Stuffytummywriter:
still, props for trying! it's important!
The way to go i feel, if you have the energy to try again, is a discord server or some such with the ability to moderate who joins and/or who stays.
Men, much like small children, have not yet learned to self-regulate, so they need strict and impermeable barriers. Some will eventually learn and won't need the barriers anymore. They'll realise they can play with the 1000000 other toys available to them instead of throwing a tantrum over the one that they can't have right now. Or make their own toy just for themselves if they are jealous, instead of destroying the one someone else made.
Really really tired of men not respecting my boundaries and then acting offended when i say sth
Munchies:
The trans men tend to get it what with growing up as AFAB. Enbies tend to get it as well.
One thing that frustrates me is the whole "Boys will be boys" mindset. It absolves men of their agency to be better.
And they can be better. I've seen it. It makes the ones that choose not to be better look terrible.
Enas:
Its not just the "boys will be boys" but the entier culture that just screams narcissism all the time. Even the women who themselves say "I want a bad boy" are helping perpertuate this
sprays you with waterWe are not doing this today.
Every time people like you go "Yeah, but women do this," all it does is shift the responsibility off of men and onto women to do better.
You are not helping. You are hurting. Knock it off.