Absolutely yes. Fat is king for me but I feel that most of my others stem from it, although they’re all much more “niche” than a fat kink. Bloating, stuffing, and inflation are different in my mind than fat on its own, but I feel some of us still have them in our decks because they’re kind of related.
I also like absorption because of the thought of a smaller person being absorbed by an enormous one’s fat body, making them even bigger. Vore is the same kind of deal for me (I’m not sure why that one still has a lot of negative stigma around it even in these spaces?) and from there you also get unbirth, which has the same fantastical effect on a subject. And then, like has been said, breeding, breast growth, and lactation are also up there for me, and they all have that same aesthetic of a person’s body growing in different ways. That connects directly to transformation such as the whole “hucow” scene (is “hupig” a word? Not sure, but damn if we don’t talk about pigs all the time!) Stemming off of that there’s the even weirder shit, like ovipositing, but it’s still with the concept in mind of the way it would make a person’s belly grow and grow. Tentacle stuff may seem completely unrelated, but it’s still related for me because of the thought of tentacles squeezing a soft person’s rolls.
Maybe I’m the only one making all these connections, idk, but I wanted to make sure the Weird Shit got representation here.

Good luck to you both. I agree with Munchies, communication is key and regardless it’s better to be with someone who can accept your whole self than only certain parts of you. And it must be important to both of you, as it’s weighing enough on your minds to come here to discuss

I wish I didn’t care, but my preference is less hair. The hairy texture is distracting for me when feeling that sweet jiggly adipose. But, it’s nice to see a variety of preferences represented here so far

There were a lot of little steps getting out of sexual repression and realizing what I liked, fat being the pinnacle of those likes. One random but pertinent moment was when I was hanging out with a group of friends, and the loose inference was made that I was crushing on a guy who wasn’t there at the time, who had a pretty average build with a very modest amount of chub. So it was a little out of nowhere when someone said “maybe you’re a chubby chaser!” I had never even heard of that term before then and was still very repressed and unaware of my own desires— and yet in that moment I froze because it was like a bell going off in my head 🔔 it was a label that called to me immediately.

Lollll… next thing you know, people will be going to social media to share memes. Or going to YouTube just to watch videos

I’ve also always loved fat, and get excited quickly at the thought that a person is fat, gaining weight, looking fatter, any of it. I personally don’t get turned on by the act of eating, but I adore the fact that a lot of people in this community do 🥵 what better way to ensure a um *cough* growing population?

If it were me, I would have something in my profile like, “some of my interests are outside the mainstream. I consider myself to be open-minded in the bedroom (note: don’t say this if you don’t mean it obviously, but having something to *offer* and not just be asking for, could be encouraging for the right person) and I’m looking for someone else who can meet me in that same mindset.” I would also include somewhere else about how much I love food/eating- the person you’re looking for may pair those two together in their head, but hopefully it wouldn’t be too obvious.

Honestly, I think being candid is best. I understand being hesitant to be outright about it of course; it’s the goddamn internet and lots of people can be completely ruthless. You may have to block some of them. But if it is in your profile, you have a chance of someone else finding you who shares your kink(s) and who is not afraid to admit it. If they can at least be open-minded from the start, that makes breaking the ice about the details of your kinks much easier, and it is *definitely* better to have that discussion early on— not years down the road.

Personal anecdote: Before I got coupled, I actually found the entire online feederism community because I started chatting with a guy on a “normal” dating app who was upfront about being a BHM. His profile pic was just his belly; it shocked me and I was still dealing with sexual shame so I was surprised by it, but his forthrightness helped me go “fuck it we ball”, and that’s how I eventually wound up here.

Omg, 120 lbs in 3 years? 40 lbs per year? 😳 that’s intense. She could serve as a real inspiration for anyone here who’s really in it for the long haul.

I’m dropping in to let you all know that inflatable toys exist (and the sampling I’ve gotten has been indescribably good for just $30). There are toys out there for vaginas and for anal. If inflation is a kink of yours I 1000% recommend one right now, it’s incredible. Has anyone else fooled around with them here?

Ayyyy!! Love a success story. Very sexy and very sweet. Kudos for being honest with her.