CelticBlimp:
It is an issue that can only be resolved with patience, as much as I want to live the feedee experience. They always show their true colours once things begin to get real, and in my case they always run. I'd rather give up this kink for a healthy relationship than settle for something mediocre that only pleases the other person and places all the work on me.
BigBallBellyGirl:
Give yourself some grace, and don't put so much pressure on yourself to connect right away. Relationships are hard, and I think they're a bit more complicated when there is a driving force like feedism. I'm sorry someone hurt you. Some people fatten their partner, and then leave. Some people give up if the partner needs a gaining break. On the flip side though, it is possible to connect with someone through this community who shares your interests... but also wants something deeper. I found it. I promise you can too.
Munchies:
All true things.
Also, congrats on your upcoming nuptials!
Thank you so much! We're at that weird stage where there's nothing left to worry about because we've been planning since January!! 🤣🤣
2 weeks
CelticBlimp:
It is an issue that can only be resolved with patience, as much as I want to live the feedee experience. They always show their true colours once things begin to get real, and in my case they always run. I'd rather give up this kink for a healthy relationship than settle for something mediocre that only pleases the other person and places all the work on me.
Give yourself some grace, and don't put so much pressure on yourself to connect right away. Relationships are hard, and I think they're a bit more complicated when there is a driving force like feedism. I'm sorry someone hurt you. Some people fatten their partner, and then leave. Some people give up if the partner needs a gaining break. On the flip side though, it is possible to connect with someone through this community who shares your interests... but also wants something deeper. I found it. I promise you can too.
2 weeks
Definitely soft dom, but I do like teasing. When my fiance pokes or tickles my fat belly or grabs a back roll, it drives me wild. He never humiliates me, but he does tease me about splitting seams or not being able to get through a narrow doorway. That gets my motor running too.
2 weeks
Ah, Thanksgiving!!! What's not to love? Last year, I challenged myself to my most hardcore stuffing ever, and I hit 90,000 calories over 2 days. I also gained a good bit of weight and was bloated for about a week. Since I'm getting married December 7th, I couldn't repeat that, but I did give myself a cheat day. I didn't stuff, but I did eat as much as I wanted. Yesterday morning, I was 576.2 on the scale. Today I'm 587.6, and I know a lot of that is food weight, but I'm definitely enjoying the residual fullness of my belly.
The list:
- 1 dinner plate full of mac and cheese
- 1 dinner plate full of stuffing
- 2 servings of cranberry mandarin relish
- 1 serving of broccoli casserole
- 2 servings (maybe a pound?) of turkey
- 1 serving of wild mushroom rice
- 3 servings of whipped sweet potatoes
- 5 or 6 buttered rolls
- 2 cheddar biscuits
- 2 pieces of apple pie
- 1 piece of cherry pie
- 4 cinnamon cookies
- Snacks from a cheese and charcuterie platter
- 2 glasses of wine
- Lots of sweet tea
Of course, the side effect is ravenous hunger this morning. I had a small breakfast, and now I'm drinking hot tea to stave off all the cravings! Otherwise, I'll be busting out of my wedding dress.
2 weeks
Last year, I got too fat for my Toyota Camry. I had been making small adjustments for quite a while, like seat belt extenders and pedal extensions. Eventually, I got big enough that none of those adaptations were enough, and I upgraded to a minivan. I do struggle a bit to reach the steering wheel because I'm very belly heavy, so I don't drive often or far. I think if I gained another 50 lb (which I'm not planning on), I'd no longer be able to drive at all.
2 weeks
I suppose mine is a hyper exaggerated version of something I actually did in real life at peak gaining. During several periods of growth, I barely moved, eating more than 20,000 calories a day... even more if I worked at it. I would position myself on the couch or on my recliner, my belly usually bared so I wouldn't feel constrained, and stuff constantly, never allowing the pressure to subside. We spent a ridiculous amount of money on groceries during these times, and I packed on at an unreal pace.
In my fantasy version, we would take it a step further. I would increase my capacity way beyond my previous limits, eventually working my way up to 70 or 80,000 calories a day, and gaining so quickly every single ounce went to my belly. Within a few short weeks, I would be so fat (700lb. +) I would have to put my gut on a rolling walker to move around, and I would be unable to wedge myself out of the door.
3 weeks
I love when my fiance shakes my belly. Because it's very round and quite firm for its size, it's more of a bounce than a jiggle. The only thing better is getting so utterly packed with food, it barely shakes at all!
3 weeks
BigBallBellyGirl:
Mine is fairly boring, as it's just extreme stuffing, but it worked. I would fill up at breakfast, stuffing past my limit on heavy, fattening food until I felt like there was no way I could swallow another mouthful. Immediately when the pressure subsided the slightest bit, I would eat something else, aiming to feel a little tighter than before. I ensured I didn't go more than an hour without eating. Occasionally, when I felt absolutely fit to burst, I would stretch myself more with liquid. Doing this put 80 pounds on me in two months during summer 2023, and it increased my capacity to the point it was easy to eat 20,000 calories or more a day and never feel stuffed. I eventually no longer even had digestive issues from eating like this because I adjusted. There were only two drawbacks, the first being the extreme cost of food. Groceries were our biggest monthly expense at my gaining peak. Second, once you've become accustomed to such gluttony, it's VERY hard to cut back. Initially, when I was tapering, I felt like I was starving on 10,000 calories a day.
Kacchan:
80 pounds in 2 months???? I can't imagine your joints were too pleased with you - that seems so extreme.
I cannot imagine how much you were eating to hit 20k per day.
Stayff55:
She's making records in the community 👍
With some major medical consequences, which is why I had to stop. I'm currently 578. If my body and health could handle it, I'd gladly gain another hundred pounds, but alas ...
That said, as far as what I was eating... For a time, our food budget by far exceeded every other expense in the house. I was eating something at least just about every hour, and an average breakfast would often be something like six eggs, 10 sausage patties, A bowl of fruit, a pound of breakfast potatoes, a bowl of cereal, and three biscuits. My blood pressure, cholesterol, knees, back, hips, and heart hated me for it, but my capacity became enormous, and it helped me put on weight ike crazy.
4 weeks
When I was briefly 190 several years back and I regained to 225 at first, the difference was dramatic. I went from looking like a thick girl with a pot belly to having a big, pregnant looking ball gut. At my current size, I don't look observably different at 550 versus 580.
1 month
