Even though I have always had this kink somewhere in the back or forefront of my mind all my gaining has been unintentional. I used to be very conflicted about it but I’m more accepting of it now - where I gain I enjoy it!
1 month
Ah yes the itching and tingling on the skin! You know there’s no going back then the stretch marks are a-coming
1 month
Fatgirlbelly:
I feel for you! It’s really really difficult I know. I’ve had this kink all my life and have struggled with the inner turmoil of it for years. I have never intentionally gained it’s always been just a matter of circumstances. No one can tell you what you should do because only you know deep down what really makes you happy. I have lost weight and have found a happy medium between health and fatness, maybe that’s what you need to do too. Maybe discuss with your girlfriend too? You need to find where you would need to be to accept yourself fully, where the answer is usually a mental battle more than a physical one. Good luck!
Randydoe:
Thank you!! It’s something my girlfriend and I do discuss often, I’m lucky in that she cares more about my health and wellbeing more than this kink we share. I feel a bit bad going back and forth with her about what I want from my body. I guess that is the struggle of this fetish.
That’s really good that you have that support, it makes all the difference. Maybe give yourself a goal and see how you feel. Either way. If you think the 250 will niggle at you go for it and then plan to lose in a healthy way afterwards. What I would be aware of is the bigger you go the more permanent issues you may have when you lose weight - things like stretch marks or lose skin so be aware of that if you think it may bother you. It may help with your decision to go to 250 or not
1 month
I am more this way now. I was at a wedding last weekend and talking with a chubby friend and a pregnant friend. The chubby one said to me - aww look at her belly, it’s not fair people like us wouldn’t be celebrated if we had our bellies showing in dresses like that!
First of all - Rude! 😂 that might have offended me at one time but it didn’t I kinda loved it being pointed out that I have a big belly
2 - you have know idea how much some would celebrate it! 😉
What I actually said in response was - “actually I’m on a mission to make the belly more acceptable! We should all be able to show it off like this! All hail the belly!” - not sure they realised how serious I was 😂
And if I HAD worn the dress that I ordered that was way too small, I’d have been more than showing it off 🙄 instead of wearing it for the wedding I’ll post some pics up now for you guys and gals who may appreciate it more!
1 month
I feel for you! It’s really really difficult I know. I’ve had this kink all my life and have struggled with the inner turmoil of it for years. I have never intentionally gained it’s always been just a matter of circumstances. No one can tell you what you should do because only you know deep down what really makes you happy. I have lost weight and have found a happy medium between health and fatness, maybe that’s what you need to do too. Maybe discuss with your girlfriend too? You need to find where you would need to be to accept yourself fully, where the answer is usually a mental battle more than a physical one. Good luck!
1 month
Struggled to pick between A & C in every one lol but mostly A I think! 🤔 Love me a nurturing, protective dominant who knows when to be assertive 😌
1 month
Forever the "Inbetweener"
Too much for one standard.
Not enough for another.
It's exhausting. Not because anyone has done anything wrong. Not because anyone is to blame.
Everyone is entitled to fantasy. But it doesn't negate from the feeling that I'll never be "enough"
I need somewhere I can stop competing.
Somewhere I feel safe and chosen. Where I am desired & accepted enough to enjoy this part of myself again without worrying that one eye is always on somebody bigger, smaller, younger, prettier or more extreme.
A gorgeous soul I met here once told me I should "uncouple how I look from how I should feel" about myself because it was everything else that made me "super sexy" and not how fat I am, even in this space.
So, to all my fellow inbetweeners -
If a connection consistently leaves you feeling less than then it's worth asking if it's still worth pursuing.
You don't have to be the biggest.
You don't have to be the smallest.
You don't have to be the most extreme version of anything.
You deserve to be celebrated as the whole package - as you.
1 month
Fatgirlbelly:
There’s nearly 6 years between me and my sister. She’s always been slim. I’ve been lucky she’s never made fun of my weight. As we’ve gotten older she’s gotten really into CrossFit and the like and I got fatter. People say we look really alike in our mannerisms and faces so I’m sure I’m looked at as a “fat version”
Shadowddr:
Do you do things together? Go to parties? movies? Double date? Has there been any rivalry (in terms of whether you should eat this or less, and how to live life, like her telling you to do sports)? Also, who is more social between the two of you?
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Yeh we used to be really close and did a lot together. I was the one who “partied” more back in the day. It’s pretty even now. She’s never made me feel bad but my parents did put pressure on. She’d be allowed treats and I wasn’t because I didn’t “need” them. It was never her that compared of made me feel less than/too much, it was mainly my Mum
2 months
There’s nearly 6 years between me and my sister. She’s always been slim. I’ve been lucky she’s never made fun of my weight. As we’ve gotten older she’s gotten really into CrossFit and the like and I got fatter. People say we look really alike in our mannerisms and faces so I’m sure I’m looked at as a “fat version”
2 months
EatingLikeAGoodBoy:
I’ll admit I’ve done this once or twice. Both times being because someone was threatening/harrasing me about something.
I wasn’t particularly worried about my life being at risk, but it’s really irritating when you’re constantly being harassed about not sending pics, eating constantly, etc. So it’s just easy to remake an account when someone is constantly on your 🍑. I try to avoid deleting my account though because I know it’s really irritating to meet someone with similar interests just for then to vanish.
Yeh I get that, I have deleted a past account. It’s just the sheer amount seems unusually high and quick. Especially appreciators/Feeders.
2 months
