ChunkyPeanutButter:
It’s roughy being a feeder.
You put that tag in any profile and get asked to send money…
“You can’t be a feeder cause you won’t feed me”
I fecking hate that. Like, I can’t identify as a feeder because I won’t feed indiscriminately?
Imagine being told this by a trans person. Imagine if I told them they can’t identify as a woman because they don’t play with Barbie…. Why is it okay to tell me I don’t identify as a feeder because i want to get to know someone before I feed them…
You can just choose to ignore them? It's not like everyone will stop sending messages to you simply because you're pointing this out.
It's the same with other internet scammers. They won't go away when you tweet about how frustrated you are about them (that's a good comparisson with your situation. Don't try to compare this stuff on transgender related matters)
Best way is to change some profile settings so they stop bothering you
1 year
Miachu:
I currently have a boyfriend who isn't into feederism, however he is aware and supports my efforts on fattening up
I was just wondering if there is anyone else who is with someone who doesn't share this kink, and how they have found the relationship
I'm in a relationship with the best girlfriend I could ever wish for. I love her to death. She doesn't know that I have this kink, that I'd love it if she got big and fat. I'm too scared to tell her aswell. She has a little belly so I get pleasure out of that, she's not the thinnest. I've tried many times to tell her something about this but I never had the curage to pursue. Sometimes its hard for me because I really want the things I desire to have in this relationship. She doesn't like her weight but is not doing something to lose it. In fact, she eats quite a lot and she lets me grab her belly while we cuddle. But I think she allows this because she thinks I'm doing it as an innocent act. I struggle with it but it luckly doesn't affect the relationship
1 year
0Seth0:
First of all, wow, I'm jealous. Good for you! Second, I think even though your wife wants to gain weight now and told you not to hold back, you should take it slow. Especially if you want to find out what she's into and what not. Since she's new to feederism, you could always explain her thing before you actually perform them on each other. I assume she already knows some stuff since she read your feederism stuff but even you don't really know how those real life situations would look like, like you said. Once you've introduced her enough you can eventually let the feederism side take over and go for it. That's how I would do it!
NeverSayWhen:
I think slow and steady is definitely for the best. I don’t want to scare her away. It’s kind of a delicate balancing game, but I’m trying not to overthink it. She says she’s much more confident in her body than she’s ever been with me, but was actually a bashful weighing herself in front of me…
Although I’m taking the assertive role, the rule is she can pull the plug if she ever feels uncomfortable or unhappy. So, communication is going to be really important. We’ll incorporate some of her kinks in the bedroom as well.
Take it slow, play around, and figure stuff out, I think. Encourage to relax her diet at every turn. I’m just glad I can openly talk about her getting fatter and how much it’s turning me on (even if it’s a small amount of weight).
Yesterday we were having sex and she asked me what I wanted to feed her and how fat I was going to make her. Fuck! I nearly blew my load right there.
My first rule is that she gets a sweet treat each time we fuck. Something to enjoy in the afterglow. Candies, cookies, chocolates before bed. I hope when she gets back on the scale we’re both surprised by the results.[/quote]
Sounds like a good strategy. I think it's also important to just let her relax while you provide her with snack, just making sure she doesn't overwork or overthink etc. And by giving her treats after sex could also stimulate her more since she'd be rewarded for it. I wish you both the best of luck and a happy and healthy feederism relationship!
1 year
Indianfattie:Hi, I recently started going out with a girl, that currently are my FWB, and I am actually not intended to be her girlfriend. However, we do get sexually attracted by each others, and I am chubby, she is a BBW, and (in my opinion) close to be an SSBBW. I want to feed her and make her gain weight and I want her to feel sexy about eating and gain weight.
I imagine we are watching a movie and I put chips, or whatever food we eat to her mouth. But it is also a big turnoff if she is like "wtf??" so how do you ask a girl if she want to be fed?
In my country it is a big taboo to be fat and happy. It is only socially accepted to be fat, if you tell others, that you are trying to loose weight, but the girl I want to feed, is happy about her size now.
She asked my some time ago, if she was my type. I send her some p-videos of a black (she is black too) BBW, and told her, that this is my type. She actually got very happy when I told her, and she laughed when I told her, that she should be a plus size model.
