Despite wanting to be obese, i am attracted to athletic guys.

Morbidly A Beast:
Well you’ll be very happy if and when you decide to get big and fat because despite being a fat straight man most of my admirers are fit gay men so w you.

I’m not complaining mind you it’s just I’m not into guys

TheUltimate323:
That sounds good. So you're saying that many fit gay men love obese men.
I hope I can grow into a very obese body and find a fit boyfriend who loves my enormous fatness.


yes, that is exactly what I’m saying

I wish you all the luck
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Girls just aren’t into fat guys. even on a fat fetish site like this

I find it funny that i knew what I did two years ago and I still hold to it, I think a lot of men just have really bad expectations and have a really bad un-evaluated sense of entitlement when entering a space like this.

It’s giving main character syndrome. It’s giving “I had no luck on the apps” vibes.
2 weeks

Do you just appreciate the community?

X/twitter is terrible for alot of reasons but if you say terrible and offensive things your account is suspended for up to 7 days, why should people here be subject to more abuse when we are here to talk about being/admiring fat?
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Do you just appreciate the community?

I’m not talking about hypothetical abuse I’m talking about actual reported abuse or like people being abusive for the world to see in a public space.

That’s why I likened it to women talking about being harassed. While it’s different the same actions should be taken.
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Moderation and safety

you people need to change something about the block feature. People shouldn’t be able to see or interact with someone at all if they block them.

and stop deleting threads when someone gets utterly dejected for being a creep/weirdo.

This stuff isn’t acceptable and any social media company would do something about it we’re just locked here because we’re fat / love fat people, it doesn’t mean we should suffer abuse.


Please add a like feature to the forum posts.
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Your favorite way to gauge how fat you're getting?

when the roles and folds appear while you’re standing that always existed while bending or sitting and you develop new rolls and folds on top of the old ones

Buttoning pants isn’t an option bc your belly blocks your reach unless you wear your pants like a goober
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Despite wanting to be obese, i am attracted to athletic guys.

Well you’ll be very happy if and when you decide to get big and fat because despite being a fat straight man most of my admirers are fit gay men so w you.

I’m not complaining mind you it’s just I’m not into guys
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Do you just appreciate the community?

I don’t think someone needs justify themselves when they feel they are being discriminated against just like a woman feeling harassed doesn’t need to justify their belief it’s what they feel. Does that make sense?
2 weeks

Do you just appreciate the community?

So you accept that it’s unacceptable for women to be harassed, good. My contention is that it is different but not dissimilar to someone being discriminated against, thus it to being bigoted is an unacceptable behavior do you follow?
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Do you just appreciate the community?

Enas:
This is a place for discussion, among other things, specialized for and friendly towards feedism. That does not exlude debating worldviews, since you put it like that.

Each person has a theory. And how they subjectivise (how they personally choose to "read".) and then describe their experiences matters a lot. Thats just to point out the relevance of what i like to talk about, with peoples' experiences. Im really interested in these theories / philosophies.

I dont know if you suffer from that, id need to have a conversation about controversial topics with you, to find out.


Do you think it’s okay to just let people be bigoted and spread hate? Or should anti-social behaviors like it be curtailed. Should women be allowed to be harassed and stalked? I don’t think any of these behaviors are acceptable and there’s no argument that will allow me to change that.
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