Hey so this is always a difficult situation. You have brought up some interesting points.
If she is engaging (even if flat) that's promising. There are a lot of partners who are not willing. Are you giving the same effort back? If not and she is going the extra mile this is something to consider.
Yes therapy should be an option but it's ridiculously expensive and sometimes not covered by insurance if you specifically look for a sex therapist so all out of pocket.
Your talk with your girlfriend needs to be honest about your wants and needs and hers. See if you can compromise but keep reassuring her that you love your relationship and do not want to end it over this. You are wanting to work on solutions.
That is a healthy way of communicating
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I know this may not be the place but a story should have a label it was written by ai if posted. I used to write and would be pretty annoyed to know someone's ai work was getting more clicks than my work. Artists, writers pride themselves on their skills and ai takes the easy road.
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So have a bit experience with this. Will second etsy as you can find some good stuff. I remember seeing some cow prints on redbubble a while back. Now shorts maybe Walmart at times have had them. I know torrid had a cow top also at times.
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Bobo:
I was 19 and got a summer job in a factory. Down in the garage was a security desk occupied by a cute middle-aged woman who never seemed to get up from that chair.
She was covered in rolls of beautiful fat and she could tell I was crazy about her but I was only 19, so she didn't take me seriously as a suitor lol...that was ok. But she did tease me!
"Don't work too hard!" she'd say. "I won't!"
"Aww you get to sit all day?" I asked.
"Yup!" she said. "How do you think I got this figure?"
This. Worked with someone in my youth who was so wide, I'm talking supersized pear I never saw stand up (accountant) One day she was opening her office and she couldn't fit through her door. Had to go sideways I swear my jaw broke. She had this tiny chair too!
Sedentary jobs are easy for gains but sometimes it takes longer than usual. Slight exercise for mobility and to gain at heavier sizes is definitely a plus
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Wayyy opposite. Tried the same size, didn't work. Love contrast in a relationship
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I've worked with heavier patients that people would be surprised I could even lift up. I remember colleagues looking at me as if there is no way this guy can do it. I shocked them. When they asked how I told them I had experience. What they didn't know as a feeder who has prepared for an immobile partner, I have had a long time preparing for a partner over 600lbs. Not just lifting. The physical limitations is why a feeder is needed. It's the helpful balance of continue growth in their feedee. Once they get too big to move around on their own, a practical feeder (even if this is your first time being a feeder) can make the accommodations that their feedee will need going forward.
Part of the weight gain journey is all the extra steps that are taken to get to the destination. As long as there is a loving bond it won't be seen as just feedee and caretaker but spouse to spouse, partner to partner.
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This sounds too good to be true. Really hope this is the happily ever after for both of you.
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Yeah this is difficult. Besides models we see over 600-700lbs there are more immobile people out there either living in silence or already in a relationship. Finding one that is single, is willing to open up, and for you to find is harder than diamond.
A lot of people at that size, especially alone, suffer from a lot of mental challenges and may not want to stay that size, especially just for a partner.
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