I think it's a bit risky to ask her when you're just FWB. If it would develop into a relationship it would be way easier to find out if she's into this kind of stuff in my opinion. But since she's already pretty big and you guys talked about your prrferences you could always take it slow like some massaging, belly massaging, or some other stuff that involves her curvy parts
1 year
NeverSayWhen:
My wife discovered my treasure trove of weight gain stories / fantasies. She’s always known about my fetish in a second hand way, but now she KNOWS knows. She realized its my primary sexual drive for all things.
After talking about it and giving her some time to wrap her head around it, she actually suggested that she would be willing to gain weight and play out some of my fantasies to spice up our sex life.
Honestly I’m at a loss! I write about this stuff all the time, but when it comes to planning real life scenes to play out, I’m almost beside myself. I wonder if this community has any ideas if you were in this situation. I don’t want to go overboard, but she is expecting me to take the reins.
She weighed herself and put on one of her tighter outfits for comparison after for three months of unabated gluttony. I’m loading up on her favorite treats and my cooking is about to get really calorie heavy.
What kind of fun things should I plan? What are some of the most entertaining roleplay situations you enjoy? I know what I like, but at the same time I don’t want to put her off. She told me not to hold back because if she’s going to gain weight for me, she doesn’t want it to go to waste by me being too timid. I kind of want to put on some weight with her (for science).
It’s like a dream come true, but I need a plan. Help?
First of all, wow, I'm jealous. Good for you! Second, I think even though your wife wants to gain weight now and told you not to hold back, you should take it slow. Especially if you want to find out what she's into and what not. Since she's new to feederism, you could always explain her thing before you actually perform them on each other. I assume she already knows some stuff since she read your feederism stuff but even you don't really know how those real life situations would look like, like you said. Once you've introduced her enough you can eventually let the feederism side take over and go for it. That's how I would do it!
1 year
Stevita:
Congrats on the story! I'll def be checking it out!
As far as starting new works goes, my number one piece of advice is don't put yourself under too much pressure or psych yourself out! Let yourself be free to develop the concept by scribbling down a few scenes from a character's PoV even if they don't make it into the finished product, outline story beats, daydream, draw inspiration from your surroundings, or bounce ideas off of other writers.
Personally after I finished my first original feedism story, which was mostly grounded in reality, I decided to branch out and make my next one an XWG sci-fi adventure. The first draft was...admittedly shite, as I'd not yet done the worldbuilding necessary to accomodate my character concepts. I'm happy with it now, but I think I had to rewrite it 2 or 3 times?
Thanks for the advice! I sometimes struggled with how the story would develop mostly because I've never written any feederism stories ever before this one so everything I do is new for me. But advice like this really helps develop my writing skills and certain point of views!
1 year
So my mother language is not English, its Dutch. Therefore I sonetimes doubt if I wrote something wrong or not. Plus I sonetimes find out that I mispelled some words. I'm nkt even sure if everything I wrote in this forum is even correct.
Does anyone know the best way of finding grammarly wrong or mispelled words/senteces? Or is there a specific program I could use for that? Let me know!
1 year
Hey everyone!
I'm happy to announce that I succesfully finished all of the chapters of my first story:
"Influence the influenced: Fattening up the gym girls"
In my opinion, it turned out great. I hope it will be a succesfull one aswell! Obviously I want to continue making stories but after putting a lot of efford in this story, I was wondering how I should start my next story.
I was wondering if people could tell me something about their experience with starting a new story. Was it easy for you to cone up with a new storyline? Were you more critical towards the new things you wrote?
Thanks!
Kind regards,
0Seth0
1 year
Great recipe! If you have any other high calorie recipies, let me know!
1 year
Wow. Rhis is exactly what I'm struggling with. I'm in a relationship with the love of my life yet she has no idea I'm into feederism. The further we got in our relationship the more it became a bother for me that I hide this for her and that I can't express my true sexual desires. We've occasionally got into a conversation where we ask each other about kinks or fetishes but even then I was too afraid to tell her something about it. She has a little belly, and I occasionally grab onto it while we're hugging or spooning. But she doesn't mention it.
I'm afraid that I don't have an awnser for your problem otherwise I wouldn't have the problem myself aswell. I just also want to say that the comments on this quote from other people are really kind and caring. So I hope they can help you!
1 year
