Stuffytummywriter:
still, props for trying! it's important!

The way to go i feel, if you have the energy to try again, is a discord server or some such with the ability to moderate who joins and/or who stays.

Men, much like small children, have not yet learned to self-regulate, so they need strict and impermeable barriers. Some will eventually learn and won't need the barriers anymore. They'll realise they can play with the 1000000 other toys available to them instead of throwing a tantrum over the one that they can't have right now. Or make their own toy just for themselves if they are jealous, instead of destroying the one someone else made.

Really really tired of men not respecting my boundaries and then acting offended when i say sth

Munchies:
The trans men tend to get it what with growing up as AFAB. Enbies tend to get it as well.

One thing that frustrates me is the whole "Boys will be boys" mindset. It absolves men of their agency to be better.

And they can be better. I've seen it. It makes the ones that choose not to be better look terrible.

Enas:
Its not just the "boys will be boys" but the entier culture that just screams narcissism all the time. Even the women who themselves say "I want a bad boy" are helping perpertuate this

Stuffytummywriter:
still, props for trying! it's important!

The way to go i feel, if you have the energy to try again, is a discord server or some such with the ability to moderate who joins and/or who stays.

Men, much like small children, have not yet learned to self-regulate, so they need strict and impermeable barriers. Some will eventually learn and won't need the barriers anymore. They'll realise they can play with the 1000000 other toys available to them instead of throwing a tantrum over the one that they can't have right now. Or make their own toy just for themselves if they are jealous, instead of destroying the one someone else made.

Really really tired of men not respecting my boundaries and then acting offended when i say sth

Mser:
Hey! So, to kinda introduce myself a bit better, I am nonbinary technically, but began testosterone back in august. I struggled with appetite and body image for most of my life, but after starting testosterone, I found my love for gaining weight, mainly from how goddamn hungry I get after a shot lol. I will say, while I feel lucky that, as I find this out, it has been very easy for me to pack weight on thanks to my transition, I feel like I kind of set this unrealistic weight gain standard by posting in a community of people who well… most people aren’t drastically altering their bodies makeup with hormones on. Is it bad to post images on this site in hopes of chatting with people here when I have this stark difference about me in a sense?

Anm90p:
So I’m into big BBWs like 300ibs and going (SSBBWs by then)

And I make sure I’m clear about it in my dating profiles, because no one is on here or feabie that’s even close to where I live.

I’m getting hits surprisingly from chubby women and BBWs.

What’a your take? If you don’t love her in her chubby you don’t deserve her in her USSBBW? Or look for bigger?

Thanks

Screemtee:
it only took me several years of being a feeder to realize i’m a little too into dom feeders😭 pray for my waistline. screaming into the void as usual

Munchies:
Lol, we are a force to be reckoned with.

Praying for your waistline to get nice and squishy 🙏🏿

Screemtee:
this is so your fault. Thank you for the prayers 🫠

Screemtee:
it only took me several years of being a feeder to realize i’m a little too into dom feeders😭 pray for my waistline. screaming into the void as usual

Makemegrow:
Is this one that will make you big

Quiver:
I’m curious if this happens to anyone else on a regular basis: FF notifies you that you’ve had a profile visitor within the last few hours, and says it’s a brand new profile, but they’ve clearly already deleted their account because it’ll just have no username and say “is new to the website. Why not say hello?”
Does this happen a lot to other people? I mean, it’s not a huge deal, don’t get me wrong, and it especially wouldn’t be a big deal if it were occasional. But it’s super regular in my experience, and I wanted to chat about it with anyone else who sees it a lot.

Metalbear:
My partner and I have been together for a little over 6,5 years. My relationship with food had always been difficult because of my abusive father. I'm trans (FTM) and I've been on T for three years. This has made my belly nice and soft and my girlfriend lately admitted she's attracted to bigger guys, but never dared saying it because of my issues with food and my body.

I'm attracted to bigger people as well and my own body is now in a way attractive to me. I've gained weight and muscle and I want to be bigger, but I want full support from my girlfriend. Maybe even in a feederism type of way. I don't want to force anything upon my girlfriend of course, but I'm having difficulties to open up about the subject and to speak up about my desires.

Anyone that went through something similar and has any tips for me to get the question out and how to word it? Being bigger just feels like it would make me feel more masculine and just so much better.

I'm not sure how to word myself here, but alas.

Mser:
I really wish I could just stretch them easily (( The special shirts they have us wear are super expensive, so sizing up is gonna cost me, especially considering this isn’t the first size up I’ve had to buy the past few months :/

HappyBigBelly:
If you’re referring to scrubs, then indeed it’s usually made of fairly inflexible material. I’ve not ever seen spandex scrubs :-) And I’m gathering it’s totally on the employee to buy them, so that’s understood. The hope is that your next job won’t involve having to buy clothes!