Chloe957:
Well, I am a thin girl into fat guys, I'm just not into EVERY fat guy on earth 😭
Being attracted to fat/chubby guys doesn't mean we need to be attracted to ALL fat guys.

Fatpeter:
I’m starting to realise there are virtually no female FA/feeders on this site. Ones that are into guys at least anyway. Most fat women on here seem to be into either only thin guys, or thin girls or maybe other fat girls. But not fat guys. There is even virtually no thin female FAs that are into fat guys. They seem to prefer women too. In fact it really only seems to be other guys that are interested in fat guys. Has anyone else noticed this too?

Munchies:
*Stares at you in heterosexual domme feeder with a male feedee*

Lol, what the heck are you talking about? We do exist on FF. There's a lot of us too. But I have noticed some things that may explain your situation.

There are a lot of guys on here that are ... to put in mildly ... insane, gross, and creepy. Not all of them are like that. But there's so many of them that even some of my bisexual female friends have sworn off all the men on this site.

And for the ones that are straight? It's hell, man. If you look through the forums, you can see horror story after horror story. I can even share some of my own with you if you want.

Still, of the male feedees I'm friends with on this site (bisexual, pansexual, and heterosexual) they don't have issues finding female feeders (romantic, sexual, and platonic). It helps that they are all kind, respectful, personable, and bring more to the table than an empty belly.

These are not rich men. They have average looks. But their character plays a huge roll in their success.

Ultimateaaron12:
I’ve been having a hard time trying to gain weight I’ve always been really skinny but have never tried to actively gain until now will my metabolism slow down as I push through and keep eating or should I wait until it slows naturally?

Arame:
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.

By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps

TheUltimate323:
Is that a problem? Literally my biggest fantasy is to be fat enough to not fit in chairs. That turns me on a lot. Having to use two chairs to fit my fat ass. Hopefully I'll achieve that one day.

TheUltimate323:
I'm 22, and I'm on my way to gaining weight. I only weigh 66kg now, but my goal is to reach 82kg, which would certify me as obese. I'm 165cm tall. My goal would be to weigh between 109 and 120kg, which would make me morbidly obese.

My question is, can you live a relatively normal life at that weight? Obviously there will be some mobility limitations, not fitting into some seats, having to buy large sizes, but that turns me on.
You know, living a relatively normal life?

SumoSized:
Honestly 109 kg isn't much, that's around where I am now and it doesn't really impair my mobility as much as you seem to think it will. I mean sure my endurance has been reduced from what it was 100 lbs ago and bending down requires a bit more energy than it used to but it's negligible. And I only rarely encounter seats that are too small for me (mostly old furniture from 100 years ago at my grandparents house). As for clothes I'm between a large and XXL depending on the brand so finding clothes isn't that difficult. Except for jeans but that's only because I have muscular legs so finding jeans that fit my thighs can be a pain.
Honestly I think you're working yourself up too much. The changes are slow and I'm afraid at the pace you're posting these forum posts you'll get burnt out from the lack of progress. Just take your time and enjoy the changes as they come. You'll reach your goals and hell if you find you don't like them then you can always lose the weight. There's no such thing irreversibly fat, it does get harder to lose weight as you get bigger sure, but it's not irreversible.

ILuvChubbyChix:
Indeed I do. I like the discussions, the chat, reading about others' experiences and thoughts, even the content. I don't often read the stories, but sometimes I like to.

It's what keeps me coming back year after year.

MottiF:
After days of chatting with a female feeder, I was able to arrange a date with her, so I just will appreciate any advices regarding a first date with her.

What do avoid or what is acceptable in meeting her, i mean, do u bring up a long the way out kinks, or just waiting her to bring it up?

We talked a lot about me gaining weight and all, i was eating really well this week, with her encouragement, and we really talked about our kinks, and we pretty open with each other. So i just really appreciate what to do on a first date with her, she really open to feeding me in public, and talking about how she will fatten me up and all. We will meet on an all you can eat restaurant so I don’t know if that matter. Just would be glad to hear any advice from ppl here.

Munchies:
Not sure if you had your date yet. (Hope it went well if you did.)

That said, it helps to discuss expectations prior to the date. Things go a lot more smoothly if you do.

MottiF:
Sounds god! i'll try this, just to be prepare for what to expect from her, yeah.

Thanks, i'm so excited!

Enas:
Its also importand to say it, in order to communicate your worry! It will be appreciated i think!