Mines is a mix between my name, hobby, and a anime reference.
If you think you know, tell me your guess for fun. Lol
8 months
Angiefoodcake:For the longest time I've struggled with social anxiety and maybe I am on the spectrum. Eventually I will have to conquer job interviews since I want to get out of my shitty fruit slave job!
Also, I want to try to make friends at my future job. Because I hardly talk to anyone at my current job.
But then again there is a language barrier problem. Welp... I should've studied Spanish courses on Duolingo.
It seems this mask prevents me from being successful. I haven't climbed up the seronity ladder due to poor social skills. Not a good excuse but childhood trauma still haunts me to this day. Bullies can fuck you up.
I do think I am slightly getting a little better. One time I had a conversation with my dad's childhood friend. It helps when I ask random questions.
I've learned the first step is simple, don't care what others may think about you. Why? How else will you find out who's worth making friends with? Lol
2nd be yourself. This is a tricky one because if you struggle to make friends due to being yourself, you may feel like this is bad advice. It's not. The goal of "be yourself" is simply to avoid making fake bonds. You don't want people to like you for the facade you put up. You want them to like your authentic self.
If you like more tips feel free to ask on the thread or a direct message.
9 months
I'm a padder and former gainer due to work related reasons.
If you are a gainer or padder, male or female, I would love to be your friend. I want to share pictures of my padding and if you are over 400 lbs, I want to use you to inspire my padding to new levels! Anyone interested?
9 months
Yea, the whole thing is super annoying. I used to probe into the mind of the people. Sparking very long debates in a attempt to understand. It often goes from "I just want people to be healthy" to "I'm just better than them and I want them to know it."
In short: those people are just assholes and bullies. If they aren't your spouse, chances are they just want to feel superior over someone and think you're an easy topic. It's pathetic.
9 months
I bet you are a dream 😍 ✨️
9 months
Women's cloths comes super stretchy. If you're in the states you can go to Torrid and get a size 5. The torrid size 5 dresses and shirts are insanely huge. My latest dress from there is a size 2. I'm 280 before padding
9 months
Biglink:
I love to pad to the size of immobility.
That's interesting. Do you use fluid for weight?
9 months
SquishMaster:
Hey all - I've been padding for a bit but so far I've only really got my upper half to look good. I'm using a method from a post I can't find anymore (maybe it's deleted?), but it's base gel mixed with water, in double-bagged trash bags. I'm using anywhere from 1-2 gal in each bag, depending on how big I wanna go, and then 1-3 bags in my shapewear bodysuit. Using this, with 2 small base gel ziplocs in a sports bra for moobs, I've got a mostly realistic-looking and -feeling setup, which is important because I like to go out in public in it and don't want to look too unrealistic.
My issue is I don't really know how to do my lower half. I've tried one or two towels stuffed into some leggings, which looks decent with a larger pair of jeans over top, but it gets super hot under all that fabric pretty quick, and the towels don't always stay put. And it's somewhat difficult to keep the pants up! I can't use any base gel bags since I'd like to be able to sit down on my padded butt, and the bags couldn't take that kind of pressure. I'm a dude trying to look like a fat dude, so it's not super important that my butt in particular is huge, but I'd like to "flesh out" my hips & thighs more.
For now I just wear a very large pair of jeans or joggers and pull the waistband up to my padded "belly-button-level". The pant legs are baggy enough that they hide the fact that my legs, hips, and butt don't match my hugely-padded gut.
So I guess I'm just wondering what all you guys do, what works, what doesn't work. What do you pad with? What do you use to hold it all the padding in? How do you keep your padded pants from falling down in public? Etc.
if you like my padding, let me know. I'm always happy to share.
9 months
Angelette:You could enlarge the belly area using a transformation-type tool in a photo editing software. In GIMP it's called Warp Transform, while in Photoshop it's called Bloat.
Here are two tutorials for both programs using these similar tools.
Edit: I imagine you will have to enlarge the other parts of the body, too. Such as the arms. I suggest you use photo references.
Also make sure to use your layers. They are very crucial when it comes to image editing. As my digital media teacher said, think of it like a stack of pancakes.
nice!!!
11 months
Did you ever get some tips for this?
12 months