i am bi, so the fact that it was a guy (and a reasonably attractive one, too) didn't bother me... but there is nothing attractive or erotic about that sequence, in my opinion.

appetite is a little disconnected from your weight, i think. it has more to do with stomach capacity.

a couple years ago i had to adjust my eating/drinking habits, and i ended up losing 50+ lbs along the way. over that time i guess my stomach must have shrunk because i was eating much less and feeling full. recently, now my health is good again, my partner has been pushing my limits again... but my capacity is still way less than it was at my max, but i am still over 400 lbs.

obviously there is a relationship. if your capacity is really big, you'll maintain a certain weight more easily. but when i started to eat less, eventually my weight loss kind of stopped, or at least slowed way down, so the two became a little disconnected.

all good, valid points. but i would ask, why bother probing further? why even bring it up here on this website in the first place?

if you don't like it, don't go there. but coming here and telling others to stay away just makes me feel like they have an axe to grind, and it probably says more about the individual than the site they're slandering.

yeah, that doesn't make sense.... forgive me for doubting the original poster, but that explanation sounds very suspicious and unrealistic to me.

i have been a member here for a long time, i've been a member here for a long time... they are very different places. they have slightly different rules. in both places i have found if you follow the rules, you have no issues. feabie has a very strong policy against "naming and shaming," so if you don't know that, it can get you in trouble. but, just like here, if you report people (as i have done dozens of times) they seem to deal with things pretty well, for the most part.

as with all sites, we're all guests on someone else's platform. know their rules, and follow them.

i also never understood why someone would go to one website to complain about another. what is that going to achieve?

oh yeah, this is the most common way my partner exerts her dominance over me... first a suggestion, an ask, a little tease. soft/light dom is very sexy!

very often it will escalate, when we're together, but usually it starts off very gentle and light.

ai slop. bleh. these are not sexy, they are mocking fat people.

i had an amazon kindle membership/subscription a few years ago that led me read a whole pile of stuff at no extra cost - at that time i read 5 or 6 of their feedism-related indie-published stories. there were a handful of prolific authors with that kind of material at that time.

as i recall it was well written, but it was pretty pedestrian compared to the stories i usually read here on ff. i should take another look as it's been awhile.

i nominate my true sweetheart @amazingem too!

i nominate @squishie because she is the awesomest ff'er, a former mod, and she has the best tattoos!

wrong forum. there's a padding forum, if that's what you're interested in.