exercise is one of the most important parts of being a feedee.

no exercise may bring on weight slightly faster (you can't out-exercise a fattening diet) but they'll just look pregnant as all the fat is visceral.

if you want your feedee to have a "fat chick" body rather than thin arms/legs/face and a big hard belly, encourage a good amount of cardio. it'll probably make them live longer and not hate life while they're at it.

I'm the most insecure person ever, but I have at least 3 close female friends that know about my feeder fetish. One thinks its interesting and doesn't mind, one thinks I'm too paranoid about it and doesn't mind, and one thinks it's a really cute idea.

Most of my friends have picked up on my preference for big girls and don't give a shit. I know the fetish doesn't have the best reputation, but people that know the real you are a lot more open minded about this shit than we give credit.

Two types of fat, visceral and subcutaneous.

Visceral is hard and behind your abs making belly stick out, subcutaneous is over abs and everywhere else. Eating gains visceral faster, cardio burns visceral faster.

Exercise or just wait out your daily metabolism over a year if you want flab over the pregnant look.

This is probably gonna get very controversial, but fit guys with fat fetishes probably stems somewhat from how wrong/risque it is. I think it's from a subconscious motive that many wouldn't even recognize themselves, but if a guy works very hard to have his ideal body type as fit/athletic but he gets off on big, doughy, cuddly fat girls, it probably has to do with the "wrongness" of it, which is a theme in many, many kinks.

inb4 feelings police and people crying about beauty standards

Feabie is great and everything the community should be. My only problem is that you can't filter new pics by gender. Sorry guys, but your distended bellies make my dick shrink.

My ex gained about 70 lbs while we were together and she waddles now. She said it was an interesting feeling as her thighs got larger that she had to position them around each other when she walked. It's subtle but became more apparent when we were on vacation and she was getting tired from all the walking.

I saw my college crush on here one day and called her out on it. She said the idea of getting fatter so she'd take up more space was super hot for her. I helped her go from 5'3" 115 to 160 before her parents pressured her to lose it all. She's deleted her profile long since, though, but she was very conventionally attractive.

Studies have show that the longer you stay fat, your body will permanently adjust it's equilibrium weight to the higher one. Just keep trying to stay big and eventually you won't have to anymore.

Did anyone here learn about all this stuff from a boyfriend or girlfriend, but after breaking up kept the fetish?

There is a study that showed that when rats were made obese, the longer they remained obese, the harder it became form them to lose weight permanently. As you stay fat, your body adjusts to the new equilibrium weight and there is no known way to decrease it once it's been increased, so yes there is a point of no return. I'm curious how much I've ruined my girlfriend who gained from 150-255 for me and stayed fat for the last 3 years. Pretty sure she didn't sign up for permanency, lol.