I don't want to gain weight myself, but I love big bellies and heavy-set men, and I enjoy feeding and stuffing such men. Apart from the men I’ve fed, no one knows about this fetish, and I have no intention of talking about it; I have nothing to gain and no reason to do so. For me, it remains something intimate and personal, and I am under no obligation to discuss it even though I know my family is open-minded enough to accept it, despite the fact that they would likely feel uncomfortable and shocked if they found out.

The only people who know are the "feedees" and friends I’ve met on Grommr.

Hi, what do you usually do, and what are your fetishes and kinks?

Also, I know that a lot of people in the "gainer" community are into burping, or big, burly guys who eat messily and get food all over themselves.

You could also try switching up the settings or doing some roleplay like dressing up as a salaryman pigging out at his desk, or a construction worker, cop, doctor, and so on and acting out short little scenarios.

Have people ever worshipped your belly? Or have you ever worshipped someone else's belly?

How did it happen, and under what circumstances?

That's cute 😊

And pray to live in the right geographical area.

Hi, I’ve always been into men with big, hairy bellies; I eventually stumbled upon "feederism" online, and it became one of my fetishes.

As for my family, I don't talk to them about it—they don't need to know anyway. The same goes for my friends, except for the big guys I met on Grommr.

I love big men with big teddy bear-like paws 🐻🧸

The kind of paw where I can't even wrap my hand all the way around the wrist 🥴🥵

I wanted to write this because, honestly, I feel a bit ashamed.

I have a Reddit account one I don’t visit often that I use solely to share and talk about my kinks and fetishes.

One day, I received a message calling me a “fucking weirdo,” along with several others telling me I was disgusting. Far from being offended, I actually found them funny. I realized that I enjoyed the fact that people were outraged, shocked, and disgusted by what I’d written. When I think about it, I find it a bit pathetic to enjoy that—and I feel somewhat ashamed of it, too. Especially since the anonymity of Reddit meant I wasn’t taking any real risks; if someone had said those things to my face in real life, I obviously would have taken it badly, which makes my reaction seem even more pathetic. But I have no control over that or how I feel; when I get those comments, I either don’t reply or just write a sarcastic “thanks.” Sometimes I wonder what’s wrong with me. Maybe i’m just fucking stupid.

Ever since I was very young, I’ve been obsessed with men who have big, hairy bellies. It was my original fetish, and over time I developed other kinks and fetishes related to big bellies such as “burp” (which I associate with the bellies of men who have just eaten their fill) or even vore. Virtually all my kinks and fetishes are linked to big bellies and revolve around that primary fetish.

What about you? What other kinks and fetishes do you have, besides your attraction to fat and fat people ?

Me too.