TheOuroboros:Your agression in demanding immediate payment is your ultimate downfall. No one likes giving money out to strangers, especially in cases where those said strangers ghost. You'll just have to cut your losses and try to commit to someone before you receive your rewards.
If this is your plan of action than expect plenty of disappointment and disinterest. You'll be finding yourself alone for quite some time with this grift.
Munchies:Female feeder here.
It's one thing to demand a random feeder to give you money to stuff yourself. It is very much another thing to expect a random feeder to alter your body for their pleasure with you accepting all of the risks.
It's hard out here on these streets. I may not be a feedee, but the sheer amount of male feeders that have beat down my door demanding I stuff myself for them is insane.
These people never wanted to be a dedicated feeder. They want free, bespoke porn. And if a feedee demanding compensation for their pushy behavior makes them run away, then that's on the feeder, not the feedee. The feeder started this off as a transactional thing.
If you don't want things to be transactional, then don't start the encounter by declaring you want to be some rando's feeder. That's weird.
Evoria:Thank you!!!!!
the directly saying they’re gonna make you fat thing and then acting shocked when you ask for lunch is so wild to me every time. how did you think You were gonna be responsible for anything. sure! i can’t judge at all and i really don’t expect much considering The World and ofc always work with a budget, it’s the lack of awareness of the distinction that feels like intentionally wasting my time

not everyone, but some for sure! exactly lol
A lot of male feeders and FAs have to deal with a bunch of random feedees that are actually scammers and catfish messaging them food and money. So they see your situation through that lense.
PSA to my male counterparts: it is not the same thing. Random male feeders insisting on being a female feedee's feeder unprompted is more like a catfish or scammer demanding free money from you.
As a general rule of thumb, don't demand things from people who have not indicated that they want it. And if you are the one asking them to do the thing, don't be shocked if they make a demand in kind from you.