life coach. Plus they basically repeated back what I said, only in that flowery language.
10 months
Otherday99:
I have personally been using for months the weight gain generator from c.ai to prompt stories and roleplaying, but darker themes or NSFW parts are heavily censored. Besides that, is really complete and has a lot of ideas. Any other website or generator is really appreciated!
I've been using c.ai for a few days now and while I think it's a great idea it does have limitations. A lot of the time it's just repeating back what i said and it gets a little boring. Maybe i'm not using it properly, but I was hoping for the ai characters to be a little more intuitive I guess. Then again maybe i'm just expecting more than ai can give at this point. But I certainly see what might be possible in the future.
11 months
I'd say do what works for you. If you like doing it every week that's great. If you're actively gaining, then I'm sure you look forward to the weekly weigh-ins, especially if that number is climbing. Everyone does their own thing, for their own reasons. Enjoy.
11 months
Ditzy:
What a well written post so thank you for that.
When I started to gain weight my Mother was aghast at how I would wear crop tops and low waisted jeans and let my muffin top show.
We would go shopping and she would "suggest" I buy a few sizes larger because what I was wearing was way too small.
I loved how my body looked and to me being chubby was way better than being skinny with no curves.
My size never held me back.
I'm curious about accepting oneself at a higher weight. I can appreciate coming to terms with yourself and even enjoying the extra weight. It seems like the harder part is coming to terms with the negative comments overweight people have to deal with all the time. How many overweight people enjoy being fat, but can't handle the emotional impact of being ridiculed. How were you able to get past that to fully enjoy life.
11 months
HanSelo:
Keen to hear from people who gave in to their desires in middle age.
I’m in my mid forties. I’ve hovered around 235lbs since COVID, with occasional indulgent growth spurts, followed by dieting and cardio. A classic yoyo dieter I guess.
I feel like I’m at a crossroads, however, and that I really need to commit to one set of priorities or the other. Either I put everything into the strength and fitness basket, and enjoy a ripped late-forties, or I give in completely to that constant nagging voice, and get fat.
Has anyone else waited until middle age to let go?
Since you can't decide which way to go, why not do both. I've seen plenty of pics here and elswhere of guys who have a bigger gut, but it's obvious they are still working out with the weights, judging by their arms and chests. I mean you wouldn't have the ripped look of a pure bodybuilder, but you'd have plenty of bulk. The best of both worlds really. Just a thought. Good luck.
1 year
I started putting on weight around my mid-30's, but I wasn't even concious of it until I could barely close my jeans one day. I ended up gaining about 75 pounds, the last 60 intentionally. In regards to really feeling the weight, running and climbing stairs come to mind the most. Where I had been pretty light on my feet, now I felt my stomach bouncing and jiggling when I ran and I was quickly out of breath. But when I tried to run up stairs is where I could really feel the extra 75 pounds of fat. I loved it by the way. Wish I had kept gaining.
1 year
I first noticed an interest in being fat right before puberty. I stuffed myself with pillows etc. By the way I was a skinny child and teen. When I entered puberty my own thoughts of gaining gave way to my attraction for BBW's. It wasn't until my 30's that the desire to get fat came back. I had gained weight but it wasn't intentional, but I loved it and started gaining on purpose, packing on about 80 pounds.
1 year