Turned on by yourself

ScandinavianFA:
Does anyone masturbate/fantasize to your own fat body? If so, what parts about it turn you on the most?


Well, sure! My turn-on, when I was hard core stuffing, was the way my belly looked and felt when I would stuff tens of thousands of calories in a day. There's something about your fat being stretched taught across your hard gut because it's distended with pounds and pounds of food.i also find the dangerous sensation of maximum pressure to be very erotic. There's something about genuinely feeling like you couldn't possibly swallow one more bite, and being so bloated and heavy you can't stand. Until, of course, you need to use the restroom...
3 weeks

Improving capacity

DoughyDane:
I’ve seen definite improvement in my capacity! When I started really trying to get big around 9 months ago, I could eat a decent meal and be full in no time.

I started doing a daily soda bloat, and would gradually increase the amount of soda each time. In the start I could do like 2 liters an I was in pain, now however I can chug a good 8 liters before it starts to hurt🤩

So with the soda bloats I think I stretched my stomach quite a bit cause I ended up being hungry all the time and didn’t ever really feel full when eating. Which might explain an almost 80 pound weight gain in a little over 4 months 😅

Munchies:
Careful. 80 lbs in 4 months is not sustainable. Setting yourself up for a wold of hurt.

DoughyDane:
yeah it wasn't sutainable... i ended dropping down around 30 pounds shortly after, but the rest of the weight has stuck around 😅


I hear from many people the weight from rapid gains doesn't stick. The flip side of that is when you stretch your stomach permanently and weight gain becomes very difficult to control. That happened to me.

I've always been fat, and I've never had trouble putting away a big meal. At one point, on medical advise, I got down to 190 ,which, while still obese, is my lowest adult weight. Not liking it one bit, I started gaining on purpose, and that ultimately led to an obsession with rapid gains and very extreme stuffings. I funneled, I took appetamin, I chugged, and my stuffings became bigger and bigger. I was blowing up at an unbelievable rate, including one gaining spurr of 80 pounds in two months and a gain of 55 pounds between Christmas and New Years. I was eating 25,000 or more calories everyday, and eventually that no longer filled me up. It I had a 10,000 calorie day, I felt like I hadn't eaten at all. I reached what I thought was my absolute weight cap of 500 in December 2023. The thing is, my stomach didn't get that message. As it turns out, I did permanent damage that would require surgery to reverse, and I'm currently too big, at 650, for that surgery. So I struggle... Every day... to keep my calories at maintenance and drink tons of water, but I still feel like I'm starving. And then I have weak moments. A couple of weeks ago, I had a few triggering experiences, and I went to food for comfort. I gained 12 pounds, and despite shoveling down tens of thousands of calories (and feeling nauseated by grease once), I never once felt truly full. I said all this to say, it's possible to stretch your stomach irreversibly and destroy your fullness signals, which creates a risk of other complications.
1 month

Ai generated content, yay or nay?

Strongly agree with Munchies. My husband is a dom, but he's my husband and partner first. Since I had heart surgery last year, he's completely adjusted the way he engages with this kink. Instead of feeding and stuffing me, he's gotten into a lot of belly play and other activities. That's because makes decisions with his brain and his heart, not his dick. If the opposite were true, that's when an ethical question would be in play.
1 month

Being fat at a theme park

Slayright:
Has anyone had any interesting experiences as a fat person at a theme park ie. Going on a rollercoaster and filling multiple seats. Or just eating lots of food at a park.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I was about 250lb. when I last visited a theme park. It was July, and I sweated profusely even then. Now I'm around 650lb. I'd go if there were enough non-ride attractions, i.e. Epcot or Dollywood, or to see holiday decorations or shows. I'd need my own scooter, and it would also have to be during the cool months.

Munchies:
Went to Dollywood with my 400 lbs partner. He didn't get on any of the rides (although he still wouldn't have gotten on the rides even if he could fit because he doesn't do heights). But he still had a lot of fun.

Lots of fun things to see and do, even if you don't get on the rides. Although he did get on this lazy river ride. He had to get a seatbelt extender, but he fit just fine.


I'm also reeeeally not a fan of heights. A few years ago, a friend bought a condo on the 18th floor of a building, and she was very excited to have a balcony. The view is coveted, but I never went beyond the doorway. I may be a scaredy cat, but that's a hard no for me!
1 month

Scales... which ones

The Wicked Pear:
I imagine that it must be stressful when you find a doctor you like who treats you as a person, not as a diet issue, and then find you exceed their equipment. Do you find the U-line scale worth the purchase?


