Sloshyyy:
No longer looking for a feeder
Here’s hoping we can all say the same. Good luck.
3 months
Torchcacti:
Hope you’re ok
PhoenixChimera:
Thank you, you’re very kind. And yes, I’m so happy to be able to say that things are looking up. I’ve been very lucky, and making the most of some happiness which has made such a difference.
That’s good to hear. Hope things keep looking up.
4 months
Definitely interesting. I pass through LA now and again
4 months
Whereabouts in the Midwest?
6 months
Noobie105:
There seems to be hardly anyone active near me. Anyone else have this problem? Any solutions or alternative methods that I could do to find people near me?
This is a pretty normal situation for all of us. Best thing you can do is try to make friends with people in a little wider area I think.
8 months
SumoSized:
Holy hell that's insane, I can see why that would scare people away from gaining more. Do you have a recommended speed for gaining , like eat X amount of calories above your metabolic rate per day to gain healthily, or is it dependent per person?
Munchies:
Doctors recommend those who are gaining weight to shoot for 1 to 2 lbs a week. This comes out to 52 - 104 lbs a year.
Most people will not be able to achieve such consistent gaining - especially as they grow heavier. Some might even need to tap out or slow down after some point as well.
Honestly, it's best to gain to your comfort. When you start having complications, that's a good sign to slow down or even take a gaining break. A lot of gainers/feedees will ignore their body's warning signals because they want to be super fat ASAP. However, this short-sided behavior is a good way to end up abandoning your fattening journey and losing the weight later.
Anjou:
💯
It is fun to gain like 5 to ten lbs a week, but just as losing more than 1 or 2 lbs a week is really unhealthy regardless of how much it might fuel motivation to keep losing or gaining, it is not sustainable in the long run.
Torchcacti:
Gaining that fast sure sounds dreamy though.
Anjou:
Dreamy being the key word.
Keep it in that realm.
Most likely that will be the case. But maybe someday I’ll be able to have a little dream, as a treat.
8 months
SumoSized:
Holy hell that's insane, I can see why that would scare people away from gaining more. Do you have a recommended speed for gaining , like eat X amount of calories above your metabolic rate per day to gain healthily, or is it dependent per person?
Munchies:
Doctors recommend those who are gaining weight to shoot for 1 to 2 lbs a week. This comes out to 52 - 104 lbs a year.
Most people will not be able to achieve such consistent gaining - especially as they grow heavier. Some might even need to tap out or slow down after some point as well.
Honestly, it's best to gain to your comfort. When you start having complications, that's a good sign to slow down or even take a gaining break. A lot of gainers/feedees will ignore their body's warning signals because they want to be super fat ASAP. However, this short-sided behavior is a good way to end up abandoning your fattening journey and losing the weight later.
Anjou:
💯
It is fun to gain like 5 to ten lbs a week, but just as losing more than 1 or 2 lbs a week is really unhealthy regardless of how much it might fuel motivation to keep losing or gaining, it is not sustainable in the long run.
Gaining that fast sure sounds dreamy though.
8 months
Dollyhrtz:
I don't know why it's so hard for me to make friends in this community. Sometimes I think I'm the problem, maybe I'm just boring because after talking with people, they just ghost, and it kind of gets annoying after a while. But if you're seeing this, hit me up! I'm always looking for people to chat with!
If someone ghosts you here, it’s not because of you, it’s because they are too scared to actually embrace their kink and talk to someone about it. They leave because they get overwhelmed (I’ve done this to people before and I’m not proud of it).
I know it sucks to get your hopes up when talking to someone only to have them vanish, but don’t let it affect your sense of self worth. With a bit of maturity (and maybe making a bunch of dumb mistakes) people will be happy to talk to you and build lasting friendships.
8 months
Anjou:
Hey...
Long story short I married the man of my dreams, who when I simply said I like hefty guys (he was a slightly plump 190lbs to my 215) and told him about feedism he went hog(lol)wild.
At the same time I started losing weight due to my a1c (although I have always wanted to be thin).
Ngl, that contrast of him gaining and me losing made me horny 24/7. I just loved the feel of his rolls of fat getting bigger and bigger as I got smaller and smaller. I was on cloud nine.
He is up to 362 now to my 105. Ngl, I just look at him now and get a little wet. The fact that he workouts out daily (power lifter) and that I feed him pretty clean, with heavy cream mixed with protein powder being the mainstay when he is on his yearly gaining cycle, I think has allowed him to really only have high blood pressure that we keep in check with meds as a side effect of his 160 lbs gain in 3 or so years.
He has already started drinking a quart of cream because he wants to get to 400 by Halloween.
I guess my question to y’all is how long can one gain like this until health issues arise? Or stay as active as he does?
I told him that he is plenty big for me, but he has 💯 become a feedee and does not want to stop. I just worry that might be to big and have told him so. He did reassure me that he will stop if he has health issues, but tbh I kinda doubt he will at time. He is sooo into this now.
Any advice?
Oooofffff I can’t say I have any advice but I just wanted to comment to say you guys’ story is amazing.
8 months
