Like most I have experienced phobia in school from students, teachers. At work from employer and employee. Family on my case some meaning well, but not always. I have lost friends and partners as I got to big for them to accept. At now over 500 lbs, it also venues that do not have big seats ect.... so no I don’t like it much, but learnt to deal with it. I do not mind getting looks now, as I am very big so not unexpected.
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If your a straight male gainer it is almost impossible to have a feeder relationship, let alone one to reach immobility sizes. Or that is my experience in life,.
So I work on it myself, any FFA your missing out, I may not have more that few hundred pounds to gain.
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It's the food yes but it also the wondering what will 20 lbs more feel like, where will it go to, and how bigger will I look. It the thrill of the unknown....
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Carbs , rice, pasta, potatoes ect….. and flavour with tomatoes cooked with spices into a pesto like sause, blend smooth with olive oil even add nuts, beans, or other vegetables, Top with cheese, and cream.
I sometimes blend all into a soup that I can drink, with bread and butter.
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My belly and car steering wheel are at war. Some toilet cubicle are to small for opening the door to get out no belly room. Putting on shoes. But it's now wide enough to provide arm rests so bonus.
But mostly it’s too small.
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TheUltimate323:
I'm 22, and I'm on my way to gaining weight. I only weigh 66kg now, but my goal is to reach 82kg, which would certify me as obese. I'm 165cm tall. My goal would be to weigh between 109 and 120kg, which would make me morbidly obese.
My question is, can you live a relatively normal life at that weight? Obviously there will be some mobility limitations, not fitting into some seats, having to buy large sizes, but that turns me on.
You know, living a relatively normal life?
Yes
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I am interested in find if members have held down a job at an external to the home work place, if more than 500 or 600 lbs. What job industry full or part time, what was your max weight in that job, any particular restrictions or methods to make it work?
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The fattest in my family, by 350 lbs, weigh the same as my parents and older brother combined.
Have a few friend that was the biggest person I knew but now it’s me. One was about 480 and one 650, but he is down to 450.
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I just think your wasted your time, I was not born yesterday, now who the sucker.
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Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,
There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.
Thoughtful responses please.
Munchies:
These are my two cents as a woman of color.
Society does not want me to exist. I am at an elevated risk of mortality in all categories simply because of bigotry. I have lost so many friends and family members to bigoted systems - sometimes at a young age.
People like me want to live despite society wanting us to die. We fight for life, both tooth and nail because we deserve it. We refuse to let other's hatred of us determine if we get to live a long life or not.
Yes I assumed that you are in aspect of society that is supported to live longer, forgive my white male privilege that is my paradigm to understand and be mindful of when posting.
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