Oh, I found the cost ridiculous initially, so I went through several cheaper models first. Not only did the cost add up, but they also tended to read errors even when I was a good bit below capacity. So yes, I'm glad I got this one. It's worked well for 18 months now.
1 month

Outgrowing everything!

Sweetfattie:
I love outgrowing clothes so much. Squeezing myself into clothes that are bursting at the seams is the hottest thing ever. Unfortunately, I just can't afford to replace my wardrobe right now, so I'm maintaining at my current weight. All the cheap clothes are made of horrid polyester and I have texture issues with that.

I'm making do with breaking out my old clothes once in a while to try and pour myself into them.


I have a lot of texture issues too! I need soft cottons or airy linens. Plus, the areas where my skin is most stretched, like my belly and hips seem even more sensitive to anything not breathable. I've put on weight recently so my wardrobe is currently supersized T-shirts, stretchable shorts, and two summer dresses in sort of a mumu style. I'm currently saving money for bigger winter clothes since last year's bottoms are too small (they cut into me) and tops reveal my belly and sides
1 month

Being fat at a theme park

Slayright:
Has anyone had any interesting experiences as a fat person at a theme park ie. Going on a rollercoaster and filling multiple seats. Or just eating lots of food at a park.


I was about 250lb. when I last visited a theme park. It was July, and I sweated profusely even then. Now I'm around 650lb. I'd go if there were enough non-ride attractions, i.e. Epcot or Dollywood, or to see holiday decorations or shows. I'd need my own scooter, and it would also have to be during the cool months.
1 month

Scales... which ones

The Wicked Pear:
It is just that I've crested the 700 lbs. mark a few times in the past, so while xl-700 is nice I've had a few times it has errored out. I'd rather know how much I'm over, opposed to, hmm I must be bigger now, because i can't get my favored jeans over my thighs


I'm around 650 pounds and use an industrial platform scale from Uline. It's a Deluxe model with a 1,300 pound capacity. It seems to be reliable, but I have nothing to compare it to since I now exceed the capacity of the scales at my doctors' offices
1 month

A kink you have that you bet no one else has?

I'm pretty sure this is going to be a unique one. I'm short, but I've always been obsessed with how much my belly and midsection expands when I sit down and have nowhere to go but out. I'm already practically round when I stand. When I sit, I almost look like an oval on its side. The difference between my standing waist and sitting waist, as big as I am, is nearly 2 ft.
1 month

Weight gain and cholesterol

Art Tool:
Hi There,

Im asking on behalf of my girlfriend, is it possible to gain weight in a 'healthy way' that doesnt impact your cholesterol or blood pressure too negatively and if so what would be the best foods/ways of doing this be?

To give you the full picture. I came out to my partner that I was into this kink about 7 months ago. To my delight she shared my interest in it and feeding has been a feature of the relationship since. She has gained some weight and is now around 220lb (we dont know exactly), is 5'6" and 23 years old. She had a doctors appointment concerning her thyroid last week and after a call back they said that she had some health issues including high cholesterol, obesity and a thyroid that will require medication. She has been told to diet and there is a long list of foods she isnt allowed to eat which includes dairy, sugar, rice, tofu, watermelon, pretty much anything fun.

We both feel bummed out by this and I think it has been abit of a reality check. Obviously this kink is innately unhealthy but having a doctor put it in black and white like this isnt much fun. We would like to keep the feeding and ideally keep gaining weight but that seems at odds with what the doctor is asking and with long term health.

What are other peoples relationships like with feeding and long term health? Is it a concern? Do people ignore it? Are there any work arounds available? Any help would be appreciated, thank you.


You're thinking with your head instead of your hormones, and I love that. Kudos to you.

I do believe there is a safer, albeit slower way to gain that involves maintaining physical activity and healthier food choices. I didn't choose the healthier path, and not to say I have regrets, but there are definitely consequences. You two are thinking about it at the right time rather than 100 pounds down the road. The earlier you are on the journey, the easier it is to change trains and still reach your ultimate destination.

I'm afraid there are no hacks unfortunately. Your path forward is probably going to be bigger quantities or more frequent meals that include lean proteins, healthy fats, and a good portion of green things. She can absolutely indulge, and if stuffing is an interest, it can also be worked in as a periodic treat. Be careful about not making it a daily thing though. A massive appetite and stretched stomach are verrrry hard to reverse. Take it from a 650 pound woman who fights cravings daily, despite health issues.

Final piece of advice-- she needs a doctor she trusts, not one who shames her or pushes her to lose weight as the end-all be-all. No doctor is going to give an outright blessing to obesity, but you do want someone who respects her as a person.

Very best of luck to the two of you.
1 month
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