Farmer's markets are nice for getting something fresh and delicious, though I personally wouldn't worry about organic food; a potato from Walmart is just as good as a potato from a farmer's market in terms of processing. Up to you if you prefer organic though. I'd buy from a wholesale store like Costco but that's more about economics than health.

Mostly I was warning about the difference between a hot dog as "meat" and an actual cut of beef or pork, or typical cheap candy compared to a piece of fruit.

Another important thing I forgot to mention is variety, both for the sake of a balanced nutrition and for the sake of avoiding flavor fatigue.

The best exercise is the kind you will actually stick to. I hate hate walking but I love Beat Saber. Figure out what physical activity you enjoy; in general, moving is better than not moving.

It would be nice to have keyboard shortcuts (CTRL+B for bold) or toolbars for the formatting options (links especially).

I just checked your profile, and I'll add a bit more.



If you still enjoy elements of non-con, despite the discomfort you expressed in the OP, then I'd advise you to look up consensual non-consent. Some of the advice you'll find as you research that will stress the importance of hard boundaries, of negotiating specific windows of opportunity if you want it to be a surprise, and aftercare that includes a check-in with reality and your goals outside of kink.

How did you find out? Did this lead to you confronting him?



You need to establish boundaries; asking this question in a public forum for advice is a good start. Talking to him and asking about his expectations should be your next step. Negotiating kink, is, by definition, a negotiation. Find out what each of you want. Figure out what you are and are not willing to give each other. Meet in the middle, or as far as you each are comfortable with; if that gap is too large, the kink should not proceed.



Ask yourself what "too far" would be like for you. Do you want to maintain or attain a certain lower weight than what he might desire? Do you want to be able to remain physically fit? Are you worried about outside judgment? Only you can answer these questions for yourself. Once you know them, communicate them to your partner.




Telling him that you do not want any more non-consensual feeding is a good start, and explain why.

However, the larger concern I have is that you worry about surprises in your food. If that is the starting point for this kink, I'm not sure you should proceed with the kink at all until he can prove he's wiling to respect your boundaries.

It would be easier to give advice if we knew how exactly he surprised you in the first place, but if it was something in the vein of adding real sugar to your food and lying that it was artificial sweetener... well, that's a betrayal of trust that I wouldn't forgive quickly. Don't accept food from him at all, if that's what it takes.

Frankly, I'm close to suggesting you end the relationship because that kind of deceit disgusts me, but I shouldn't jump to conclusions. Trust your instincts. If it feels like abuse, call it out. If he dismisses or reacts negatively to you asserting boundaries, dump him as soon as it's safe to do so.



There are people in this community who are feedees and eat for their partners but intentionally lose weight or maintain a low/healthy weight. Similarly, there are people who don't mind feedees who are thin and would even prefer occasional bouts of stuffing over secret feedings to induce a long-term gain. I have a guess as to which your boyfriend is.

This is a matter of personal taste and it will depend on what he wants and how much he can demonstrate respect for your boundaries. If he seems like he will push those boundaries, don't bother with indulging his kink at all.

Avoid highly processed foods; the closer a food is to how it would have come out of an animal a plant, the better.

Type 2 Diebetes can be caused by blood sugar levels being elevated after meals. Carbs in general will spike blood glucose, so limit those or aerobic exercise after eating to reduce glucose spikes.

Visceral fat, which is the fat that accumulates around the organs in your abdomen, is the more dangerous type of fat. Diets with low carbs might result in less visceral fat. Additionally, there are studies which say aerobic exercise can reduce visceral fat, but others that say that subcutaneous fat will go just as quickly. (My theory from skimming these studies is that low carb diets and aerobic exercise after eating both dampen the blood sugar spikes after eating, which somehow leads to lower visceral adipose tissue.)

IANAL, but...

Technically, I think privately sharing--or even preserving for your own use--a copyrighted work is still copyright infringement at its core, unless first sale doctrine applies and you are an actual owner of the work. That's why I can't legally just screenrecord a movie on Netflix and share it with a friend.

For a digital work? I think it would depend on the original license those works were uploaded under. My Netflix example above is flawed because I'm *sure* their terms of use covers that case somehow, and goes beyond default "all rights reserved" copyright anyway.

If you uploaded a story to something like Dimensions Magazine right now, their terms go like this:


So I guess, in theory, Dimensions could create that archive, but only for stories that were uploaded to it.

As an aside, I can't find anything in FF's Terms that addresses what rights you grant FF regarding content you upload, just that you still own the copyright to your work.

That's so heartwarming! It's delightful that fate kept bringing you back together. I think friendships that last since childhood are very rare and should be cherished by those who have them. Doubly so if it turns out they are someone you can become a life partner with.

And again, thank you for sharing. This post made my day!

While looking for "big belly girl commercials" on Google, I discovered the world of stock footage.

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Ah, thanks! It's admittedly a little funny that a site with lots of BBWs would use BBCode.

Doesn't quite explain why angle brackets are lost, though. I'm guessing when a post is made, it strips anything that looks like an HTML tag?

My opinion:

- I primarily get off on the idea of someone giving up control to their basic instincts of gluttony. Thin and fat bodies get to show that off in different ways.
- Feedees and stuffers who start or even stay thin get the benefit of showing a faux preg/taut and inflated belly, and the difference between their empty and full stomach can be quite dramatic; that contrast elevates the display of gluttony.
- At higher weights, the inflated roundness is softened and concealed by accumulated belly fat. However, that weight itself becomes an embodiment of gluttony, not to mention that it's fun squishing soft bodies.