Those who want intimacy don't want to jump the gun. They want to know the person better other than solely being attracted to them.

From my personal experiences as a woman on my old account, (my gender is hidden on my profile) some of the guys that DM me reek of desperation and suddenly are in love with me despite briefly talking a bit. Which is a giant red flag.

This isn't to bash the person above me and I do hope he finds a deep connection. But I interpret the comment is putting the blame on most women when in reality it's in the fault of patriarchy issues and the rise of loneliness/mental health in this modern society. Plus other people working so many hours which hinders wanting to pursue a serious relationship.

I hope my comment doesn't come off as blunt or meanspirited.

I can 100% resonate with this. Even right now I have been overthinking about my career paths and fearing what happens if I chose my "risky" dream freelance job or failed in college and so on.

It doesn't help that this website doesn't have a proper blocking feature. You can still see the comments and even avatars of people that you blocked on the forums. I also have heard in the past that blocked people can apparently respond to you. There is one person in particular I don't want to see and they are very active in the community. I can still see their comments on this thread.

I want to cut back on getting lattes from coffee shops for money reasons. I've been trying to think of other sweet drinks that don't break the bank.

I thought about making smoothies from frozen fruit. I found a recipe for a pina colada smoothie (no alcohol) which sounded pretty good! Unfortunately, they don't have frozen pineapple at my Costco so maybe I can just chop a fresh pineapple and freeze it.

Do you guys have a favorite sweet drink that isn't too expensive?